Talking Kinky - The Kink Chronicles

Sexsomnia: When Your Body Has Sex While You're Asleep - Tom meets Lacey a living breathing Sexomniac.What happens when your body becomes sexual while your mind is completely asleep?In this fascinating and deeply personal episode of Talking Kinky, Tom sits down with Lacey, who lives with sexsomnia, a little-known sleep disorder that can cause people to engage in sexual behaviours while asleep, with little or no memory of the events afterwards.Lacey shares her journey of discovering she had sexsomnia, the impact it has had on her relationships, the confusion and embarrassment that often accompanies the condition, and how she learned to navigate intimacy while living with a disorder that many people have never even heard of.Together, Tom and Lacey explore:What sexsomnia actually isHow it differs from sleepwalking and other parasomniasThe challenges it creates in relationshipsConsent, communication, and safety considerationsCommon triggers and treatment optionsThe emotional impact of living with a misunderstood conditionThe surprising science behind sleeping and sexual behaviourThis episode shines a light on a condition that sits at the intersection of sleep, sexuality, psychology, and human relationships. Whether you're hearing about sexsomnia for the first time or have personal experience with it, this conversation is eye-opening, educational, and surprisingly relatable.As always, Talking Kinky approaches the topic with curiosity, humour, compassion, and a commitment to helping people better understand the wonderfully complex world of human sexuality.Because sometimes the most surprising things happen when we're fast asleep. Lacey can be found here on Instagram

What really happens behind the velvet curtains of London’s high-society sex club scene? With Isabelle out of commission for a while due to other commitments, Tom is going to be interviewing some special guests. So, in this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom sits down with Jasmine to lift the lid on a world of elegance, secrecy, flirtation, and carefully negotiated desire. From cocktails and conversation to the rules of consent, safety, and discretion, Jasmine shares what it’s actually like to step into these exclusive spaces where sophistication and sexuality meet. Tom may even have a new wingwoman... if he ever frequents a sex club!Expect curiosity, candour, a few laughs, and a rare glimpse into one of the most intriguing corners of kink culture.

'Men Only': The Art of DesireIn this men-only episode, Tom explores the often-misunderstood truth about female desire: great sex doesn’t begin in the bedroom, it begins in the moments that come before it.Introducing the concept of Core Play, Tom unpacks how everyday attention, emotional presence, and genuine connection throughout the day build arousal, trust, and intimacy with female partners. From small acts of care and meaningful communication to understanding the biological and psychological rhythms of desire, this episode re-frames intimacy as something cultivated, not requested at 10pm!Blending humour, straight-talk, and practical insight, The Art of Desire offers men a powerful shift in perspective: invest in connection, and desire follows. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, marriage, or navigating modern partnerships, this episode reveals how showing up differently can transform your sex life and deepen your relationship in the process.

Aftercare whether its freaky or not, isn’t just a nice-to-have, it’s the glue that holds great kink, connection, and even vanilla sex together. In this laugh-out-loud episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle dive head-first (and maybe a little too honestly) into the wonderfully messy world of aftercare.From cuddles and check-ins to snacks, space, reassurance, and the unexpected ways people need care after intimacy, this episode explores why aftercare looks wildly different for everyone and why getting it wrong can feel just as intense as getting it right.Along the way, Tom and Isabelle overshare (naturally), unpack real-life experiences, and highlight how emotional drop, sub-drop, and vulnerability can show up long after the fun is over. It’s educational, reassuring, and then… slightly unhinged by the end, with a finale that will definitely have you laughing out loud.Whether you’re deeply kinky, kink-curious, or just wondering why you sometimes feel weird after great sex, this episode is essential listening.Insightful. Honest. Freaky. And very, very funny.Listener discretion advised… mostly because of the oversharing.

