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Oral sex is one of the most commonly performed sexual activities, but that doesn't necessarily mean that it comes naturally to everyone! To talk about how to up your blow job game and teach you orgasmic techniques to make your man explode, we are joined by the incredible Samia Burton. Samia is a dynamic sexual educator with a proven track record of success backed up by tens of thousands of online followers. As the host of Not Just Another Sex Podcast and founder of Sexual Essentials, she takes an unconventional approach to sexual education by offering hands-on sex workshops, including her infamous MouthMasterclass, centered around building confidence and learning new techniques in a 100% judgment-free zone. In this episode, Samia shares some titillating tips for giving (and receiving) mind-blowing oral, from speaking openly about your preferences to creating a sensual atmosphere, getting into character, edging 101, and so much more. To get your PhD in sucking dick, be sure to tune in today! Key Points From This Episode: Why Samia started Sexual Essentials and chose to take a hands-on approach. Tips for those who lack confidence or don't enjoy giving head. How to tease and seduce your partner throughout the day. The importance of open, honest communication (and how it can be super hot!) Sensual suggestions to increase enjoyment for blow job givers and receivers. A full five senses guide to setting the mood for mind-blowing oral. Reasons to switch it up and try new techniques. Different kinds of blow jobs and the power of getting into character. Pleasure versus orgasm: how edging can improve your blow jobs. Advice for blow job givers to be more dominant or submissive. How proper personal hygiene is an extension of great sex. Saucy finishing moves that really add the "wow" factor! Why just being willing to try new things and improve is a major turn-on. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Sexual Essentials — https://thesexualessentials.com/ Sexual Essentials Masterclasses — https://thesexualessentials.com/patreon-2/ MouthMasterclass — https://sexual-essentials.mykajabi.com/offers/pcWDNdNL/ Not Just Another Sex Podcast — https://www.instagram.com/notjustanothersexpod/ Something Extraordinary Content House — https://www.instagram.com/secontenthouse/ Samia Burton on YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@SamiaBurton Samia Burton on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/miabuggzy/ Samia Burton on TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@miabuggzy Samia Burton on X — https://x.com/miabuggzy Samia Burton LinkTree — https://linktr.ee/SamiaBurton Charlie the Van on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/thecharlievancafe/ Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

Struggling with your gag reflex during oral sex? You're not alone. Joining us today to explore the complexities of managing this reflex is Dr. Ianessa Humbert, an accomplished scientist, professor, and sought-after speaker specializing in swallowing and swallowing disorders. In this episode, Dr. Humbert breaks down the gag reflex and its triggers, before sharing her expert advice for minimizing an overactive gag reflex during oral sex. Join us as we unpack the various factors that can contribute to discomfort, from the sensory to the psychological, and explore practical methods for overcoming it, including calming self-talk and easily accessible relaxation techniques. We also discuss semen allergies (and aversions) and how to overcome them, before examining the physical strain involved in oral sex, optimal blow job positions, and some of the best ways to make oral sex more enjoyable for the giver. Key Points From This Episode: Dr. Humbert's background as a speech-language pathologist (SLP). Unpacking the gag reflex, its functions, and how it gets triggered. Practical tips for minimizing an overactive gag reflex. Using the gag reflex for pleasure during oral sex by creating natural lube. Psychological factors, and other elements, that can cause an overactive gag reflex. Using distractions, arousal, and self-talk to manage your gag reflex. How music and substances like weed can help you relax and reduce anxiety. The potential for semen allergies during oral sex (and how to overcome it). Strategies for deeper ejaculation to avoid taste buds. Avoiding numbing sprays to prevent long-term nerve damage. Tips for making oral sex more enjoyable for the giver. The importance of communication and consent in oral sex. An overview of the physical strain involved in performing oral sex. How cosmetic procedures like Botox can impact muscle function. Exploring the flexibility of the tongue in oral sex performance. Positions to reduce strain and the gag reflex during oral sex. How to get in touch with Dr. Ianessa Humbert. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Dr. Ianessa Humbert — https://www.ianessahumbert.com/ Dr. Ianessa Humbert on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/ianessahumbert/ Dr. Ianess Humbert on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/ianessahumbert/ The Swallowing Wellness Center — https://www.swallowingwellness.com/ GULP Group YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@gulpgroup?si=SKgeqeU8cxOG-dOW Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

