The Unexpected Us Podcast (with The Flirty Pineapples)

In this episode, we sit down with Ashley and Rob from United By Swing, a fully bisexual married couple creating community for bi men and mixed-orientation relationships in the lifestyle. We talk about the stigma bi men still face in sex-positive spaces, why many feel pressure to hide, and how fear, shame, and outdated masculinity myths can impact connection.Ashley shares compassionate advice for partners who feel surprised when their husband opens up, including how to process your own emotions without turning his vulnerability into a crisis. We also explore the difference between fantasy and action, how to start these conversations safely, and why honesty often deepens intimacy instead of threatening the relationship. Rob and Ashley share some wonderful resources for bi-guys that you're gonna wanna check out!You can find Rob and Ashley on Instagram at http://instagram.com/united_bi_swinging - follow them and give ‘em some love!Come say 'hi' on our favorite ENM dating app - this link pops you straight into our group, so you won't have to hunt around for us!https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37882Check out our absolute favorite STI testing company, STD Hero, with a nice juicy 15% off discount! https://mybls.com/?sca_ref=8588633.tc3n4k94oPK&utm_source=affiliate&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=8588633Stay flirty...stay fun...and HOPEFULLY we'll see ya soon!xoxo, bella & prescott

In this episode, the hosts discuss the importance of confidence and approachability in lifestyle events, sharing personal experiences and practical tips for navigating social interactions. They emphasize the significance of setting boundaries, especially when dealing with clingy couples, and provide strategies for polite disengagement. The conversation also highlights the unique dynamics of socializing in lifestyle clubs, including the often-overlooked connections made in restrooms. The episode concludes with a challenge for listeners to engage with new people at their next event.FREE TRIAL of our favorite dating app:https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=3788215% OFF our favorite at-home STI test kits:https://mybls.com/?sca_ref=8588633.tc3n4k94oPK&utm_source=affiliate&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=8588633

In this conversation, Bella shares her personal journey with jealousy, contrasting her experiences with those of her partner, Prescott. They discuss the emotional complexities of jealousy, the impact of past relationships, and the importance of communication and trust in navigating their open relationship. Bella reflects on her insecurities and the work she has done to overcome them, emphasizing the need for self-reflection and personal growth. The conversation highlights the challenges and triumphs they have faced together as they explore the lifestyle and learn to manage jealousy effectively.Struggling with jealousy?  Check out Bella’s Master Jealousy Course where she has compiled all of the skills and strategies she used as a therapist to work through her own jealousy and thrive in the lifestyle:  https://bella-s-site-bfa4.thinkific.com/courses/bellasjealousybustingmasterclassFREE TRIAL of our favorite dating app:https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=3788215% OFF our favorite at-home STI test kits:https://mybls.com/?sca_ref=8588633.tc3n4k94oPK&utm_source=affiliate&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=8588633

In the relaunch of the inaugural episode of the Unexpected Us podcast, hosts Bella and Prescott share their journey into the swinging lifestyle, discussing their origin story, goals for the podcast, and the experiences that shaped their relationship. They aim to provide insights, coaching, and real-life stories to help others navigate the lifestyle, while also reflecting on their personal adventures and challenges along the way.FREE TRIAL of our favorite dating app:https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=3788215% OFF our favorite at-home STI test kits:https://mybls.com/?sca_ref=8588633.tc3n4k94oPK&utm_source=affiliate&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=8588633