Exit the grind w Shelley McIntyre

Exit the grind w Shelley McIntyre

From Spirit of the Deal by Brandon Handley & Guests

March 9, 2026 · 32 min

About this episode

In this episode, Shelley McIntyre discusses the impact of corporate life on personal identity and how grief coaching can facilitate professional change.

You've spent decades building a professional fortress only to realize the foundation is made of sand. In the high-stakes theater of enterprise leadership, we're taught to override our biology. We ignore the friction and bypass the nervous system to hit the quarterly target. But eventually, the bill comes due. The internal battery hits 4%, and a specific kind of "soul rot" sets in—where the VP title feels brittle and the meetings feel like a waste of your finite life force. If your internal operating system is crashing every afternoon, you don't need more "hustle." You need a better understanding of your own physics. In this episode, we sit down with Shelley McIntyre, a veteran of the Seattle tech scene who walked away from the corporate machine during the 2020 lockdown. Shelley didn't just change jobs; she reinvented her entire frequency. By using grief coaching as a lens to understand professional change, she helps high-performers navigate the profound loss of identity that comes when you take off the corporate mask. We dive deep into how to stop slogging, start regulating, and reclaim your bandwidth. In this conversation, we explore: The Mechanics of "Soul Rot": Why…

People in this episode

Host: Brandon Handley

Guest: Shelley McIntyre

Topics covered

  • soul rot
  • corporate identity
  • grief coaching
  • professional change
  • high-performance environments

Keywords

  • soul rot
  • corporate mask
  • identity loss
  • grief coaching
  • high-performers
  • professional change

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Organizations: Seattle tech scene

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