Spanko! Podcast

Social currency vs social capital - what's the difference and why does it matter? Have you ever considered your social capital? What builds your social capital and currency? Do you know how to be a respected community member? Are you helpful? Do you understand boundaries and take time to build friendships? Do you know how to make friends? Did you know there are different levels of friendship? As a party attendee - do you feel like you have gotten a chance to enjoy spanking parties to the max? Or do you leave feeling like you didn't fit in? Does it take you time to become comfortable in a setting? Are you only focused on your needs or do you listen to your play partners needs? Are you the type of party attendee that people can't wait to have back or are you draining the resources without putting back into the community? Your reputation can precede you. Wouldn't you like it to be the best one possible?

… years of our lives! Join us as we celebrate 6 years of doing Spanko! Podcast! Reminisce with us on how we've grown and changed. Hear about some of our favorite memories. And some of what we hope to do in the future. And, of course, there has to be some bratting and spanking live on the air to celebrate!

Continuing our hardcore fan-girling from part 1, the immortal Erica Scott shares some of her favorites in the scene, and some juicy behind-the-scenes tidbits from her experiences as a video model. Both positive and negative, Erica shares her thoughts and opinions seemingly unfettered: Uber-Doms, mind your place. Social Media commenters… beware, the Snark Queen has you in her sights. And her positive stories of sharp and witty Tops make us swoon from across the internet! ❤️ And some of her favorite trigger words will prick up your ears as much as they did ours. (meanwhile Eric's over here kicking himself for missing an obvious toppy setup lol) From safety and consent (one of our favorite topics for obvious reasons), to skin care and party etiquette, and tips for video models, tips to winning at Spanking Court, becoming an illustration, and just advice for real life, this episode covers even more ground than our first episode - if that's even possible! You thought we were sassy, imagine having the level of sass Erica possesses!!! We can only dream! What an honor to hang out with such a legend! We hope you'll enjoy this grand finale of our first recording with Erica Scott as much as we did! But wait… it seems we weren't the only ones who didn't want this interview to end 😉

We were asked if we could talk about the physics of spanking. Well, who better to consult than an actual physicist who is ALSO an actual spanko? Our friend, Al Doyle, sat down with us at GASP 2025 to give us a lesson in the physics of spanking. We even sat down to work out the math to see if we could finally get an answer to the age-old question: does a paddle with holes hurt more than a paddle without holes? From Newton's apple, to Einstein's theories, to the earth falling upwards, "Professor" Doyle blows our minds with science while answering some pre-arranged questions, all while on the journey to the ultimate answer about the pain of the paddles. We even discuss a few topics that may require further experimentation. But all the while, we laugh and have fun like always. We discuss basic physics concepts, a couple of formulas, and even how much you weigh jumping off a building to get us to the mathematical conclusion of… well, you'll just have to listen to find out! This might be our most technical episode yet! You may want to take notes. There may be a test!

Frenzy: a state or period of uncontrolled excitement or wild behavior. Some of us have had an insatiable need to be spanked or spank all the spankees we meet. It can feel like a lot of fun! All that new energy and excitement, wanting to try all the things! It's fairly common when things are new: new experiences, new parties, new partners, etc. And we're not just talking about discipline spankings here, even though in our experience, that's the kind of spankings some of us fantasize the most about. We are talking about all the spankings! This spanking frenzy can be fun, but it can also have a dark side. We've done some less-than-smart things to satisfy our cravings. Feeling like we need to have it, and we need to have it now! But from the outside, this frenzy can look a little different. And sometimes can even harm existing relationships. Have you ever experienced frenzy? What have you done for spanking? Were you keeping yourself safe? We have some tips on how to navigate frenzy, how to keep yourself safe, and how to watch out for some of the traps you may find along your journey. It's all about finding balance, after all. Remember, you're a whole human being and not just a spanker or a spankee.

What is vetting? If you've been to a spanking party before, you've probably heard this term, and have probably even been vetted: it's the background check done to keep everyone at the party as safe as possible. But it's not just for parties, this is good for one-on-one play as well. How is vetting done? What should you expect? Well, there's many ways to vet someone. But we discuss a few tips that we've used, have seen used, and have been involved with in the past, for both Tops and Bottoms alike. So, if you're interested in attending a spanking event, or even hosting a spanking event, or even want to keep yourself safe in one-on-one play (and who doesn't?), and want to learn more about the vetting process, we hope this episode will give you some good tips to get started.

Trigger Warnings: Trauma, War, PTSD, Childhood Abuse. PTSD - Post Traumatic Stress Disorder - a condition brought about by trauma and diagnosed by a professional. Please reach out to a professional to be treated and diagnosed. We have the brave Mark, the Very Bad Boy, and a military veteran, joining us to share his experiences as a spanking male bottom with PTSD. Mark shares how he worked with professionals to be diagnosed and begin his well-being process. Triggered by loud noises, Mark still enjoys his spanking, but it has been a challenge to work through. Mark shares his journey, how he handles his triggers and how he worked with a professional spanking domme to gently overcome his fears from childhood. Fortunately for veterans in the U.S., the V.A. offers quality resources, you just have to be able to get through all the paperwork, and fortunately, they'll also have someone to assist you with that as well! Please be kind to those around you, we never know what someone is going through. Please be responsible and seek help. We all have our own timelines, but we are still responsible for how we allow triggers to affect us. We can't control who or what is going to trigger us, but we can choose how to respond. There are professionals who will work with you, either with your mental health or, potentially, even a professional spanker. Thank you to all of our service members!!