What happens when one of you is curious, kinky, or adventurous… and the other really isn’t? Or when your kinks don’t quite line up the way you hoped they would?In this episode, Tom and Isabelle dive into the very real issue of kink compatibility, from couples who discover mismatches early on, to long-term partners whose desires evolve over time. They explore what it actually means to be “kink-matched,” whether total alignment is realistic, and how couples can navigate differences without shame, pressure, or resentment.Together, they unpack common scenarios:• One partner kinky, the other more vanilla• Curious vs cautious dynamics• Mismatched fantasies, limits, or experience levels• Fear of rejection, guilt, or “asking for too much”• When compromise feels healthy and when it doesn’tWith personal stories, humour, and practical communication tools, Tom and Isabelle discuss how to talk about desire safely, how to negotiate boundaries with care, and how to decide whether a mismatch is something to work through or a sign to reassess the relationship.Whether you’re navigating new conversations, stuck in sexual stalemate, or simply wondering “Is this normal?”, this episode offers reassurance, perspective, and a reminder that there’s no one right way to want, or to love.

In this fast-paced, delightfully irreverent crash course, Tom and Isabelle take listeners on a whirlwind tour through 30,000 years of human desire. From prehistoric fertility carvings and ancient ritual sex, to Greek mischief, Roman indulgence, medieval repression, Victorian kink coded in corsets, and the explosion of modern BDSM culture, this is the entire history of kink… in half an hour.Expect humour, curiosity, and a surprising amount of “Wait, they did what back then?” as your favourite hosts break down how human sexuality has evolved, been policed, celebrated, hidden, rediscovered, and reinvented across the ages.Whether you're a history lover, a kink enthusiast, or just here for the wild ride, this episode proves one thing:kink isn’t new,humans have always been deliciously inventive.Tune in for 30 minutes of facts, fun, and fascinating filth.

In this electrifying episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle dive head-first into the world of bio-hacking your body for better sex, better arousal, and wildly better orgasms. If you’ve ever wondered why some nights everything flows effortlessly… and other nights you’re left wondering if your libido evaporated on the commute home, this one’s for you.From the subtle tweaks that boost your baseline desire to the science-backed hacks that crank up intensity, the duo explore how stress, sleep, alcohol, nutrition, and hormones shape our ability to get turned on—and stay turned on.And yes, they get into the juicy stuff:• Why supplements like Length & Strength can support libido, stamina, and performance, especially for men who want a stronger, more responsive body.• Tom shares his own experience trialing Jolt the Bolt sexual performance booster that’s been shaking up his energy, focus, and sexual vitality.• The pair explore whether modern biohacks can actually retrain your orgasm pathways for more pleasure, more responsiveness, and deeper connection.From cold showers to breathwork, L-arginine to maca root, dopamine resets to nervous system training, this episode blends science with honesty, humour, and pure Talking Kinky curiosity.Whether you’re single, partnered, kinky, vanilla, or somewhere deliciously in-between, this episode is your permission slip to take your pleasure seriously and to discover how a few intentional upgrades can lead to longer build-ups, stronger sensations, and orgasms that hit harder than ever.

In an 'electrifying launch' of Season 11, Tom and Isabelle plug into the future of pleasure, where artificial intelligence, virtual reality, and haptic technology collide. From AI-driven lovers that learn your every desire to immersive VR sexscapes that blur the line between fantasy, fidelity and 'teledildonics' (Isabelle's new favourite word) this episode dives deep into the rise of “Haptic Lust” , touch you can feel, but never see.Expect humour, curiosity, and a healthy dose of kink philosophy as Tom and Isabelle debate whether AI can ever truly understand human intimacy, what happens when your virtual partner becomes your emotional one, and how far we’ll go to satisfy digital desire.Welcome to the brave new world of sensual technology, where connection, consent, and code all meet in the same bed and kink needs a software upgrade.Need an intimacy boost? Try our 30 Days of Connection - www.talkingkinky.shop

