
#35: Why Relaxed Orgasms Might Blow Your Mind
From The Naked Unashamed Life by Lucy Rowett
May 21, 2025 · 23 min · Episode 35
About this episode
In this episode, Lucy Rowett explores the concept of relaxed orgasms and how to achieve them for enhanced pleasure.
Discover the pleasure potential your sex ed never taught you by doing the exact opposite of what you usually do in sex: relaaaaaxxxx into pleasure and orgasms. I recorded this as a voicenote as I walked in the park and I know this knowledge will change your life. In this episode to celebrate Masturbation Month, I cover: The difference between relaxed pleasure and excited pleasure Relaxed orgasms vs tension orgasms Learning how to relax into your orgasm is the secret to having orgasms more easily Letting go of the need to perform and getting stuck in your head When you feel overstimulated and are used to living a high intensity life, learning to relax can feel like a threat-- and that's ok! Why you need to slooooow down rather than speed up Sex as meditation Practising feeling pleasure rather than trying to chase it If you want to have your very first orgasm, more consistent and reliable orgasms, or orgasms that just feel easy and not like squeezing blood from a stone, then you need to enroll yourself in my signature e-course for women and v havers: Orgasmic Liberation For the whole of May you get 50% off to celebrate Masturbation Month. Get all the information about O Liberation…
People in this episode
Host: Lucy Rowett
Topics covered
- relaxed orgasms
- pleasure
- Masturbation Month
- sexual education
- meditation
- self-exploration
Keywords
- orgasms
- relaxation
- pleasure potential
- sexuality
- self-care
- intimacy
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