Sorry For Asking with Adam Ramzi and Cole Connor

And this time, Adam and Cole welcome the whirlwind that is the very studly Hayden Harding to the pod. Hayden jumped into the scene via a steady stream of scenes with the renowned Sean Cody studio, breaking expectations by bringing some meat and fuzz to the mix, as Sean Cody is usually known for its smooth boy next door aesthetic. He tells stories of growing up in Southern California in a very conservative Catholic family, and finding ways to charm his way toward his authentic self by moving to Australia and working in the wine industry, and eventually making it to Los Angeles, working all kinds of jobs before landing in the gay adult film industry as Hayden Harding. Whether our boundaries are rigid or porous, Hayden’s story is just further proof that there’s so much more going on in the lives and minds of our favorite sexy content creators.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.

Welcome back, y’all! Just the boys again this time. Adam and Cole have a little catch up about what they’re up to as summer comes to a close, including creative endeavors, recent shoots, and upcoming travels, plans, and hopes for the fall. They also speak on some moments of folly that we all could learn from (you’re welcome!)Also, before resuming having guests, Adam and Cole try another hand at last episode’s format of reviewing each other’s scenes, except this time they speak on some recent uploads to their spicy pages, this time with the scenes having some very different things in common - namely being filmed out of the country, and not one but two simultaneous scene partners. You can guess what that might entail, sorry about it…Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.

Welcome back, listeners. We have a guest this week, so get ready for some chaos because Adam and Cole are paid a visit by none other than Michael Boston! He’s won multiple awards, including the XBiz Gay Performer of the Year, and the Grabby for Best Butt, and Michael reminisces with the boys about winning the latter in the presence of his mother. He grew up Mormon in Utah, and shares what it was like growing up very much himself while also grappling with the rules of the church. Learning to break those rules slowly but surely is what led him toward a career in the gay adult industry, where he’s thrived. It hasn’t all been roses though, as he spills some tea about his take on what studio business has been like lately. But he takes it all in stride and sorry, this conversation is very funny. Enjoy!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.

We love a multi-hyphenate in the industry. And boy, do we have a good one today. Adam and Cole welcome Taylor Stilson to the show, who has so many qualifications under his belt that it’s hard to keep track. Having worked with Taylor on respective collabs, using his adult content moniker Jameson Taylor, Adam and Cole have seen Taylor around town at the parties rocking some fierce looks blending all sorts of fashion trends that play with the masculine ideal. Slowly getting to know him over time, the boys realized there’s a lot more to this fella than we get at first glance at his very sexy social media presence. A singer, musician, and professor, with a background in kinesiology and body work, Taylor utilizes all his talents for various income streams - when he gave Adam a game changing massage, the boys knew it was time to ask him some deeper questions and share his answers with the world. And where better than here on this show, right? Get a load of Taylor over here!!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.

Summer is here officially, and to ring it in, Adam and Cole are paid a visit by LA nightlife fixture and sexy content creator, Judas King. Having made a connection while working the Hot Dog Sunday parties in LA together, Adam invited Judas to share his origin story of growing up in Northern California with an adoptive Mormon family, and the bumpy road that lead to his unique place in the queer zeitgeist. From the early days of Guys in Sweatpants, to stripping, to go-go dancing, to the delicate dance of handling sugar daddies, Judas has paved his way in the industry in a manner all his own, shooting scenes with thicker boys and even a snaky split tongue to add to his signature. There's nobody like Judas King, and we barely scratch the surface. Sorry!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.

Icon Alert! Adam and Cole are paid an in-studio visit by none other than the multiple award-winning Landon Conrad, for many of us, a blueprint of post-Y2K gay adult fantasies. With his Viking build, blue eyes, and always with the perfect hair, Landon made his mark in the industry effortlessly and tells us some stories of how he got there. We also get into what it’s like to have been part of the DVD era of adult films, only to take a break and re-enter the limelight during a time when everyone is making their own content, and what the landscape looks like going forward for someone with industry experience. We like our wine with a little salt and pepper!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.

Welcome back, folks. This time, it’s just our boys, Adam and Cole, and this time, they have some stories to tell. As spring continues to bring out our spicy sides, the boys decide to take some turns sharing about some recent fun they’ve had with gentlemen, on as well as off camera. First, some stories about cats, because why not? Then Cole tells of an upcoming shoot that is Severance-themed, while Adam reminisces about a stepbrother and stepson scene. Then the stories begin, including a couple of recent massage clients for Cole, as well as a very fun three-way collab. Adam shares about how his dalliances have been very dynamic and specific, including some particularly submissive boys, side play, and a surprise visit from someone he has been curious about for a long time. To finish up, the boys have a little discussion about the other things common about springtime, which are conflict and conflict resolution, and the lessons this brings up. Lots of fun in this episode, enjoy and sorry!!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.

