Living Will Preparation: What You Need to Know Before Completing Your Advance Directive (Part 1 of 3) | S3EP56

Living Will Preparation: What You Need to Know Before Completing Your Advance Directive (Part 1 of 3) | S3EP56

From Thoughtful Planning by Santiago and Honey Bueno

December 2, 2025 · 26 min · Season 3 · Episode 56

About this episode

This episode discusses the importance of preparing for living wills and advance directives through critical thinking about personal values and priorities.

Episode Summary: Meet Simone (story from Emory Critical Conditions Planning Guide). At 28, after a car accident, she's in a permanent vegetative state. Her family faces an impossible choice: keep her on life support indefinitely or allow natural death. The problem? They're guessing what she'd want because she never told them. In this episode, we walk through the critical thinking work you need to do BEFORE filling out your living will so your wishes are clear when it matters most. Essential Question: What decisions do you have to make about your values and priorities before you can meaningfully complete your advance directives? Episode Highlights: 00:03 - Simone's story: Why preparation matters 02:43 - Understanding advance directives (it's more than one form) 04:27 - Texas Living Will basics (and how to find your state's forms) 06:04 - The problem: Why people freeze mid-form 08:02 - The Emory Guide: Your prep work tool 10:24 - Terminal vs. irreversible conditions explained 12:19 - Specific treatments: feeding tubes, ventilators, CPR 14:32 - Santiago's feeding tube story 16:51 - Core values: What makes life worth living? 19:15 - Why emergency docs need quick, clear instructions…

People in this episode

Hosts: Santiago Bueno, Honey Bueno

Topics covered

  • living will preparation
  • advance directives
  • healthcare decisions
  • values and priorities
  • end-of-life planning

Keywords

  • living will
  • advance directive
  • healthcare agent
  • end-of-life decisions
  • critical conditions
  • Texas Living Will
  • preparation
  • values
  • healthcare decisions

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Emory Critical Conditions Planning Guide, Texas Living Will

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