Performance anxiety and the inability to make a woman reach orgasm are just some of the many issues so many men struggle with in the bedroom. Today on The Bad Girls Bible, seasoned porn star and sex coach, Erik Everhard joins us to share his 10 Clit Commandments and his tips for keeping an erection. Tuning in, you'll hear all about how Erik got into porn, how to manage performance anxiety, some strategies to get erect and stay erect (including Erik's CRUSH Protocol), how sex affects masculinity, and so much more! Erik even breaks down the 10 Clit Commandments as he shares how to perform mind-blowing oral sex and get a woman over the edge to achieve orgasm. Finally, he tells us all about his Everhard Academy and where we can learn more from him. Thanks for listening in! Key Points From This Episode: Introducing today's esteemed guest, Erik Everhard. Erik shares his journey and what led him to become a porn star. How to manage performance anxiety as a porn star. Erectile strategies someone with a penis can use to stay hard. The biggest mistakes guys make when trying to last longer. Erik shares his CRUSH Protocol for helping men stay erect. Why sexual prowess is ingrained in a male's identity and masculinity. Erik breaks down his 10 Clit Commandments. How vibrators can be a man's biggest teacher when it comes to oral sex. What the tongue compass is and how to listen to it. Primary cues to pay attention to when performing oral sex. Being effective not fancy, the danger of novelty, and why consistency is key. Common oral sex issues Erik sees with his clients. Quotes: "Confidence is going to be a byproduct of competence." [0:19:19] There's no way that you can decouple your sense of masculinity from your performance in the bedroom." [0:20:35] "Vibrators are the greatest teaching tool known to men and as men if we can look at what that vibrator is doing, we can extrapolate a lot of things from it that work on women." [0:26:17] "Give the pussy what it needs!" [0:35:26] "It might be tough for you to get honest feedback from a woman that has an emotional connection with you." [0:43:05] Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Erik Everhard — https://www.erikeverhard.com/ Erik Everhard on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/erikeverhard/ Erik Everhard on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/groups/erikeverhard Erik Everhard on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/erikeverhardofficial/ Erik Everhard on X — https://x.com/ERIK_EVERHARD The Everhard Academy — https://learn.erikeverhard.com/users/sign_in Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers: A Porn Star's Guide to Sexual Mastery — https://www.amazon.com/Unleash-Your-Sexual-Superpowers-Mastery/dp/1950367320 Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

Have you ever been curious about what the swinger lifestyle might be like? Today we sit down with Dan and Lacy from The Swing Nation Podcast to answer all your swinger-related questions. Tune in as we discuss everything, from figuring out whether the swinger lifestyle is right for you to the impact it could have on your relationship. Discover what drew Dan and Lacy to the lifestyle, their prior experiences with monogamy, and what they have learned from navigating this new world together. We discuss some of the best tips for exploring the swinger lifestyle, especially if you're a beginner, before examining how to deal with jealousy, and why honest communication is essential! You'll also learn how to recognize signs that swinging might be right for you, along with red flags you need to know about. Tune in for a deep dive into the swinging community from experts Dan and Lacy! Key Points From This Episode: Introducing Dan and Lacy from the Swing Nation Podcast. How Dan and Lacy found themselves involved in the swinger lifestyle together. Their experience with monogamous relationships and why they prefer the swinger lifestyle. Issues they encountered when they first started dating as swingers. Tips and advice on embarking on a journey of non-monogamy together. The benefits of taking it slow when you first start exploring the swinger lifestyle. How to recognize green flags that swinging might be right for you. Why insecurity and jealousy are normal and why good communication is essential. How swinging has benefited their relationship and communication. A breakdown of Dan and Lacy's boundaries and how they set them. The value of having a list of rules when you're starting out. Important red flags you should be aware of. Understanding compersion; the happiness you feel when your partner is intimate with others. How non-monogamy could change throughout your life and relationship. What led to them becoming prominent swinger influencers and educators. The type of events that Dan and Lacy host and how to join their Discord community. Quotes: "I knew that I can be monogamous if I really wanted to. It's not natural for me. I enjoy the non-monogamous aspect much more. It was nice to find a community that we could do it safely and together in." — Lacy [0:06:33] "If you want to take this journey into non-monogamy, it should be something that you're doing together to explore each other's fantasies, to improve your relationship, to improve your sex life." — Dan [0:10:07] "The more you engulf yourself and experience things, I think the more you open up to new experiences." — Dan [0:22:26] "The average person on OnlyFans makes $150 a month. It takes a lot of work. We have a team of people now that run mine. We have four OnlyFan pages. It's a labor of love. It's taken a lot of work. You have to be comfortable with your body and you have to set clear boundaries." — Lacy [0:36:36] Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: The Swing Nation — https://theswingnation.info/ Join the Swinger Society Discord Server! — https://discord.com/invite/swingersociety The Swing Nation Podcast on Swinger Red Flags — https://podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/lifestyle-education-swinger-red-flags/id1582945782?i=1000547768021&l=en-GB The Swing Nation Podcast on Should I start a content subscription — https://podcasts.apple.com/de/podcast/from-swinging-to-subscriptions-should-you-start-an/id1582945782?i=1000645432035&l=en-GB Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

