Why is it so hard to allow change in relationships?

About this episode

Adriana MeBarr discusses the challenges of allowing change in relationships and how to create space for transformation.

In this episode I talk about why it can feel so difficult to allow change in our relationships — both in how we see others and how we see ourselves. I share how predictability creates safety but also locks us into old versions of people, including ourselves. I explore how to create inner space for new versions to emerge and how to choose supportive people around us when we’re in the middle of a transformation.

People in this episode

Host: Adriana MeBarr

Topics covered

• change in relationships
• self-perception
• predictability
• transformation
• supportive relationships

Keywords

• relationships
• change
• self-improvement
• predictability
• transformation

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