He’s back, folks! Two years after his first visit to the studio, Derek Kage returns to chat with Adam and Cole for a very well earned catch up. In the two years since his appearance, he’s risen in stardom, and in wisdom and experience in the industry, and tells us a lot of what’s happened. With several awards and starring vehicles under his belt, Derek shares about how success in the industry isn’t slowing him down at all. In fact, he’s got some new passions and projects, his foray into the straight porn industry turning heads all over the internet. Derek remains steadfast in his convictions that no matter what kind of content he is creating, he knows himself and what he offers and that an attitude of gratitude is keeping him afloat and working more steadily than ever. He also shares some important facts about his work with the Free Speech Coalition, that led to him winning their Advocacy award, proving that making adult films isn’t just about hot content, it’s also about preserving our rights to free speech and, above all, privacy. You’re gonna love this one, y’all.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.

Season 4 gets its first guest in the form of the beautiful, talented, and incredibly smart Emil Jameson! Emil visits Cole and Adam in the studio to talk about his past and present, and his three-year journey as an adult content creator. Emil details his beginnings as a midwestern kid who moved around all over the world from childhood to graduate school as a linguistics master's degree holder. He also shares with the boys how his very conservative Christian upbringing affected his coming of age as a young, closeted bookworm to his slow coming out process, and eventually coming into his own as a self-actualized gay young adult who understood that shame and modesty no longer served him. He shares about some of his favorite scenes, his eventual foray into studio work, and the boys share a moment to grieve the late Roman Mercury, who passed away suddenly a few weeks ago. To close the episode, Emil reflects on what advice he’d give his younger self from his current perspective, which proves poignant and fitting to many others in the community, in or out of the adult industry. Don’t miss this one, folks, Emil is a true keeper.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.

And that’s a wrap on season 3, folks! To close out the chaotic and crazy year that was 2024, eavesdrop on Adam and Cole as they catch up at the beginning of this holiday season, sharing about holiday plans, some scene work, recent creative endeavors, competition in their fields… What kind of energy do we wish to bring in to the new year? Adam’s new home and Cole’s upcoming creative redirect are two examples of how switching things up in the new year can bring some inspiration to their lives, in order to kick some old habits and jumpstart new ones. The boys pontificate on how to take better care of themselves as winter approaches, mentally, physically, and even financially, in order to ensure a fruitful and clearheaded start to the looming new year. Thank you all for listening to season 3 of Sorry For Asking, and we will be back!!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.

After gushing about him at the end of our last episode, Adam and Cole give a warm in-studio welcome to the iconic emperor of trans masculine adult content and sexual healing, Viktor Belmont! In this hilarious and heady conversation, Viktor shares about his exceptionally unique experience of self-actualization, not only as a sexual healer and formidable adult content presence, but also as a trans man. Growing up in rural Oregon as a young punk rock lesbian, Viktor came to learn some things about himself before taking the transition plunge and relocating to San Francisco, where he lived modestly while developing an immediate understanding of the need to brand himself as a well-known sexual internet presence. In the days of MySpace and Tumblr, he gained a following as well as a very specific understanding of what it was he could bring to the table, not only to monetize his sexuality but also to bring some healing to clients of all kinds who could benefit from the firm hand of a trans male dom daddy. Viktor is a fascinating storyteller, so put on some headphones and fall under his captivating spell just as Adam and Cole do. Thank you Viktor, we love you, sorry not sorry!!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.

After a couple false starts, Adam and Cole finally get the chance to sit down with the legendary Reese Rideout to hear his tale. What false starts, you ask? Tune in to hear the wild story about what took so long to get Reese on the pod. Reese shares vividly about his path to gay adult film legend status, in the early days of Randy Blue all the way to his current blend of sexy and funny easily seen in his internet presence. Sexuality is a spectrum, and Reese has learned so much as he’s carved out a spot for himself in the pantheon - it helps when you have a wife who is also your business partner, scheduling scenes with other hot gay adult content creators! Reese’s story is fascinating, unique, and hilarious, but is also couched in some bouts with alcoholism and deep personal loss, as you’ll hear when he shares about losing a family member. We appreciate Reese for his candor and spirit, and it’s no wonder he’s lasted so long in this crazy industry.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sorry-for-asking-with-adam-ramzi-and-cole-connor--5773495/support.