If you've been struggling to achieve a perfectly equitable marriage, you're not alone. Research shows that even couples who prioritize equality often find themselves fighting about fairness in their relationship. That was the experience of today's guests, Nate and Kaley Klemp, two high-achieving individuals, who started their marriage believing in a model of fairness, only to discover that, in reality, that balance was virtually impossible to achieve. It was out of this frustration that they developed what they call The 80/80 Marriage, a model rooted in radical generosity and shared success, which led to them co-authoring the New York Times bestselling book The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Relationship. I talk with Nate and Kaley about the concept of the 80/80 marriage, why fixating on fairness doesn't work, and how adopting a mindset of radical generosity can transform your relationship. Our conversation also gets into key aspects of their book, like being intentional about each person's role, creating explicit values, and setting priorities and boundaries together. Join us for a fascinating conversation on equality, radical generosity, and how to strive for an 80/80 relationship! Key Points From This Episode: • Introducing today's guests, Nate and Kaley Klemp. • The story of how they met and got married. • Why the first two years of their marriage were so challenging. • The many ways couples fight about fairness and why it causes resentment. • How they wrote the 80/80 Marriage together. • The concept of an 80/80 relationship, and how it differs from one that is 50/50. • Why it's about striving for balance and radical generosity. • Steps to creating the right mindset for an 80/80 marriage. • How to create the structure for an 80/80 relationship. • Building a bridge between mindset and structure through values. • How to take a more intentional approach to your roles as a couple. • Setting priorities and boundaries as a couple (and why it can be so liberating). • Insights on what to do when you have an unwilling or reluctant partner. • How to approach your partner about entering an 80/80 relationship. • Nate's new book Open: Living with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World. Quotes: "We're really the first generation in all of human history, striving toward equal marriage. [0:05:39] "There's no such thing as 160% of anything. The whole idea is [that] it doesn't make sense, [so] strive. And then, [with] both parties striving for 80%, you land somewhere in the space of balance." [0:11:18] "There are no good or bad, or right or wrong, values. There are known and implicit values. When you have known, or explicit, or agreed to, values, then you have a north star, where you can build the structure of your relationship. When you have implicit values, it's very challenging." [0:23:54] "Most couples have never taken that step back and [have] never thought from an intentional place: 'How could we redesign our roles, such that [it] really works for both of us?'" [0:28:05] "For many couples, when even just one person shifts to 80/80, it opens up a new space for the other person, who might be the undercontributor, to contribute more and to be generous in turn." [0:37:11] Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Nate Klemp Nate Klemp on LinkedIn Nate Klemp on X Kaley Klemp Kaley Klemp on LinkedIn Kaley Klemp on X The 80/80 Marriage The 80/80 Marriage on Instagram The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Relationship Open: Living with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

So many people have trouble orgasming and aren't experiencing true pleasure during sex. Today on The Bad Girls Bible, sexual and relational communication profession Dr. Tara joins us to discuss the three main blockers of orgasms and why sexual chemistry is so important! In this conversation, you'll hear all about Tara's conservative background, what led her to the USA, why she became a professor of relational and sexual communication, body neutrality, sexual empowerment, Tara's podcast, textbook, and the TV show she is in, and so much more! We delve into the three main reasons women struggle to orgasm before Tara shares her thoughts on the success of relationships with no sex or chemistry and how she helps her clients solve these issues. From attraction, to boundaries, to saying no, to the best positions for clitoral stimulation, to the use of vibrators, this episode has it all! We even discuss how same-sex schools affect sexuality in adulthood. Finally, our guest tells us all about what praise kink is. Thanks for tuning in! Key Points From This Episode: • An