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#345: In this solo episode, I’m kicking off a brand new series for the month of May all about betting on yourself—what it actually means, how to do it, and why it’s the foundation of creating your own luck.This episode is also deeply personal.It’s been a full year since the show rebranded to She’s So Lucky, and I almost let that anniversary pass without really sitting with it. But when I finally did, it forced me to reflect, not just on how far the show has come, but on how much I’ve changed.What I realized is this: everything we talk about here—luck, success, opportunity, being that girl only works if you’re actually willing to bet on yourself first.And not in a surface-level, motivational-quote way. I’m talking about:Making decisions that don’t make sense to other people. Letting go of identities that no longer fit. Taking risks before you feel fully ready. And continuing to show up, even when the outcome isn’t guaranteedThis episode is about stepping into the version of yourself who plays to win, instead of waiting for permission, validation, or a better hand.This episode is for you if…You feel like you’ve outgrown a version of your life, career, or identity but don’t fully know what’s nextYou’ve been waiting for validation, clarity, or the “perfect moment” to make a moveYou’re tired of comparing your path to other people’s timelines or opportunitiesYou know you’re capable of more, but you’re not fully acting on it yetYou’re navigating a pivot and need permission to trust your own vision.You want to start taking yourself seriously and making moves accordinglyKeep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comSponsors:Cotton: Learn more at TheFabricOfOurLives.com, and follow along at @discovercotton using #ShopCotton.Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlIM8: Go to IM8HEALTH.com and use code LUCKY. You’ll get a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets, and 10% off your order.Rula: Visit Rula.com/lucky to get started. After you sign up, you’ll be asked how you heard about them — please support the show and let them know we sent you.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#343: In this week’s installment of the Lucky Girls Invest series, I’m sitting down with entrepreneur, investor, and founder of Create & Cultivate, Jaclyn Johnson, for a conversation that completely reframed how I think about money, power, and investing.Jaclyn was actually the person who helped me make my first angel investment—so this episode feels especially full circle.We get into what it really looks like to go from operator to investor, how she built and exited a multi-million dollar business, and why angel investing might be more accessible than you think.But beyond the numbers, this is really a conversation about ownership… of your career, your capital, and your future. Because there’s a difference between chasing opportunities and being the person who gets to fund them.This episode is for you if…You’re ready to stop chasing opportunities and start becoming the person who decides who gets a seat at the tableYou’ve been curious about angel investing, but need someone to actually break down how it worksYou want to understand the real difference between angel investing and venture capitalYou’re wondering when to raise money, how much to raise, and what mistakes to avoid earlyYou’ve ever questioned whether you’re “thinking big enough”—and want to understand why the boldest vision in the room often gets fundedYou want to learn how to spot founders who actually winYou’re interested in building wealth beyond your primary incomeYou need proof that one aligned decision can change everything (like turning a $10K investment into a $1.2M outcome)Episode Links:Follow Jaclyn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jaclynrjohnson/Follow Create & Cultivate on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createcultivate/Follow Cherub on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/investwithcherub/To learn more about Cherub, visit: https://www.investwithcherub.com/To learn more about Creative & Cultivate, visit: https://www.createcultivate.com/Sponsors:Quince: Refresh your spring wardrobe with Quince. Go to quince.com/BALANCEDLESS for free shipping and 365-day returns. NOBULL: Visit www.nobullproject.com and use code DMLUCKY for 35% off your entire FIRST order. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at shopify.com/balancedblackgirlMomentous: Momentous is offering our listeners up to 35% off your first order with promo code LUCKY. Head to livemomentous.com and use promo code lucky for up to 35% off your first order.