The Girlfriends: Spotlight, E19: Lejla Fights for the Invisible
From The Girlfriends: Flight or Fight by iHeartPodcasts and Novel
March 23, 2026 · 40 min · Episode 15
About this episode
The episode tells the story of Lejla Damon, a child born from sexual violence during the Bosnian War, and her journey to find her identity and advocate for other invisible children.
Christmas Day, 1992. Sarajevo, Bosnia. War is ranging - Serb forces surround the city. For nearly four years, its people have endured daily shelling and sniper attacks, cut off from the rest of the world in the longest siege of a capital city in modern warfare. More than 11,000 people were killed. 1600 of them were children. And in the main hospital, a baby is born: Lejla Damon. Her mother didn’t want anything to do with her - if she held her, she said, she would strangle her. Lejla was born of sexual violence used as a weapon of war. Her birth mother had been raped, repeatedly, by Serb soldiers in a concentration camp. And Lejla was just too closely linked to her attackers for her to bear. Lejla was adopted by a British couple, and grew up in London. She felt alone in her earliest life experiences. But in adulthood, she’s found her Bosnian identity, and become an advocate for the countless other ‘invisible’ children around the world born of sexual violence used as a weapon of war. The Girlfriends: Spotlight is produced by Novel for iHeartPodcasts. For more from Novel visit novel.audio
People in this episode
Guest: Lejla Damon
Topics covered
- war
- identity
- adoption
- sexual violence
- advocacy
- childhood trauma
Keywords
- Bosnian War
- sexual violence
- adoption
- child advocacy
- identity
- trauma
- invisible children
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: iHeartPodcasts, Novel
Places: Sarajevo, Bosnia
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