228. I love him and I'm married BUT The SEX just isn't it 😢

About this episode

The episode explores the complexities of love and intimacy in relationships, discussing how past experiences and emotional safety impact desire.

In this episode, we unpack a conversation that feels vulnerable but so real… what do you do when you love your partner, feel attracted to him, but struggle with intimacy in the bedroom? We talk about comparison being the thief of joy, how past chemistry can quietly impact your present relationship, and the pressure of wanting passion to feel effortless. This is not about blaming a “soft” man or chasing stereotypes, it is about understanding desire, polarity, emotional safety and the stories we carry from past connections. If you have ever wondered why love does not always equal fire, this episode will feel honest, nuanced and freeing 🤍 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

People in this episode

Hosts: Ashy, Tijana

Topics covered

• intimacy
• relationships
• desire
• emotional safety
• past connections
• chemistry

Keywords

• intimacy
• relationships
• desire
• emotional safety
• chemistry
• passion
• vulnerability

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