The Glass Borderline "H*mpty D*mpty" No Real Self

The Glass Borderline "H*mpty D*mpty" No Real Self

From Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups by A.J. Mahari

January 18, 2026 · 28 min · Season 10 · Episode 189

About this episode

This episode explores the complexities of breakups involving individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder and the resulting emotional turmoil.

The Glass Borderline 'H*mpty D*mpty' No Real Self BPD Breakups and Codependent BPD Exes endless "what if's' in the confusion, losing of yourself, the rumination, the cognitive dissonance and the constant "how could he/she do this?" "What did I do wrong?" If only I would/could have had ___________ or done _________ or said ____________ or not done or said ____________ All these 'what if's' when you really need to understand the Glass Borderline 'H*mpty D*mpty and why your relationship will not, was not, did not and still cannot work out. https://ajmahari.ca/sessions - Sessions https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts - Podcasts https://ajmahari.com - Online Store new Course Modules coming soon https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - This podcast and my Youtube This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at: 100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025 Million Podcasts has ranked this podcast in the top 60 Codependency Podcasts, the top 100 Narcissistic Abuse Podcasts and the top 100 in their Toxic Relationship Podcast lists. https://www.millionpodcasts.com/codependency-podcasts/ https://www.millionpodcasts.com/narcissistic-abuse-podcasts/…

People in this episode

Host: A.J. Mahari

Topics covered

  • BPD breakups
  • codependency
  • rumination
  • cognitive dissonance
  • relationship confusion

Keywords

  • BPD
  • breakups
  • codependent exes
  • what ifs
  • relationship issues
  • self-identity
  • emotional confusion

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