Phone Scams, Love Languages, and Spicy Group Chats

Phone Scams, Love Languages, and Spicy Group Chats

From Tongue First by Siren and Wendy

June 1, 2026 · 1h 9m · Season 1 · Episode 5

About this episode

Siren and Wendy discuss phone scams, sapphic relationships, and the dynamics of their spicy group chat.

This week on Tongue First, Siren and Wendy are back for a solo episode that somehow covers everything from financial fraud to sapphic softness — with a spicy group chat in the middle holding it all together. Wendy kicks things off with a week from hell: a CheapOAir booking disaster and a phone scammer who smooth-talked her out of eighteen hundred dollars by pretending to be her bank. It's a cautionary tale, it's a PSA, and it's somehow also hilarious. Then the group chat comes up — nineteen people, daily titty pics, and a very consensual conversation that somehow leads into a deep dive on what sapphic relationships actually feel like from the inside. Tender eye contact, soft skin, the kind of connection that makes the rest of the world disappear. Wendy opens up about heartbreak, what four days of no contact actually costs you, and why she's done giving grace to people who won't stay consistent. Siren talks about losing nearly every friendship she had when she left the church, what it means to finally have found family that shows up with no strings attached, and why being desired — really desired — is something she didn't think was possible for her until recently. Also: lesbian…

People in this episode

Hosts: Siren, Wendy

Topics covered

  • phone scams
  • sapphic relationships
  • group chats
  • financial fraud
  • heartbreak
  • friendship

Keywords

  • phone scams
  • sapphic softness
  • group chat
  • financial fraud
  • heartbreak
  • lesbian fashion

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: CheapOAir

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