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#341: This month on She's So Lucky, we're kicking off Lucky Girls Invest — a full month of conversations dedicated to investing in our luck, and our futures.April is Financial Literacy Month, and I wanted to kick off the series with a candid conversation about investing that I genuinely wish someone had with me when I was younger.In this solo episode, I'm sharing my personal investing origin story — from growing up with a scarce mentality to accidentally opening a 401k at 20 years old as a college intern because someone said the words "employer match" and "free money." That one decision, that I barely even understood at the time, has been compounding for over 15 years and could potentially fund my retirement on its own.I'm also getting into the moment that changed how I think about money, power, and who gets to make the decisions — because there is a fundamental difference between being someone who's always chasing a deal and being someone who gets to write the check. That shift in perspective is why I'm so passionate about this series, why I made my first angel investment, and why I want more of us in these rooms.We're spending all of April talking about the different ways you can invest through conversations that will help redefine what generational wealth means to you. But first, I wanted to set the stage and give you the "why" behind all of it. Because investing isn't just a financial strategy. It's an act of hope. And right now, hope feels like a radical thing.This episode is for you if...You grew up without a lot of financial education and feel like you're playing catch-up.You've been told that a good job is enough — and you're starting to wonder if that's actually true.You don't have a ton of money right now, but you want to understand investing before you do.You feel like certain opportunities — angel investing, venture capital, real estate — are for "other people" and not for you.You've been in rooms where other people were making the big decisions, and you're ready to be the one calling the shots.You want to understand the difference between investing in yourself and investing your money — and why you need both.You're ready to stop begging for someone to give you a shot and start thinking about how to be the one who gives shots.You believe in a future worth building toward — even when it's hard to see right now.Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comSponsors:IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials gives you the benefits of 16 different supplements in one. Go to im8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a Free Welcome Kit, five free travel sachets plus ten percent off your order.Shopify: Visit shopify.com/balancedblackgirl for your $1 per month trial.NOBULL: Visit www.nobullproject.com and use code DMLUCKY for 35% off your entire first order.Bask & Lather: Go to baskandlatherco.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off.UnF*ck Your Brain Podcast: If you’re ready to take control of your thoughts – listen to UnF*ck Your Brain, wherever you get your podcasts.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#339: All month long on The Business of You series, we’ve been talking about building, but what happens when you feel the pull to walk away? That’s what we’re covering in our final installment with Essence Iman, ex-founder, writer, and the voice behind Slutty Founder, one of the most honest and entertaining spaces on the internet for real talk about business.Essence built an award-winning, cult-favorite body care brand from just $200. She gained industry recognition, built a real community around it, and then did something most people couldn't wrap their heads around: she walked away, happily and on purpose.In this conversation, we get into what it really means to trust yourself enough to close a chapter — and why that decision doesn't have to come with a catastrophe attached to it. We talk about the founder mentality and what all of us, business owners or not, can learn from it. Essence breaks down why you should never take yourself off the pedestal, what it means to tell your story like you know how you got there, and why "you know what you’re doing" might be the most underrated piece of advice.We also get into the beauty industry — why it's become so crowded, why it continues to be such a difficult place to build, and where Essence thinks the real opportunities are for women ready to build something different.This episode is for you if:You're questioning whether it's time to walk away from something — a job, a business, a chapter.You struggle with imposter syndrome or have a hard time owning your wins out loud.You've been thinking about starting a business but feel locked into the idea that it has to look a certain way.You want to understand what a portfolio career actually looks like in practice.You need someone to remind you that your success is not an accident.You're building something and want the kind of real, unfiltered founder perspective you're not going to find in a business book.Episode Links:Learn more about Essence & Slutty Founder, go to sluttyfounder.comFollow Essence on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/essenceiman/Follow Essence on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@essenceiman?lang=enSubscribe to Slutty Founder on Substack: https://www.sluttyfounder.com/Sponsors:Free People Movement: Visit fpmovement.com to shop their full line of activewear.Rula: Rula makes it easier to find licensed therapists and psychiatrists who are actually in-network with your insurance. Visit rula.com/lucky to get started.NOBULL: Exclusively for She’s So Lucky listeners, NOBULL is offering 35% off your first order. Visit nobullproject.com and use code DMLUCKY for 35% off your entire first order.