The MEN.CHURCH.STUFF. Podcast - A Show for Everyday Christians

Most of us are guilty of putting a period where God has more to say—and missing out on the ongoing story He’s writing in our lives. When we think we’ve “arrived” or reached the end of a chapter, we may be unknowingly cutting short what God intends to reveal next. But what if the pauses, the setbacks, or even the seasons we dislike are actually part of a bigger, more beautiful narrative? In this episode, hosts DJ and Brad explore how adopting a mindset that embraces God’s ongoing voice can transform our perspective on career, family, community, and faith itself. They unpack real stories—from career disappointments to unexpected moves—showing how God’s “more to say” often comes through seasons we’d rather skip. You’ll discover how to recognize when you’re trying to put a period in God’s sentence and learn practical ways to keep the story open-ended in obedience and trust. We break down how these “periods” can become opportunities for divine redirection rather than dead ends. Explore the significance of valleys and mountaintops in God's journey for us—how seasons of drought prepare us for rain, and how staying open to God’s ongoing narrative prevents us from erecting idols on our spiritual mountaintops. Plus, learn how the church, as a community, can avoid the trap of halting God's work prematurely, restoring its focus on seeking His ongoing voice rather than clinging to comfortable traditions or past victories. Whether you’re facing a major life transition or simply want to better discern God’s ongoing story for you and your community, this episode offers a compelling invitation to surrender the period and embrace the comment—what God still has to say. If you long to step deeper into faith that moves beyond the “end,” this is essential listening. Guests and insights from Scripture underscore that our God is a God of continuance—not completion. When we align ourselves with His timing and trust His ongoing story, we open ourselves to transformation, purpose, and ultimately, a richer relationship with Him. Tune in to hear how to leave behind the limitations of human pause and step confidently into the comment God is waiting to write next.

Most people never give themselves permission to fully grieve — and that can keep them stuck far longer than they need to be. What if grief isn’t the enemy, but a gift from God that we’re allowed to experience authentically? In this episode of the Men Church Stuff Podcast, DJ and Brad dive into what healthy grieving really looks like — and why it’s crucial to let yourself feel all the emotions that come with loss.From biblical examples like Jesus weeping at Lazarus’s tomb to real stories of loved ones holding onto memories through tangible keepsakes, hear how grief is more than an obstacle — it’s part of our human design and spiritual process. They break down practical ways to navigate grief’s storm, including giving yourself space, refraining from rushing the healing timeline, and asking honest questions of God without shame. Plus, discover why tears are not only okay — they’re a vital part of emotional health, backed by scriptural permission and scientific insight.You’ll discover actionable steps for loved ones, friends, and even pastors to better support those who are grieving. Learn how to balance empathy with boundaries, avoid harmful responses like asking “what happened,” and provide meaningful companionship through simple acts like washing dishes or sharing memories. This episode emphasizes that grief isn’t a sign of spiritual weakness but a testament to love, connection, and trust in God’s sovereignty.Whether you’re walking through your own loss, supporting someone who is, or simply want to understand grief’s biblical and emotional roots, this conversation offers hope, honesty, and encouragement. Remember — it’s okay not to be okay, and your process can be sacred. Don’t let society’s misguided expectations keep you from experiencing healing in God's perfect timing.Perfect for anyone dealing with loss — whether recent or distant, emotional or tangible. If you’ve ever felt guilty for grieving too long or questioned whether your tears are valid, this episode is for you. Tune in, breathe, and give yourself permission to grieve well, God’s way.Why this works: This episode hooks listeners with the powerful reminder that grief is both normal and divine, addressing common shame and misconceptions. By emphasizing biblical examples, practical support strategies, and emotional honesty, it resonates deeply with those in despair or supporting loved ones, fostering a sense of permission, hope, and community.

In this episode of the Men Church Stuff Podcast, hosts DJ Culp and Brad Coleman explore the complexities of heart's desires through the lens of a quote by Tim Keller. They discuss how pursuing our deepest desires may not lead to fulfillment and how delighting in the Lord can reshape those desires. The conversation delves into personal experiences, the nature of idolatry, and the importance of finding true satisfaction in Christ.KeywordsMen Church Stuff, Tim Keller, heart's desires, fulfillment, idolatry, Christian podcast, personal growth, spirituality, music industry, teachingBuy our merchandise here!!!

SummaryIn this episode, Brad Coleman and DJ Culp discuss the challenges of balancing family and work, especially during the holiday season. They share personal experiences and insights on prioritizing family, the importance of being present, and effective communication with children. The conversation also touches on the significance of modeling love and respect within the family, as well as encouraging personal growth and education. Listeners are reminded to celebrate their families and keep Christ at the center during the Christmas season.Takeaways-You don't sacrifice your family at the altar of ministry.-It's important to balance work and family life.-Being present with your family is crucial.-Model love and respect for your children.-Encourage personal growth and education in your family.-It's okay to have your emotions and communicate them.-Don't bluff your kids; they will call your bluff.-Make Jesus a priority in your family's life.-Celebrate small moments with your family.-Reach out for help when needed.

DJ and Brad meet up to talk about how the idea of Total Depravity may cause Christianity to appear oppressive. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram. Share the show using #menchurchstuff and get the word out!

DJ and Brad meet up for the first of three mini-series episodes on marriage. They discuss ways to make marital arguments more meaningful and respectful. Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @ menchurchstuff. Email us at menchurchstuff@gmail.com.

Brad surprises DJ with an interview about quotes collected by his own students.

DJ and Brad talk about how to deal with the busy schedules of the holiday season. Topics include being present when spending time with family and friends, and being sensitive to God's spirit with giving generously.