In Part 2 of our role-play deep dive, Tom and Isabelle slip back into character, this time exploring two of the most popular and often misunderstood kinks: medical role-play and DDLG (Daddy Dom / Little Girl dynamics). From stethoscopes, nurses, and “clinical scenarios” that mix power with vulnerability, to unpacking the myths, boundaries, and realities of age-dynamic play, the co-hosts keep the conversation candid, insightful, and funny. They cover why medical role-play holds such a powerful psychological charge, the importance of trust when exploring taboo spaces, and how DDLG is less about pretending to be a child and more about nurturing, care, and structured dominance. As always, Tom and Isabelle balance education with humour, helping listeners navigate these fantasies safely while making sense of why they turn us on.Try the missing link for better intimacy - 30 Days of Connection on talkingkinky.shop

Connect to Spark (no its not an electrostim episode) , Tom and Isabelle get real about the role of connection in lasting relationships. Whether you’re in a long-term partnership, newly dating, or navigating the ups and downs of intimacy, connection is the foundation stone that keeps love alive.No connection = No desire, No desire = No intimacy, No intimacy = NO KINK!In this heartfelt episode, they share stories, insights, and practical tips on how connection shapes desire, trust, and intimacy and why it’s the piece so many couples overlook.There is also a small cameo of 30 Days of Connection, the team's guided programme of curated daily activities, including some kink, that are designed to help couples reignite passion, rebuild intimacy, and rediscover each other, one day at a time.If you’ve ever felt the relationship spark slipping, this episode will remind you how to find it again.Try the missing link for better intimacy - 30 Days of Connection on talkingkinky.shop

In this revealing and witty episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle explore the world of sissification — a kink that blends elements of feminization, role-play, and erotic power dynamics. With their trademark mix of curiosity, humour, and non-judgement, they unpack where fantasy meets identity, the psychology behind the practice, and how it plays out in both consensual kink and lifestyle choices.From the allure of silky lingerie and stockings to the deeper emotional and psychological layers, the hosts cover safety, consent, and the importance of clear boundaries in sissification play. They also highlight popular online communities where enthusiasts connect, share, and learn — including FetLife’s Sissification & Feminization groups, SissyKiss, and Reddit’s r/sissies — showing how these spaces help people explore and express their kink in a supportive environment.Whether you’re a curious newbie, an experienced player, or simply fascinated by the psychology of transformation, this episode offers insight, empathy, and a few laughs along the way.Try the missing link for better intimacy - 30 Days of Connection on talkingkinky.shop

We’re kicking off Season 10 with a bang — or should we say, a boot — as Tom and Isabelle slide into the world of foot and stocking kinks. From silky nylons to wrinkled soles, this episode toes the line between fascination and fetish, with the usual mix of humour, warmth, and open-minded curiosity you’ve come to love from Talking Kinky.Why are feet such a common turn-on? What is it about a pair of sheer stockings or a cheeky arch that stirs up desire? And how does one navigate foot play, from massage to worship, in a way that feels sexy, safe, and consensual?Tom shares a rather memorable moment with a pair of hold ups, while Isabelle offers insight into why feet and legs are such a rich landscape of erotic potential. Whether you're a seasoned sole-lover or just foot-curious, this episode is a playful and respectful journey into one of the most popular (and misunderstood) kinks around.Try the missing link for better intimacy - 30 Days of Connection on talkingkinky.shop

In this thought-provoking episode, Tom and Isabelle discuss the state of sex education — or the lack thereof. They explore how porn has become the default sex educator for many young people, why pleasure, consent, and diversity are still missing from mainstream curriculums, and what a truly inclusive and empowering sex education could look like.With humor, honesty, and a healthy dose of frustration, your favourite co-hosts examine the long-term effects of abstinence-only teaching, the role of parents, and how the digital age is shaping sexual understanding (and misunderstanding). They also share real-world examples, including the moving story of a rape survivor, to illustrate the importance of comprehensive and compassionate sex education.Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault, including the mention of a rape survivor’s experience, which some listeners may find distressing.