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTok @theluckylesFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#337: Dry January + finding inspiration in the group chat can lead to a compelling fresh start.In this week’s episode of The Business of You series, I'm joined by the founders of Sensori. Three best friends who took their business idea out of the group chat and into the world. Built on their shared curiosity around wellness, Shanna, Ashlyn, and Darean built a fast-growing functional beverage brand.We talk about what it really looks like to build a business with your friends, the messy middle of figuring it out as you go, and why sometimes the smartest move is to move fast and trust that you’ll figure the rest out along the way.From putting the first formulation on a credit card to raising their first round of capital and navigating the very real challenges of scaling a product business, this conversation highlights the what it actually takes to go from idea to execution without sugarcoating or glamorizing the early stages.This episode is for you if:You’ve thought about starting something with your friends and wondered if the idea in the group chat could become a real business.You’re curious what it actually takes to launch a physical product.You want an honest look at funding a business and betting on yourself.You’re interested in cutting back on alcohol.You want to understand how founders handle selling out of inventory.You want insight into scaling from DTC to retail and distribution.You’re building a brand and trying to turn audience into revenue.Episode Links:To learn more about Sensori visit: https://drinksensori.com/Follow Sensori on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drinksensoriFollow Sensori on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drinksensoriRead Darean’s pick, Blitzscaling: The Lightning-Fast Path to Building Massively Valuable Companies by Chris Yeh and Reid HoffmanSponsors:FP Movement: Visit fpmovement.com to shop their full line of activewear and workout gear.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.Honeylove: Save 20% Off Honeylove by going to honeylove.com/LUCKY! #honeylovepodNuuly: Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Nuuly is an incredible value at $98 for any 6 styles, and right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up at nuuly.com and enter code LUCKY at checkout.Square: Right now, you can get up to $200 off Square hardware at square.com/go/luckyConnect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#335: In this months solo episode I'm kicking off our series for the month of March, The Business of You, by having a very real conversation about what it actually means to be the CEO of your life.I’m getting candid on where I actually am in my business right now — the uncomfortable questions I’m sitting with, the pressure of building something meaningful in a world that only seems to reward numbers, and what it feels like when your vision refuses to fit into a neat little content box. This episode is about identifying your real assets, cutting your liabilities, reclaiming your agency, and making CEO-level decisions for your life. Even when you’re still in the messy middle and don’t have it all figured out.Let’s build the business of you intentionally and strategically.This episode is for you if…You’ve been building something quietly and you’re wondering if it’s enough.You feel the tension between staying authentic and doing what “works.”You know you’re capable of more, but you’ve been waiting to be chosen instead of deciding to choose yourself.You’re tired of being valuable to everyone else but unclear on how to value yourself.You’ve been focused on what you don’t have instead of learning how to leverage the cards you do have.You want to stop moving like an employee in your own life and start thinking strategically about your assets, your liabilities, and your equity.You’re ready to make at least one CEO-level decision this month. One that protects your peace, raises your standards, and moves you closer to your long-term vision.Keep in Touch with Les:Use code LES50 for $50 off of Botox at PeachyReady to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comSponsors:Osea: Give your skin a rest with clean, clinically tested skincare from OSEA. Get 10% off your first order site wide with code BBG at OSEAMalibu.com.ButcherBox: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between organic ground beef, chicken breast or ground turkey in every box for a year, PLUS $20 off when you go to butcherbox.com/lucky.Rula: This year, make one change you can actually stick with. Visit Rula.com/lucky to get started with mental health care that’s actually built to last. #rulapodRW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day. Morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Nuuly: Upgrade your wardrobe by subscribing to Nuuly. Nuuly is an incredible value at $98 for any 6 styles, and right now you can get $28 off your first month when you sign up at nuuly.com and enter code LUCKY at checkout.