260 What You Should Be Looking for in a Life Partner, Pt. 2— Look for Barriers NOT Boys (or Babes)

About this episode

In this episode, Roy Biancalana discusses the importance of self-reflection and identifying personal barriers in the pursuit of finding a life partner.

The amount of information on how to find a life partner is staggering. There are videos, podcasts, blogs, books—who doesn't have a theory? While some of the information is good, the sheer volume makes it overwhelming. How in the world are we to make sense of it? Well, in an effort to sift through all the noise, Roy Biancalana, our host, has boiled down our pursuit of intimacy to 5 essential ideas, and they are the focus of this 5-part series. In part two of the series, we're encouraged to look not for "boys" or "babes" but rather to look in the mirror, at ourselves. We're called to look for the barriers within ourselves, because that is far more important than focusing on who we'd like to meet and how we might meet them. Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show: Roy's Website: https://coachingwithroy.com Roy's Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/ Roy's 4 Books: · Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K Roy's Group Coaching Program…

People in this episode

Host: Roy Biancalana

Topics covered

• finding a life partner
• self-reflection
• barriers to intimacy
• personal growth
• relationship advice

Keywords

• life partner
• intimacy
• self-assessment
• relationship fitness
• personal barriers

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: coachingwithroy.com

Products: Quantum Questions, Relationship Bootcamp, Attracting Lasting Love, A Drink with Legs

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