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| 3/25/26 | Orgie$, Rope Burns & A Domme's Double Life EXPOSED | Private parties, rope burns, and a life most people don’t talk about. In this episode of Uncensored with Mx Tomie, Faerie Bruises (Kitten) shares her journey from a conventional path to becoming a traveling model, dominatrix, and artist immersed in NYC’s underground scene. From the moment everything shifted, to navigating community, identity, and what happens when family finds out — nothing is off limits. They dive into polyamory, psychological power, rope, creativity, and the reality behind a lifestyle people often misunderstand. 🎙️ A raw, honest conversation about choosing your path — and owning it. Channels 0:00 – 0:44 — Cold Open & Rope, Pain, and Mom 0:44 – 1:18 — Welcome & Guest Introduction 1:18 – 2:04 — How They Met: The Most Organic Orgy 2:04 – 3:08 — Entering the Poly & Kink Scenes 3:08 – 4:20 — What People Get Wrong About Polyamory 4:20 – 5:11 — Conflict Skills, NVC & Group Chat Chaos 5:11 – 5:55 — Best Group Chat Name: “Spontaneous Bangs” 5:55 – 7:08 — Why ‘Faerie Bruises’? Why ‘Kitten’? 7:08 – 8:28 — From Business School to Going Pro in Sex Work 8:28 – 9:26 — Growing Up in Conservative Oklahoma 9:26 – 12:03 — Being Outed to Her Parents 12:03 – 12:55 — Consent, OnlyFans & Mom Subscribes 12:55 – 14:10 — Advice for Talking to Family About Sex Work & Kink 14:10 – 14:52 — Explaining Masochism: Rope vs Marathons & Spicy Food 14:52 – 15:21 — Hope for Difficult Family Conversations 15:21 – 16:39 — Who She Was Before Kink 16:39 – 17:31 — Petite Powerhouse: Size, Power & Psychological Domination 17:31 – 19:07 — Creating Psychological Panic in Submissives 19:07 – 19:44 — Why Psychological Play Is So Accessible 19:44 – 21:05 — Early Fetishes: Dita Von Teese & Damsels in Distress 21:05 – 22:06 — What Makes a Great Creative Collaboration 22:06 – 23:06 — Rethinking Rope Photography & Private Film at Play Parties 23:06 – 24:13 — What She Loves About Rope: Perversion, Intensity, Play 24:13 – 25:28 — Asia Rope Tour Plans 25:28 – 26:06 — Tomie’s Asia Travel & Kink Curiosity 26:06 – 27:21 — Prompt to Describe a Favorite Rope Scene (Ad Break Intro) 26:21 – 27:20 — Sponsor Segment: Popstar Labs (Volume & Taste Supplement) 27:21 – 30:06 — One of Her Most Emotional Rope Scenes 30:06 – 31:32 — Goodbye Spaces, Closing Dungeons & Ephemeral Moments 31:32 – 32:51 — Intimacy on Camera & Honoring Boundaries 32:51 – 34:09 — Performing vs. Being Real When Cameras Are On 34:09 – 35:01 — Small Cameras, POV, and Trust at Events 35:01 – 36:31 — Misconceptions About Fetish & Kink Modeling 36:31 – 39:04 — Travel Modes: New York Kitten vs. Vacation vs. Adventure 39:04 – 40:30 — Deprogramming the NYC Grind While Traveling 40:30 – 41:24 — Social Battery, Rest Days & Co‑Working with Sex Workers 41:24 – 42:15 — Dom vs Escort: Different Jobs, Overlapping Energies 42:15 – 42:54 — Why She Stopped Pro Subbing 42:54 – 43:50 — Open Call for Pro Subs & Dungeon Overview 43:50 – 45:02 — The Unseen Labor of Running a Dungeon 45:02 – 46:06 — Safety, Supplies & Why Tomie Left a Previous Dungeon 46:06 – 47:03 — The Case of the Missing Foot (Art Theft & Return) 47:03 – 48:08 — Cleanliness, Maintenance & Why This Dungeon Stands Out 48:08 – 48:26 — Transition to Quick‑Fire Round 48:26 – 49:05 — Quick‑Fire: Current Kinks, Size, Shoots, Turn‑Ons & Fears 49:05 – 49:36 — Quick‑Fire: One Word for Her Art & Safe Words 49:36 – 50:13 — What ‘Uncensored’ Means to Her 50:13 – 50:26 — Sponsor Reminder: Popstar Labs (Performance & Volume) 50:26 – 51:13 — Patreon: Where the Truly Uncensored Content Lives 51:13 – 52:02 — Outro & Where to Follow Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/faeriebruises/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, www.popstarlabs.com/mxtomie Use code MXTOMIE with your listeners to get 20% off their first order. 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 52m 25s | ||||||