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#333: If you’ve been telling yourself you want more, but your actions haven’t caught up yet… this episode is your nudge to close that gap.In this week’s installment of the How to Get What You Want series, I’m joined by journalist, creator, and professional question-asker, the incomparable, Danielle Robay.This conversation is a masterclass in what happens when you stop waiting and start moving.We talk about the discipline of betting on yourself, the courage it takes to walk away from spaces that undervalue you, and why curiosity might be the most underrated success strategy there is. Danielle didn’t just hope for opportunity — she positioned herself for it, executed on it, and kept going even when the answer was no over and over again.Because the truth is, luck favors the woman who’s already moving. The one who put herself at the bus stop — prepared, decisive and ready to get on when the door opens.This episode is for you if…Your curiosity is pulling you in a new direction.You want to question everything.You need the reminder that luck favors the people who prepare, show up and take the shot.You say you want more yet you’re still negotiating with your comfort zone.You’re done romanticizing your potential and are ready to execute.You know you’re meant for more and you’re finally ready to move like it.You’re ready to stop fearing rejection and understand that trying is what creates momentum and success.Episode Links:Follow Danielle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/daniellerobay/Follow Danielle on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@daniellerobayListen to Danielle’s Podcast Question Everything: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/question-everything/id1550883345Follow Danielle on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEzBqnMsqkOI09wW7EJyu5AFor everything else, check out Danielle’s Website: https://www.daniellerobay.com/Sponsors:Quince: Visit quince.com/BALANCEDLES to get free shipping and 365-day returns.Nutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter the promo code BALANCEDLES.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.ButcherBox: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between organic ground beef, chicken breast or ground turkey in every box for a year, PLUS $20 off when you go to butcherbox.com/lucky.Connect with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterSubscribe to The Lucky Playbook on Substack: https://lesalfred.substack.com/Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#331: In this unfiltered solo episode, I break down why February is about claiming what’s yours and what it really takes to get what you want. Not the aesthetic version. Not the “manifest and wait” version. The real version: with clarity, courage, discipline, and having that dog in you.From recognizing your unfair advantage, to building the capacity to hold bigger dreams, to shooting your shot even when you’re scared, I walk you through how luck is actually built through bold decisions, uncomfortable growth, and choosing yourself even when it feels risky✨ In this episode:I share personal stories about how early conditioning and outside voices can plant desires in us that aren’t actually oursWhy it’s crucial to get honest about what you truly want (not what you’ve been told to want)I tell you the truth about “being humble” and why it makes you smallLeaning into your real gifts instead of copying others and why that alignment is keyWhy the people closest to you may struggle the most with your growthHow to protect your dreams without cutting everyone offHow to unlock your unfair advantage, shoot your shot and get louder about your desiresIf you’ve been feeling a pull toward something bigger but haven’t given yourself full permission to be honest about what you want, this episode is your wake-up call.Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comSponsors:Osea: Give your skin a rest with clean, clinically tested skincare from OSEA. Get 10% off your first order site wide with code BBG at OSEAMalibu.com.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Rula: This year, make one change you can actually stick with. Visit Rula.com/lucky to get started — mental health care that’s actually built to last. #rulapodLeesa: Go to Leesa.com for their President’s Day Early Access Sale through February 9th to get 25% off mattresses, plus get an extra $50 off with promo code LUCKY, exclusive for my listeners.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#329: If you need confirmation that it’s okay to follow a path that isn’t linear, this episode is it. In this week’s installment of the Breaking the Rules series, I chat with entrepreneur, investor, and creative multi-hyphenate Hannah Bronfman about rewriting timelines, releasing perfection, and trusting the turns that lead you exactly where you’re meant to be.From building businesses and investing in women’s health to evolving publicly and creating a life beyond rigid five-year plans, Hannah shares what it really means to break out of the boxes you were placed in—and design your own blueprint.This episode is for you if:You’re feeling like you want to make a change, but you’re scared to let go of the identity or path you originally planned.You no longer wants to live by linear timelines or traditional ideas of success.You want to build wealth, invest in, and support women-owned businesses but don’t know where to start.You’re ready to embrace evolution as part of creating your next chapter.You want to become more comfortable in unfamiliar spaces.Episode Links:Follow Hannah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hannahbronfman/Follow Hannah on Substack: https://substack.com/@hannahslistCheck out the CEO Club on Amazon Prime, airing on February 23rd: https://press.amazonmgmstudios.com/us/en/original-series/the-ceo-club/1Sponsors:Durable: Durable is your AI partner that creates your website, writes your content, and helps you grow online. Visit durable.com/balanced and get started with Durable for free today. When you’re ready to publish your website, use code BALANCEDLES for 30% off all plans.