
About this episode
This episode features midlife women sharing their honest stories about motherhood and identity, challenging societal norms.
For midlife women, Mother's Day can bring up all sorts of feelings. In this special episode, four midlife women share radically honest stories about motherhood, identity, and the inherited scripts we get to rewrite. Ruthie Ackerman, author of The Mother Code and founder of Ignite Writers Collective, reframes motherhood as a time of transformation rather than self-sacrifice and shows how midlife women can challenge the patriarchal myths that have shaped their choices. Katie Horwitch, founder of WANT (Women Against Negative Talk) and author of WANT Yourself , walks us through the inherited contracts behind our self-talk and how to replace our limiting stories. Sarah Gormley, author of The Order of Things , shares how starting over at 40, through therapy, loss, love, and an art gallery, gave her the life she'd always been chasing when she was climbing ladders. The episode closes with a sound bath from somatic healer and breast cancer survivor Shayla Martin, whose entire life was changed when she healed her Mother Wound. Whatever Mother's Day means to you, I hope you'll see yourself in these stories. "I want to be a mother who believes that there are so many ways to have a worthy and…
People in this episode
Host: Aransas Savas
Guests: Ruthie Ackerman, Katie Horwitch, Sarah Gormley, Shayla Martin
Topics covered
- motherhood
- midlife
- identity
- self-talk
- transformation
Keywords
- midlife women
- Mother's Day
- self-sacrifice
- patriarchal myths
- therapy
- transformation
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: Ignite Writers Collective
Books & works: The Mother Code, WANT Yourself, The Order of Things
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