| 3/18/26 | NYC Dominatrix BUYS a Farm for S3x Workers | Dia Dynasty | EP 53: In this episode of Uncensored with Mx Tomie, we sit down with Dia Dynasty — dominatrix and founder of Femdom Farm — to explore her journey from strip clubs to building a radically different life rooted in power, community, and intention. From mentorship and holistic femdom to rethinking success, land ownership, and alternative living, Dia shares how she’s creating a new model for dominance beyond the dungeon. A bold, thought-provoking conversation on power, identity, and building your own world. Watch the full episode — and head to Patreon for the extended cut. Chapters: 0:00 – 1:02 Intro • Who is Dia Dynasty? 1:03 – 4:41Asian Femdom Lineage, Mentorship & Sisterhood 4:42 – 8:09 From Strip Clubs to Dungeon Life 8:10 – 10:59 First Week as a Domme & the “Point of No Return” Session 11:00 – 13:17Evolving Dominance & Everyday Power Tweaks 13:18 – 20:34 Female Supremacy, Matriarchy & Critique of Patriarchy 20:35 – 26:48 Aligning Dom Craft with Values • Holistic Femdom 26:49 – 35:37An Authentic Scene: Organic DS, Sissy Aesthetics & the Fuck Machine 35:38 – 40:13 Why Femdom Farm? Pandemic, Burnout & Rethinking “Success” 40:14 – 43:22 Finding & Funding the Land • The Vision for Femdom Farm 43:23 – 50:11Amish Neighbors, Gifting Economies & Learning to Give 50:12 – 51:18Pervertible Farmhouse: Hidden Hardpoints & Stealth Kink 51:19 – 56:30 Architecture of Play: Showers, Jails, Asylums & Woods Shacks 56:31 – 57:38 Access, Gatekeeping & How to Visit Femdom Farm 57:39 – 59:05 Quick-Fire Round: Fast Takes with Dia 59:06 – 1:01:35 Outro, Patreon, & Sponsor Plugs Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/dia__dynasty/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, www.popstarlabs.com/mxtomie Use code MXTOMIE with your listeners to get 20% off their first order. 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 1h 01m 58s | ||||||
| 3/11/26 |  Body Sushi for Crypto Millionaires & Burlesque Shabbat | A burlesque show breaks out at Shabbat. Paul McCartney needs a private chef. A crypto bro orders body sushi at a private dinner and ends up getting yelled at by a naked woman. Mx Tomie sits down with Chef Tova - the New York private chef behind Sinners Shabbat - after attending Tova’s “Red Scare” kink event. They talk about what happens when food, kink culture, sex work, and sacred Jewish rituals collide. From celebrity clients to chaotic dinner parties, this conversation gets personal, outrageous, and very funny. Subscribe to Uncensored with Mx Tomie - new episodes every Wednesday. Chapters 00:00 – 00:42 Cold Open & Teasers 00:42 – 02:06 Intro: Who Is Chef Tova? 02:06 – 03:26 From Buttered Pasta to Private Chef 03:26 – 04:15 Paul McCartney & Celebrity Clients 04:15 – 05:29 Growing Up Modern Orthodox 05:29 – 06:06 Converts, Race & Leaving the Neighborhood 06:06 – 07:25 Jewish Culture as Vibe & Passover Clarified 07:25 – 10:08 Why She Created Sinner Shabbat 10:08 – 11:14 The First Sinner Shabbat vs Now 11:14 – 13:39 Why Burlesque & Kink? 13:39 – 16:04 Entering Kink Through Private Chef Work 16:04 – 18:01 Sex Workers as Patrons & Art Supporters 18:01 – 21:32 Body Sushi, Crypto Guy & Birth of a Domme 21:32 – 23:30 Modeling vs Sex Work & Fantasy Dinner Game Intro 23:30 – 24:37 Designing a Dinner for Dommes 24:37 – 26:45 Backlash, Politics & Hate Comments 26:45 – 28:40 Who Leaves Hate Comments? 