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Quince: Visit quince.com/BALANCEDLES to get free shipping and 365-day returns.Equip: You deserve a life that isn’t ruled by food stress, shame, or constant overthinking. To learn more about Equip and see if it’s right for you, visit equip.health/lucky.Osea: Give your skin a rest with clean, clinically tested skincare from OSEA. Get 10% off your first order sitewide with code BBG at OSEAMalibu.com.Hungryroot: Take advantage of this exclusive offer: For a limited time get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life at hungryroot.com/lucky and use code LUCKY.Keep in Touch with Les:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#327: If you want 2026 to feel different — clearer, more aligned, less like you’re holding your breath — you’re going to have to break a few rules. Especially the quiet ones you’ve been following without realizing it.In this solo episode, we’re kicking off the year by tossing out the performative resolutions and getting honest about the unspoken rulebook that’s been running your life. You’re not behind. You’re not stuck. But you might still be living by stories, standards, and timelines that were never yours to begin with.This is about rewriting those scripts — and choosing yourself more boldly than you ever have before.In This Episode:The invisible rules keeping you small — and how to spot themWhy being “the good girl” is blocking your growthThe problem with playing it safe (and how to build risk tolerance)What to do with the “I should be further by now” spiralThe exact rules I broke in 2025 — and how they changed everythingThe difference between operating from your past vs. your future selfA 3-step strategy to build a year that feels luckyHow to take bold action without burning yourself outWhy rebellion can be soft, focused, and wildly effectiveThe rules I’m leaving behind this year — and what I’m replacing them withYou’re not here to play by invisible rules anymore. You’re here to design something intentional — and this is where that begins.Episode Links:Ready to apply what you hear? Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter to get weekly episode guides and journal prompts: https://shessolucky.kit.com/newsletterFollow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Durable: Durable is your AI partner that creates your website, writes your content, and helps you grow online. Visit durable.com/balanced and get started with Durable for free today. When you’re ready to publish your website, use code BALANCEDLES for 30% off all plans.Hungry Root: Go to hungryroot.com/lucky to get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Rula Online Therapy: Visit rula.com/lucky to get connected with a licensed therapist.RW Knudsen: With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day — morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between — with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you’re ready to step into your most aligned, magnetic, and wildly lucky era — this episode is for you. We're closing out the year with a roundup of the 7 most powerful, perspective-shifting lessons from the She's So Lucky conversations that had you replaying, journaling, and texting the group chat.These aren’t just motivational soundbites — they’re practical, lived-in wisdom from women who’ve made bold pivots, shut down doubt, and redefined what success looks like on their own terms.Whether you’re manifesting a fresh start, navigating a career leap, or just trying to stay focused without losing yourself in the hustle — this episode will remind you who you are, what you're capable of, and what happens when you stop waiting for permission.In This Episode:How to stop being your own biggest critic and actually back yourselfKnowing when it’s time to walk away (from a job, a relationship, or a version of you that no longer fits)The underrated superpower that took Ami Colé from idea to industry disruptorGabrielle Union on choosing softness and stillness in a loud, demanding worldThe mindset shift Alexis Barber used to unapologetically step into her confidenceHow to rebrand your life — without waiting for January 1Taylor Rooks on what to do when people underestimate you (and why that’s not always a bad thing)Whether you're traveling for the holidays, cleaning your kitchen, or vision-boarding for 2026 — save this one. It's the blueprint.Revisit the Full Episodes:Are You Being Your Own Biggest Hater? Let’s Talk About It [Bonus]How to Know When It’s Time to Leave—Your Job, Your Partner, or Your Old Self with Nicole WaltersThe Power of Focus with Diarrha N'DiayeGabrielle Union on Embracing Vulnerability, Moving Through Creative Blocks, and No Longer Going 50/50Stop Humbling Yourself: Owning Your Confidence with Alexis BarberHow to Rebrand Your Life in 2025How to Win When People Underestimate You with Taylor RooksSponsors:Notion: Notion Agent can do anything you can do in Notion. Try Notion, now with Notion Agent, at notion.com/balancedVionic: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account. One-time use only.