The GASP team has opened Pandora's box of spanking! Join us to hear about the Herculean task the GASP team and volunteers are pulling off this time. All your favorites are back, plus some new and exciting additions you'll hear about here first! Are you ready for: merriment, games, a dionysian feast, activities, classes, Littles tents, vending, a summer camp experience, and lots more?? There's even room for the Tops to join in the activities this year! Do you have the Midas touch? Even if you don't, the spanking Bottoms sure hope you have the spanking skill set to deliver a sound and welcomed spanking. And of course, there will be plenty of bratting, mischief, antics and all the revelry GASP is known for. Who knows what the faces that launched a thousand ships may have up their sleeves. Rubber duckies? Sass? Insolence? Or something else? Join us at the spanking Elysian Fields for GASP 2026.

Travel down the yellow brick road to Texas where you can experience All Things Wicked and Magical this year at The Lone Star Spanking Party happening November 6-10, 2025. As you move on down, move on down the road, you'll also find a dark and mysterious trail leading to a Gothic Masquerade… as well as experiencing all the spanking your bottom (or hand) could desire! (As if that was possible.) Get whisked away on an imaginative journey as your fabulous hostess, Sarah Gregory, tells us about all of the magical excitement in store at Lone Star 2025. From classes and educational opportunities, to individual sign-up events, to dining and dancing, there's something at Lone Star for every spanko! It truly sounds like a weekend you won't want to miss! But you'd better hurry, the gates to Oz won't stay open forever! Tickets are going fast and rooms are filling up! CLICK HERE TO BUY YOUR TICKET

Miss Chris is back to explain how she helps bring your spanking fantasies to life. But what if your fantasy involves more than one spanker? You're in luck! Miss Chris is not alone! Miss Chris & Uncle Eric are traveling around the country making your co-topping fantasies into reality. We were lucky enough to catch up with them in the DC area for an evening on their journey. We get to know a bit about Uncle Eric, life-long spanko, BDSM practitioner, and video star. We learn about his connection with Miss Chris, some of their shared interests, their role play energy together, their thoughts on the state of the adult spanking industry, and even get to do a little role play with returning guest (and OnlyFans LIVE regular), Avery, who also joined us for this episode. And we even get their thoughts on global warming… no, not like the environmental kind. But a playful, historical, and (as we later found out) very fun spanking activity! After seeing the photo they provided for this episode, their recreation of the famous painting, American Gothic, the spanko version, who wouldn't want their "globes" warmed up by these two pros? So if you'd like to make your fantasies a reality, head over to MisssChris.com (the extra 's' is for 'spanking') and take advantage of this unique opportunity while it lasts!

You may have heard Switches make the best Tops. So join us as Ella and NightOwll share their journey on why they chose to start Topping. Have you, as a Top, done your homework? Because these two new Tops know exactly what they want when they are on the receiving end, and therefore did their research to become the very best Top they could ever be. Whether they were born to Top or whether they grew into their roles, matters little, because what really matters is the amazing Tops they are becoming. Anything a guy does, a girl can do- while wearing heels AND even bleeding. Now, do we have any male Bottoms out there who've grown to be a Top as well? Perhaps you're like Karina and you've been happy remaining a Bottom. Do what works for you. Don't forget - Tops need aftercare too. Check in with your Tops and remind them how amazing they are! Tops, please be open to feedback - it's how we grow. So, if you've ever wondered how some Tops get to spank everyone and people barely reluctantly agree to play with you, listen in and learn a thing or two, you might get to play more.

Have you ever wanted to do a school role play? Or have you done a school role play and loved it? Join us as we talk with Miss Marissa, Jason, and Nicole as we discuss a detention role play at Lonestar. What makes a school role play headspacey? Lines? Tone? Scolding? Do you prefer a serious role play or a more playful role play? We discuss all of the things related to what we love about role play. What are some of the things you worry about or think about ahead of a new event? Listen as Nicole discusses advocating for herself based on concerns she had ahead of time and discusses Besides for the fun of role play, we discuss what it takes to run a role play event well. We discuss safety, lessons learned, timing, and functionality of the event. As an added bonus we get to talk about negotiating spanking in a vanilla relationship. At what point do we no longer consider a supporting partner no longer a vanilla? Learn some aspects of advocating for yourself when it comes to headspace events such as a school role play, detention, principal's office, or even British discipline.

Join us for a very special episode of Spanko! Podcast: For pride month this year, we wanted to gather with some friends and have a very important discussion about what it's like to be Trans in the Spanking Community. Returning guest, Avery, hosts this episode, as we gather at GASP this year with a group of extraordinary and wonderful spankos to discuss their journeys of self-discovery, acceptance, and how their individual eggs cracked (the evolution of the self-exploration journey and rebirth as your true self). We cover a wide range of topics such as gender identity affecting your chosen role as Top, Bottom, or Switch, and finding acceptance both with yourself and in the community. We also dive into some deep and personal territory and bring a lot of emotions and vulnerability forward. The journey is not always an easy one, but what we all experienced in creating this episode was love, support, and acceptance in ways that moved some of us to tears. Whether you have trans friends, feel awkward about discussing trans issues, have questions about playing with a trans person, are on your own journey of self-discovery or acceptance, or if you have ever felt awkward about yourself in any capacity, please give this episode a listen. We hope we've captured and shared with you the beauty and love in the room that we all felt while recording this very special episode.