ThePowerOfSelfEVOLution with KarenLoveLee

Over "Doing" is a cover up and mask for underlying emotional pain, predominantly UNconscious fear of feeling insecure and not good enough. My client, Kris and I talk about why this happens and how to stop it! Human beings are automatically taught to DO more than feel in order to survive through life. Simply put, we are taught to do more to have more to be happy and fulfilled. This is completely wrong! Actually, counterproductive. I lived this way, and it NEVER worked, nor was it ever close to sustainable. It's counter intuitive, and I've learned by experience that the fastest, freest funest way to live the life of our DREAMS is to feel happy and fulfilled first. This makes do-ing feel virtually effortless and materializing the results becomes inevitable. #EmpoweringYouThroughUs #KarenLoveLeeEmpowersYOU

Whoopsy :-O So sorry, we dropped off because I didn't plug in my computer ~ LOL! I quickly recap with the benefits of deeply understanding our Sense of Self. Kris had to go, but he'll be back for Part 3.

"To each his (your) own," as the saying goes! Sharing my expereinces and thoughts on the pros & cons of my personal experience with conventional therapy. And, how it has directly and indirectly influenced not only my coahing methods, but my life. Every human being can benefit from "Therapy." I highly recomment it! And then, there is taking Self-Development to a whole NEW level, and the coaching I practice, teach and preach "Blew My MInd." It connected me to mySELF, and to all Human Beings in ways I never thought possible! This may sound weird, but since early childhood, I could never understand the meaning of life, and was not a fan of being human, nor liking other human beings ~ LOL!! True story. All I can say, is that I woke up and now "Get it," because I get ME. This transformed my whole world in the realm of what it is to BE human, and the value of "Getting" all other humans for all that we are, and more importanly, for all that we are NOT. With no judgement. Just acceptance. Happy Humans Happy World My deepest thanks to Kris K for joining me for this episode. His remarkably radical growth, progress and results speak for themselves. The evidence doesn't lie ;-) I'm truly honored to be his coach, and teach through not only knowledge, but by experience, which makes the REAL difference! Kris, thanks for being A BRILLIANT LIGHT.

Tired of having to do things, rather than wanting to do things? If you are human then you can relate to this! It's all about the choices and decisions you make consciously and UNCONSCIOUSLY. Case & Point: Marilyn admits that she doesn't want to spend time and care for her husband, who is suffering from dementia, after decades of marriage. WTF? It's NOT about her husband or her marriage, it's about subconscious REBELLION stemming from early childhood causing emotional blindspots. This undetectible resentment causes Marilyn to unintentionally avoid and escape the uneasiness hidden by, what I call, "almost justifiable excuses." IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT FEELING FREE FROM MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL IMPRISONMENT. It's never obvious, and only shows up as irritability, frustration, anxienty, distraction, anger, short-temperedness, indifference, inability to commit and effectively meet obligations, lack of joy, happiness and gratitude. The list is just too long, but simply put, it hinders, blocks and stops us from faithfully being, doing and getting what we truly WANT. "I hate it when you're right, Karen," Marilyn blurts out when I call her out on what she is unwilling to confront, only because she can't see the real saboteur, "HerSELF." If she truly wants to be happy, healthy and harmoniously married while continuing to build her dreams in life, then she must learn how to recognize the negative symptoms and reconnect to the positive aspects of taking responsiblity for the life she wishes to create. And, most importantly, emotionally connect to the fun, freedom, benefits and fulfilling rewards of stopping the cycle of SELF-SABOTAGE. Immediately following our podcast recording, with beaming energy, Marilyn texts, "I got a lot! And, you are brilliant as always." Her paradigm shift was exponentially obvious. Topics: Digging Deep to Get to the Core Root Problem Stop Avoiding & Escaping the REAL Issue Overridding Should & Have To Create What You Want & Desire Recommintting to Your Responsibilty of Marriage (Romantic Relationship) How to Turn Obligation Back Into Passion! #KarenLoveLeeEmpowersYOU #EmpoweringYouThroughUs #ThePowerOfSelfEvolution #ConsciousnessEvolution #SelfFreedom #MentalEmotionalFREEDOM #LoveYourDreamLife

*Note: So sorry, I messed up! Somehow I didn't record Kris's audio, so you can only hear me, and was just made aware of this by the brilliant Kris, himself!! #LessonLearned with my production skills, which clearly need improvement. #GameOn When it comes to progress the human brain fears the lack thereof. The last thing we want to do is scale back in order to scale up. Who in their right mind wants to go backwards, especially when huge progress has been made. By nature we do not want to feel like we are losing momentum and progression. We fear feeling stuck, especially feeling like we're losing traction. Kris opens up about having to go through this as he steps into greater endeavors as an entrepreneur. #StepByStep A SuperHuman mindset requires being willing to go back to the fundamentals. Almost in essence, feeling like we're starting over. We must also be willing to let go of all expectations. This is so counter-intuitive simple because it feels counter-productive. However, it's not. Once we understand what's really going on underneath the fears. The key is to comprehend how our brain tricks us to believe we are losing, when in actuality we end up resetting in preparation to win---bigger, better, brighter!!!!! #MindOverMatter

"Watch out for what you wish for!" It's one thing to want something. It's another whole thing to get it, and then have to deal with the the things you didn't EXPECT?!! With great success comes even greater responsibilities, and more obligations. The illusion is that once we actually get what we want, life will be easier and all of our problems will be solved. So, NOT true! "Without darkness, there is no light." There is good & bad, positive & negative to every situation. Pick the side of more pros than cons. #MajorityRules Your conscious mind makes up a wish. This is the easy part. Unfortunately, the sub conscious, but mostly the UNconscious mind UNknowingly sabotages that wish from materializing because of the "BLIND Siding Effect." This is the phenomenon where UNcosncious fear stemming back from past experiences of failure unknowingly get in our way when we venture out into new and UNfamiliar territory. Like starting a new business from scratch!

Happy healthy money follows who you ARE, not what you Do! Kris, "Right now it seems like I can spit into the wind and it turns to gold!" Tracking thoughts, perspectives, moods, attitudes, emotions that cause breakdown to breakthrough performance and results!

Death, whether metaphorically or physically, is inevitable. A very poignant subject as my father just past away last month. Yet, death comes in all different forms, from the end of a season, to a relationship breaking up, to losing a beloved pet, to losing a championship, to losing my favorite car in a near-fatal accident.... #NecessaryLosses My client co-host, Kris and I discuss the powerful enlightment and wisdom to be gained by digging deeper and understanding what lies beneath the surface of loss. There are always blessings in disguise on the otherside, as long as we stay open to believing in them as we allow ourselves to honor our feelings.