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.Google Shopping: #sponsored See how clothes from your favorite brands look on you before you buy by visiting g.co/shop/tryonKeep in Touch with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckyThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#323: Nothing is more impactful to our ability as women to create our own luck than the journey of motherhood—how we embark on it, and when. That's why I sat down with Dr. Catha Fischer, reproductive endocrinologist and Medical Director at Spring Fertility, for this critical bonus episode to demystify reproductive health, fertility, and the power of reproductive autonomy. We dive into what every woman in her 20s and 30s needs to know, from understanding your menstrual cycle (which Dr. Fischer calls your "fifth vital sign") to the truth about how birth control impacts your fertility, and what egg freezing actually entails. This is an honest, judgment-free conversation about removing the shame around fertility and making informed, empowered choices for your future.This episode is for you if: You want to understand your reproductive options regardless of your relationship status. You're on hormonal birth control and are curious about what's *really* happening with your natural menstrual cycle. You've been frustrated by the shame and secrecy surrounding fertility struggles or feel like you're "running out of time." You want a factual breakdown of the egg freezing process, including pricing, and outcome data. You're having a hard time getting your questions about reproductive health answered and are seeking patient-centered care.Episode Sponsor:Visit springfertility.com and use code LUCKY for $150 off your initial fertility consult (virtual or in-person). Episode Links: Follow Les on IG @lesalfred Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod Follow Les on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lesalfred Follow She’s So Lucky on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shessoluckypod Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcase Visit our website at shessoluckypodcast.com Get your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckyThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

#321: If you've ever felt like you had to choose between the beauty trends you love and the ones that were "meant for you," this conversation will feel like permission to explore it all. Today I'm sitting down with Darcei Giles — the award-winning content creator who's been pioneering inclusivity in beauty since before it was an industry buzzword.Darcei shares her journey from making webcam videos in 2010 to becoming a bridge between Korean beauty innovation and Black beauty consumers. She opens up about the viral series that changed everything, the moment a brand actually listened to her feedback, and why she's spent over a decade refusing to delete her early content.This episode is for you if:You're navigating spaces where you don't see yourself reflectedYou're curious about what real brand inclusivity looks like behind the scenesYou want to understand how to build longevity in a constantly changing industryWe talk about…How a lighthearted video concept became a movement that gave thousands of Black women permission to experimentThe real reason Korean beauty brands are getting inclusivity right (and what American brands can learn)Why Darcei made three TikToks a day for 90 days straight — and gained 100K followersWhat happened when she told a foundation brand "call me" and they actually didThe difference between creating 30 shades and creating 30 good shadesGoing into the lab to create foundation shades that had never existed beforeWhy she keeps her earliest videos up despite the cringe factorWhat it takes to stay relevant for 15 years without losing yourselfHer plans to merge Korean skincare innovation with Black beauty needs in her own future brandEpisode Links:Follow Darcei on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missdarcei/?hl=enFollow Darcei on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@missdarcei?lang=enCheck out Parnell Serum Cushion Foundation: https://parnellbeauty.com/products/parnell-serum-cushionGet your She’s So Lucky Merch: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/shes-so-luckySponsors:Cotton: Cotton is the fabric of our lives. Visit thefabricofourlives.com to learn more.LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.Happy Mammoth: Happy Mammoth: Try Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your first order with code LUCKY at happymammoth.com.Kendra Scott: Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code SSL20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Exclusions apply, offer ends December 31, 2025.Google Shopping: #sponsored Shop the 100 products that made our year by visiting g.co/shop/holiday100Connect with Les:Follow Les on IG @lesalfredFollow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypodFollow Les on TikTokFollow She’s So Lucky on TikTokSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.