introduction to today's guest, Dr. Tara. • Tara's background and how she became a professor of relational and sexual communication. • Why Tara loves the concept of body neutrality instead of body positivity. • How sexual empowerment can solve the issue of women faking orgasms and hiding it. • Tara tells us about her textbook and podcast and how she ended up on Celebs Go Dating. • The three main reasons women struggle to orgasm: physical, psychological, and relational. • Why Tara believes you cannot have a successful, happy, long-term relationship without sex. • How scent contributes to sexual chemistry and why it doesn't ever lie to us. • Tara's advice for what to do when in a sexless relationship with no chemistry. • The different categories of attraction and how it can be developed. • Why breaching boundaries is so detrimental in a relationship. • The importance of chemistry and why it cannot be built from nothing. • Tara speaks about the differences between spontaneous and responsive desire. • Why saying no is so liberating. • The best, easiest positions for clitoral stimulation. • Why men are generally so insecure about using vibrators and sex toys. • What praise kink is and how a couple can explore it. Quotes: "The solution to the inability to orgasm or even to embrace pleasure overall is sexual empowerment." [0:07:57] "So many different physical issues contribute to the inability to orgasm." [0:14:43] "Every single person is entitled to what is right for them. If you're in a relationship that you don't have any sexual chemistry with your partner, it's your prerogative to decide if you want to do." [0:23:25] "A breach of boundaries is a killer of trust." [0:29:09] "For me, the most important thing that I learned in my previous relationship that you can never get unless it was there is chemistry." [0:33:29] "There is no good sex life – without communicating, without feeling confident, without feeling comfortable in your skin." [0:42:04] Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Luvbites by Dr. Tara — https://www.luvbites.co/ Dr. Tara Email Address — [email protected] Dr. Tara on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/drtaraluvbites/ Dr. Tara on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/ Dr. Tara on TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@luvbites.co Dr. Tara on X — https://twitter.com/luvbitesco Sexual Communication: Research in Action — https://books.google.co.za/books/about/Sexual_Communication.html?id=KRRVzwEACAAJ&redir_esc=y Celebs Go Dating — https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5993484/ Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

Research shows that the majority of women will experience pain during sex at some point in their lives. But just because painful sex is common, it doesn't mean you have to accept it as normal! To talk about this, we're joined by Nora Langknecht, a sexuality educator, reproductive health counselor, and Brand and Digital Marketing Manager for the sex toy brand FUN FACTORY. In this episode, Nora tells us about her career journey and role at FUN FACTORY, which she describes as the perfect mix of spreadsheets and dildos! Then, we delve into what could be causing pain during sex, the importance of arousal and lubrication, and tips to help you rethink sensuality, communicate better with your sexual partner, and much more. Whether you're flying solo or coupled up, this episode will help you to unlock pain-free pleasure in the bedroom. So, grab your headphones and get ready to revolutionize your sex life! Key Points From This Episode: What led Nora to become a sex educator and counselor. Common causes of pain during penetrative vaginal sex and their solutions. Reasons that lube is for everyone! When Nora recommends speaking to your doctor about painful sex. Why anal sex can be painful and ways to make it more pleasurable. How to prepare for anal sex; hygiene, communication tips, and more. A warning against numbing cream and why orgasm isn't always the "goal." Tips to help you rethink sensuality and experience pleasure without sex. Advice for supporting your libido, whether you're partnered or single. The role of pornography in a partnership (and when it can be a problem). Insight into how COVID-19 affected couples' sex lives. Suggestions for self-discovery using sex toys. A comprehensive guide to consent and how to practice it intentionally. Spontaneous versus responsive desire and why mindfulness is key. Quotes: "Slowing down, focusing on arousal, and including more lube are the main solutions for vaginal pain during sex." — Nora Langknecht [0:04:15] "Thinking of sex as something more intricate, cyclical, and playful also helps if you're not moving unidirectionally – from [external play] to penetration to orgasm." — Nora Langknecht [0:12:58] "There are all these different ways to be sensual together that can involve any of our five senses that aren't necessarily focused on what we would consider a sex act." — Nora Langknecht [0:19:14] "Sometimes in partnerships, we focus on partnered pleasure more than solo play, but solo play is a fantastic way to support your own libido – It's an important part of your own sexual life, whether you're married, dating, or single." — Nora Langknecht [0:23:37] "For some reason, we started telling this story that [asking for consent] was going to be scary or unsexy, but asking someone if you can kiss them is the sexiest, un-scariest