Fire Horse or Foal? How Mothers in Divorce Break Free from Fear and Find Their Footing

About this episode

This episode discusses how mothers can overcome fear during divorce and find their footing.

I don't know if it's the Fire Horse energy swirling around — but I am so done watching mothers get swallowed up by a system that was never designed to help them heal. And I have a feeling you might be ready for something different too. Whether you're divorce-curious, tiptoeing toward the door, or deep in the messy middle — this episode is for you. Because the steps you take today directly shape the ones you'll have to take tomorrow. Waiting to see how it all works out is NOT a strategy. In this episode: - The four-letter word that's quietly running the show and sabotaging your every move (hint: it's not love) - Why so many mothers know they want out — but still can't get out of their own way, and what their spouse is counting on - Why the power of interruption is so wildly underrated — and what happens when you finally use it You may have walked into this feeling like a wobbly newborn foal. But those legs are going to grow stronger — and they'll need to, because they're going to carry you across the finish line. Which track are you going to run on? — If you’re a professional, independent mother facing off with divorce, worried about your emotional wellbeing, your kids and your…

People in this episode

Host: Kristen Noel

Topics covered

• divorce
• motherhood
• emotional wellbeing
• fear
• personal growth

Keywords

• divorce
• mothers
• fear
• emotional wellbeing
• personal growth
• divorce workshop
• strategy call

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