The Catholic in Recovery Podcast

In this episode of the Catholic in Recovery podcast, Scott Weeman and Father Sean Kilcawley return from a hiatus to discuss their recent activities, including Father Sean's travels and Scott's work with Catholic in Recovery amidst a challenging ice storm. The primary topic is Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACA) or Adult Children of Dysfunctional Family Systems, which they explore by discussing its history, the broadening scope of trauma, and how the resulting traits can be an "unrefined superpower." They examine the 14 "laundry list" traits of adult children and conclude with encouragement to seek help and community through resources like ACA/ACOA groups and Catholic in Recovery meetings.

In this episode of the Catholic in Recovery podcast, hosts Scott Weeman and Father Sean Kilcawley discuss the interconnected themes of gratitude and service, especially as they relate to the recovery journey around Thanksgiving. They delve into how service acts as the greatest expression of gratitude, sharing personal reflections on the dangers of idle time as a trigger and the importance of allowing others to love you. They emphasize that service is a critical, life-saving requirement for sobriety and a path to feeling a beneficial part of a fellowship.

In this Catholic in Recovery podcast episode, Scott Weeman shares his personal recovery journey with Father Sean Kilcawley, detailing his struggles with addiction, the impact on his relationships, and his eventual path to sobriety through AA and the Catholic Church. He recounts significant moments, including a pivotal conversation with his ex-girlfriend and the guidance of his sponsor, Michael. The episode concludes with a discussion on the benefits of both in-person and virtual recovery meetings, and a blessing from Father Sean Kilcawley.

In this episode of the Catholic in Recovery Podcast, Scott Weeman and Father Sean Kilcawley discuss the vital role of boundaries in fostering healthy relationships within recovery, emphasizing that these boundaries are crucial for protecting sobriety, mental health, and spiritual growth, especially for those who come from backgrounds where boundaries were often absent. They highlight that setting boundaries, though challenging, allows individuals to prioritize their recovery and say "yes" to what truly matters. The episode also delves into common boundary challenges, the impact of trauma and codependency, and offers practical advice on setting and maintaining boundaries, while relying on faith and the sacraments for strength.

In this episode of the Catholic in Recovery Podcast, Scott Weeman and Father Sean Kilcawley discuss how to stay spiritually grounded, emotionally stable, and sober through seasons of change and recovery. They share personal experiences with significant life transitions, such as moving and new jobs, and explore how these changes can impact one's recovery journey. The episode also touches on the importance of maintaining spiritual disciplines, seeking support, and adapting routines to navigate change successfully.

In Episode 17 of the Catholic in Recovery podcast, Scott Weeman and Father Sean Kilcawley discuss common misunderstandings Catholics have about 12-step recovery, emphasizing how faith and recovery can work together. They address various misconceptions, such as the idea that 12-step recovery is not "Catholic enough" due to terms like "higher power" or that being a "good Catholic" means one shouldn't need recovery. The hosts highlight the deep spirituality of the Twelve Steps, their compatibility with Catholic teaching, and the importance of community and humility in the healing process.

In Episode 15 of the Catholic in Recovery podcast, hosts Scott Weeman and Father Sean Kilcawley discuss the often hidden struggle of lust and pornography addiction within the Church and society. They cover how the Twelve Steps, Catholic spirituality, and the sacraments can offer healing and freedom. They also explore the definition of lust addiction beyond pornography, the criteria for identifying process addictions, and various pathways to recovery, emphasizing the importance of 12-step programs and radical life shifts for true healing.

In this podcast episode, Scott Weeman and Father Sean Kilcawley discuss the integration of the Catholic faith with 12-Step recovery programs. They explore the appropriateness of sharing one's faith in secular meetings, balancing spiritual convictions with group unity, and the importance of humility and discernment. They also delve into the concept of surrender to God, the importance of faith in recovery, and how to navigate sharing faith in secular settings.

In this episode of the Catholic in Recovery podcast, Scott Weeman and Father Sean Kilcawley discuss addiction recovery through the metaphor of "bruised fruit" from Saint Francis de Sales. They explore the concept of innocence versus being wounded by addiction and how genuine devotion, not just religious activities, is essential for healing. They also share personal reflections on their own struggles and recovery, emphasizing the importance of honesty, surrender, and recognizing that God's healing often comes through acknowledging our wounds and relying on His grace.

In this episode of the Catholic in Recovery podcast, hosts Scott Weeman and Father Sean Kilcawley explore the meaning of anonymity, its origins, and its practical applications in recovery. They also touch on balancing recovery with faith, sharing personal recovery stories, and navigating the challenges of maintaining anonymity while seeking help.

In this podcast episode, Scott Weeman and Fr. Sean Kilcawley cover the topic of grief and addiction. They discuss how grief can lead to addiction, the stages of grief, dealing with grief while in recovery, and navigating loss and grief in the midst of recovery.

In the fifth episode of the Catholic in Recovery podcast, Scott Weeman and Fr. Sean Kilcawley discuss the importance of the first 90 days of recovery, daily habits, integrating the sacraments and prayer into recovery, and sharing about one's recovery with family and friends.