thing you can do." — Nora Langknecht [0:32:39] Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: FUN FACTORY — funfactory.com FUN FACTORY on Instagram — @funfactoryusa Ohnut — thepelvicpeople.com/collections/all-products/products/ohnut-depth-limiting-rings Jade T. Perry — jadetperry.com The Pleasure Chest — thepleasurechest.com Lovers — loversstores.com Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — badgirlsbible.com/newsletter More tips for overcoming painful sex. Other Episodes You Might Enjoy: #31 How To Fix A Sexless Marriage & Reignite Fiery Passion with Laurie Watson https://badgirlsbible.com/31-how-to-fix-a-sexless-marriage-reignite-fiery-passion-with-laurie-watson #34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D. https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d #29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius https://badgirlsbible.com/29-squirting-orgasms-real-foreplay-and-how-guys-can-last-longer-with-female-ejaculation-expert-jason-julius

Casey Donatello is a married, non-monogamous author and podcast host who embraces the Hotwife lifestyle. She is passionate about supporting others on their journey to becoming more confident and unapologetic in their lives and their sexual choices. In today's episode, she shares her process of recognizing and pursuing a relationship dynamic and sexual lifestyle that she finds most fulfilling. We also discuss how she found a partner who aligned with her vision for life and sex and how they deal with jealousy, communication, and rule-setting as they cultivate partner-sharing experiences. Casey also offers practical wisdom on entering the Hotwife lifestyle, pleasing your partner orally, and embracing all aspects of yourself through nudism, content creation, and fulfilling sexual encounters. Tune in to hear all this and more from today's candid and sexually empowered guest! Key Points From This Episode: • An overview of Casey Donatello and her introduction to the Hotwife lifestyle. • Her relationship journey leading up to her current marriage. • Jealousy in the Hotwife lifestyle and how her dates are structured. • Rule-setting and the feedback process. • Tips for those looking to pursue a Hotwife lifestyle. • Why it's essential to share your sexual aspirations with a potential partner. • Casey's opinion on how to give your partner a good blow job! • Advice for finding the confidence to talk dirty. • Our guest weighs in on whether or not size matters. • Advice for building confidence while riding your man. • Why Casey doesn't edit any of her content. • How public nudism has supported Casey to find body confidence. • Tips for women who are hoping to squirt. • Casey's complex journey into the lifestyle. • The story behind Casey's four books. Quotes: "[Hotwifing] is completely different than a regular threesome. Sometimes, it's hard for people to understand how three people isn't always the same equation. But it really isn't." [0:05:50] "It's like putting your relationship in a pressure cooker when you invite other people into your bed." [0:08:26] "There's no right or wrong to what you are interested in. It's just that you and your partner [have to] agree on it." [0:19:06] "A lot of times, people don't want to talk about sex when they're having sex, but that's the best time." [0:30:53] "If you absolutely hate something or it hurts you, speak up! Don't let somebody hurt your body because you don't want to hurt their feelings." [0:31:22] Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Casey Donatello — https://caseydonatello.com/ Casey Donatello on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/caseydonatello.official/ Casey Donatello on X — https://twitter.com/hotwifelife869/ In Bed Podcast — https://caseydonatello.com/in-bed-podcast/ In Bed with Strangers — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CQT1R15/ Scarlet Surrenders — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PYX8DQB/ Scarlet Swings Higher — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RZVKQ3M/ Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter Other Episodes You Might Enjoy: #31 How To Fix A Sexless Marriage & Reignite Fiery Passion with Laurie Watson https://badgirlsbible.com/31-how-to-fix-a-sexless-marriage-reignite-fiery-passion-with-laurie-watson #34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D. https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d #29 Experience Squirting Orgasms with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius https://badgirlsbible.com/29-squirting-orgasms-real-foreplay-and-how-guys-can-last-longer-with-female-ejaculation-expert-jason-julius

Today on the podcast we welcome Caitlin and Michael Doemner, authors of Sex Every Day, who are sharing with us some hands-on tips for enjoying sexual intimacy on a daily basis, regardless of busy schedules, kids and periods. They talk about their three-step strategy for practicing frequent intimacy, including how you can communicate your sexual desires in a fun way and what you can do to ensure that both you and your partner are always satisfied. Before you think all of this is unattainable for you as a parent of young kids, hang on a minute! They have four kids of their own and advise you on overcoming the logistics of having regular sex with a house full of small children. Key Points From This Episode The interesting story of how Caitlin and Michael got together. Why sleeping naked is such a natural and effective way to restore intimacy in a relationship. How the menu metaphor can be used to communicate and express sexual needs. The importance of being open to both give and receive. What you can do to maintain intimacy with your partner throughout the day. A quick review of the five love languages and what they each entail. Why it is important for couples to prioritize a woman's pleasure. What couples with kids can practically do to preserve their intimacy and privacy. Why a period should not be stopping you from giving and receiving uninterrupted pleasure. And much more! Tweetables "It's really hard to be angry with somebody when you're laying full body contact naked with them and in bed." [0:04:49] "The intimacy and the passion, it doesn't have to be intercourse …there's a lot of different ways that we can please our partners." [0:19:45] Links Mentioned in Today's Episode Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter Sex Every Day: How to Prioritize Pleasure in your Marriage — http://www.lulu.com/shop/michael-and-caitlin-doemner/sex-every-day-how-to-prioritize-pleasure-in-your-marriage/hardcover/product-23974387.html The Five Love Languages on Amazon — https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts/dp/080241270X Pussy: A Reclamation on Amazon — https://www.amazon.com/Pussy-Reclamation-Regena-Thomashauer/dp/1401950264/ref=sr_1_fkmrnull_1?keywords=pussy%3A+a+reclamation&qid=1555401985&s=books&sr=1-1-fkmrnull Sex Every Day Website — https://www.sexeverydaybook.com/homepage25989259 Sex Every Day on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/QuotidianCoitus/

Today on the Bad Girl's Bible we a joined by a very special listener named Jaime, who is here to tell us about how her and her husband turned their marriage around after some very tough times. Early into their new marriage, Jaime's husband started to experience some pretty serious health challenges and after his diagnosis and medical prescriptions became increasingly moody and difficult to be around. This, in conjunction with Jaime's own health and anxiety issues, led to a very difficult time, emotionally and in the bedroom. It took a few drastic changes that happened around the time of a mortal scare for her husband to take the relationship back to a healthy place and into territory that Jaime never even dreamed of. Jaime takes us through their complete history, early dates and the proposal before getting into the troubled period. She talks about how different things are now and the difference in connection she feels when they make love. For all this and much more, be sure to join us today! Key Points From This Episode Jaime's childhood, parents and the atmosphere at home. The first day that her and her future husband met. Proposal, the wedding and the early days of marriage. Jaime's husband's health problems and the first diagnosis. How the medication affected her husband's moods and their relationship. Jaime's own health problems that she was experiencing at the same time. The near death experience that turned her husband's life around. Changing their sex life around and the effect of the Blowjob Bible. How the challenges have strengthened their relationship. The times that Jaime considered giving it up. How Jaime's life has turned out differently to her expectations. The role of her faith in helping her through tough times. Advice from Jaime to listeners in similar situations. And much more! Tweetables "That's how he is now, he brushes off all the little things and doesn't let him bother anymore." — Jaime [0:15:30] "Sometimes it does take something life altering to make you decide that it's time to change how you live your life and the way you treat other people." — Jaime [0:16:58]

On the show today we're talking to someone who has suffered immense emotional trauma but who has come out the other side stronger, wiser and ready to love again. Our guest really inspires those who have been through divorce, a partner's infidelity, miscarriage or have been dealt an unfair hand, sharing openly about her two failed marriages, suffering multiple miscarriages and discovering her husband's affair while pregnant in their first year of marriage. To add to our guest's array of disappointments, she poignantly tells us about the letter that ended her second marriage and which left her devastated and alone. Having a partner abandon her after what she believed to have been twelve wonderful years, she had to work through the difficult circumstances all on her own, including managing the business they owned together, while he effectively disappeared for weeks. She talks about struggling with feelings of guilt and not being enough, and how therapy and support from friends and family restored her hope of finding love again. For more about how this woman conquered the many obstacles in her life, don't miss out on this episode of the Bad Girls Bible Podcast! Key Points From This Episode: More about Susan's background and being adopted into a wonderful family. How she met her second husband and their early days together. The age gap and her thought processes around it. Falling pregnant a second time and having a series of miscarriages following the first. Why it is so difficult for Australian citizens to adopt. Her unfulfilling first marriage and their lack of intimacy. Her gut feeling about her second husband's infidelity. How her partner's infidelity consumed her and realizing that she needed to forgive. The devastating letter that ended their marriage. Being concerned for her husband's mental state and worrying that he might end his own life. The hardest thing about his abandonment and how it impacted her daughter. Struggling with feelings of inadequacy and feeling partly responsible for his decision to leave. Having to deal with her pain, their business and sharing the news with others by herself. Getting to a place where she is ready to pursue love again. The importance of not being reactive is such circumstances. And much more! Tweetables: "I thought, hang on a minute, I'm pregnant, we're in our first year of marriage and you are cheating on me? I was really devastated." — Susan [0:15:56] "I felt like he was my soul mate, that's why it was just so soul-destroying when he left me in the manner that he left me." — Susan [0:24:01] "I'm a hopeless romantic, I believe in love still, so, I'm willing to put myself out there." — Susan [0:31:40]

On the show today we welcome Geanni, who is here to tell us all about her personal story and how she found out that her husband had got another woman pregnant while they were still married. This sort of situation is understandably distressing, but Geannie has a great perspective on it and offers amazing advice and insight that she has learned along the way. She gives us some of the backstory of how her and her husband got together and the marriage before explaining the period in which the infidelity came to light. She talks about her commitment to the marriage and how they actually managed to get over the issue for a period before the relationship ended. She also goes into her feelings on their relationship currently, how they share a child and the parenting process for her. For all of this and a fascinating interview from Geannie, be sure to tune in! Key Points From This Episode Some personal background on Geannie. Meeting her husband in high school and getting to know him. The proposal and getting married soon after school. Confronting her husband about her suspicions. Reconciling after the initial separation and the role of Geannie's spirituality in this. Geannie's husband's fears of pregnancy with the other women. The decision to try and overcome this massive hurdle and the difficult first year. Geannie's current relationship with her husband and the family they have. Advice from Geannie to listeners in a similar situation. Geannie's contact with her husband's child and the mother. And much more! Tweetables "We started dating early in 2006 and that was my senior year in high school. It was his junior year in high school. We were married in October of 2007." — Geannie [0:03:32] "I just kept digging until I found something and so when I accused him, when I finally went to him, he denied it." — Geannie [0:08:30] Links Mentioned in Today's Episode Bad Girls Bible — https://badgirlsbible.com

On today's show we welcome Dr. Lori Brotto, a Professor in the department for Obstetrics and Gynecology at the University of British Columbia and the Canada Research Chair in Women's Sexual Health. Lori has also the author of the book, Better Sex Through Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire. In this episode we are discussing sexual desire, and how a low desire or lack of interest in sex is by far the most common sexual concern, not only in women but in men as well. Many people struggle for different reasons, both psychologically and socially. Lori helps us today to uncover those struggles and those reasons and step beyond our negative beliefs to reignite our sexual desires through mindfulness. For an incredibly insightful conversation, be sure to tune in to today's episode! Key Points From This Episode: Hear more about Lori and how she became a sex researcher and sex therapist. Researcher's findings on reasons why women experience low sexual desire. Why low sexual desire is often confused. Understanding how mood and depression suppresses desire. How your beliefs can impact your desire. Cognitive behavioral therapy and how it can effectively treat sexual complaints. Physical conditions people can have that may interfere with sexual function. A female Viagra solution to fix female sexual arousal disorder, how terrible can it be? Struggling to reach orgasm during sex: whether you're lacking desire or full of it. How mindfulness can help women and man be more present and reignite desire. Lori share some stories from her book on how mindfulness can be useful. Adopting a regular mindfulness practice and engaging the muscle of the mind. And so much more! Tweetables: "Low desire or lack of interest in sex is by far the most common sexual concern, not only in women but in men as well." — @DrLoriBrotto [0:04:01] "Negative beliefs in the brain can also stimulate certain brain path ways that interfere with desire and arousal." — @DrLoriBrotto [0:11:21] "Pretty much anything that impacts hormones has the potential to impact sexual response." — @DrLoriBrotto [0:14:35] "If you are going to have sex, you may as well show up for it." — @DrLoriBrotto [0:27:30] Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Dr. Lori Brotto — http://www.loribrotto.com/ Dr. Lori on Twitter — https://twitter.com/DrLoriBrotto Better Sex Through Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire — https://www.amazon.com/Better-Sex-Through-Mindfulness-Cultivate/dp/1771642351/ University of British Columbia — https://brottolab.med.ubc.ca/about/dr-lori-brotto/