28:40 – 31:00 Responding With Love & Realizing They’re Just Sad 31:00 – 32:05 Hentai Origins: Library Manga Awakening 32:05 – 33:00 Erotica, Manga & What Actually Turns Them On 33:00 – 33:41 Learning to Fantasize About Yourself as Sexy 33:41 – 33:59 Filming vs Presence 33:59 – 35:51 Feral Restraint Kink & Shibari Scene at Sinner Shabbat 35:51 – 37:08 Submissive at Heart, Situational Dom 37:08 – 38:15 Autistic Subs, Clear Instructions & Puppy Play Misfire 38:15 – 39:44 Different Partners, Different Kinks 39:44 – 40:31 Food & Sex: Separate Realms 40:31 – 42:18 Quick-Fire Round 42:18 – 44:26 Patreon, Ads & Outro Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/cheftova/?hl=en Support the Show 💻 Join today, www.visitpopstarlabs.com/mxtomie Use code MXTOMIE with your listeners to get 20% off their first order. 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 44m 48s | ||||||
| 3/5/26 |  The Bottoming Expert: Most Subs Are Doing This Wrong & Why Bottoming Shouldn’t Hurt | EP 51: In this episode, Alex from Bottom’s Digest breaks down the real power of the bottom, sharing practical advice on relaxation, preparation, and communication. From beginner mistakes to myths created by porn, this candid conversation explores pleasure, power dynamics, and how to approach intimacy with confidence and knowledge. Chapters: 0:00 – 2:15 • Intro, Vibes & Meeting Story 2:15 – 3:22 • What Is the Power of a Bottom? 3:22 – 5:40 • Tomie’s Personal Journey With Bottoming 5:40 – 7:56 • First Times, Hemorrhoids & Why Bottoming Shouldn’t Hurt 7:56 – 12:30 • Pegging, Relaxation & Why Butt Plugs Don’t Stretch You 12:30 – 15:06 • Dilators, Lube & Why Silicone Wins 15:06 – 17:46 • Porn Fantasies vs. Reality 17:46 – 20:21 • Dealing With Mess & Choosing Better Partners 20:21 – 23:28 • Why This Work Exists & Calling Out Bad Advice 23:28 – 25:25 • Mid-Roll Ad: Popstar Labs 25:25 – 27:31 • Should Porn Show Prep? 27:31 – 30:03 • Bottoming, Gender, Masculinity & Pegging 30:03 – 32:23 • What Is a Real Power Bottom? 32:23 – 35:33 • Common New-Bottom Mistakes & a Steak-Dinner Horror Story 35:33 – 39:03 • Wild DMs, Shower Enemas & Bent Penises 39:03 – 40:44 • The #1 Question: Douching, Always Douching 40:44 – 42:31 • Prostate 101 & Pleasure Without One 42:31 – 44:20 • Too Small? Curves, Positions & Finger Techniques 44:20 – 45:25 • Biggest Red Flag: Pain 45:25 – 46:12 • Quick-Fire Round 46:12 – 46:50 • Final Advice for New Bottoms & Pegging Subs 46:50 – 48:08 • Closing Ads & Patreon Pitch 48:08 – 48:57 • Outro & Follow Links Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/bottomsdigest/?hl=en Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 49m 02s | ||||||
| 2/25/26 |  Brittany Andrews on 30+ Years in Adult Film & Her Thoughts on Sofie Rain Making Millions on OnlyFans | EP 50: We have the legendary Brittany Andrews on Uncensored with Mx Tomie. In this episode, Brittany opens up about what’s allowed her to thrive in the adult film industry for over 30 years — from setting firm boundaries to building real infrastructure behind her brand. She breaks down the business side of longevity, ownership, and why treating yourself like a company is the key to survival. We also discuss today’s creator economy, the millions being made on OnlyFans, and why the adult industry has been ahead of mainstream tech trends for decades. This is a powerful, insight-packed conversation filled with insider knowledge, resilience, and business strategy that applies far beyond one industry. For the extended, uncensored conversation and exclusive content, be sure to subscribe on Patreon. Follow our guest: IG - https://www.instagram.com/djbritstar/?hl=en Chapters: 0:00– Opening Advice for s3x workers, resilience 01:11 – Show Intro & Brittany Andrews Legacy 01:50 – How they met 02:27 – From Climbing the Ladder to Lifting Others 04:06 – Longevity 101: Treating yourself as a startup 05:32 – Teams, Systems & Not ‘Trusting People’ 06:32 – The Adult Ecosystem: So Many Ways to Make Money 07:28 – Breaking Down Her Business Branches 08:26 – Content as Long‑Term Asset & Retirement Plan 09:14 – Teaser: Taxes, Audits & The IRS 09:59 – Early Legacy Mindset & The First Dungeon 11:02 – Becoming a Legend by Accident 11:55 – Pre‑MILF Era: Planning for Retirement When Porn ‘Ends at 30’ 12:20 – When Porn Was $70 a Tape & No One Saw ‘Free Porn’ Coming 13:29 – The Sex Worker Survival Pattern: Burn, Rebuild, Repeat 14:36 – Tech Waves: From VHS to AI & Digital Doubles 15:25 – Why Many Sex Workers Struggle to Pivot 15:43 – Spiritual Tool: ‘I Am Willing to Change’ 16:58 – NFTs & Staying Ahead as an ‘Old Bitch’ 17:22 – Teen Hustle: Beauty Supply Job & Early Ambition 18:51 – Self‑Education, Shortcuts & Fake Diplomas 19:10 – Meeting Jenna Jameson in Jamaica (1995) 20:11 – Telling Mom ‘I Want to Do Porn’ 20:38 – Moving in With Jenna & Nikki Tyler 21:24 – The Wild West Era & Whisper Networks for Safety 21:53 – Concrete Safety Advice: ‘Don’t Shoot With Max Hardcore’ 23:09 – Ten‑Year Retirement & The Condom‑Only Era 23:47 – STD, Safety, and Testing Standards 24:53 – Proudly Condoms‑Only for 20 Years 25:21 – Turning Down a Bigger Contract Than Jenna’s 25:49 – Ownership vs. Studio Work: What She Knew Early 26:46 – Managing Other Stars & Discovering They Own Nothing 27:29 – Spreadsheets, 2257s & Treating Content Like Inventory 28:01 – Mocking the ‘Where’s My Test Paper?’ Era 28:38 – From Failed Hollywood Dreams to Intentional Porn Careers 28:54 – Are Today’s Performers Smarter? Absolutely. 30:22 – Starting Today Is Overwhelming 30:26 – From Competing With Porn Stars to Competing With the World 31:16 – Producing vs. Performing: Why Producing Wins 31:40 – Film School: Two Years Producing, One Year Directing 32:18 – Dominatrix Energy in Production 33:11 – ‘Crumble’ & Mainstream Awards vs. Porn Awards 33:59 – Shooting in the Light: From Hiding Sets to Closing Streets 35:16 – Artist or Businesswoman? 35:54 – Being Politically Active in a Punitive Industry 36:13 – You Can’t Please Everyone & Still Have Integrity 37:00 – Boundaries, Mental Health & Long‑Term Survival 38:02 – Standing Your Ground Under Pressure 39:33 – Only You Know What’s Right for You 39:37 – Studio System vs. Independent Millionaires 40:11 – Jewish & Italian Mafia Roots of Porn Money 41:07 – When Women Control the Money 41:52 – Matriarchy, Charity & Men Ruining the Planet 42:20 – Why the Sex Industry Should Be Female/Queer‑Led 42:37 – Porn’s MeToo: From Weinstein to Ron Jeremy 43:13 – If She Could Redesign Porn: Fix the Politics First 43:28 – Why She Loves the Trans Awards (T Awards) 44:23 – Awards, Validation & Mental Health 45:03 – Quick‑Fire Round Begins 50:41 – Episode Wrap & Patreon Teaser Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 52m 34s | ||||||
| 2/18/26 |  From Catholic Guilt to Pro Dom: Amalia Valentine Religion, BDSM History & Power Explained | EP 49: This week on Uncensored, Mx Tomie sits down with NYC-based pro dom Amalia Valentine for a wild, smart, and surprisingly funny deep dive into power, Catholic guilt, and kink lineage. From playground dominance and early internet taboos to formal mentorship and building an intentional BDSM practice, Amalia unpacks how religion, psychology, and archival care shape her work today. They talk dom ego (“domitis”), dungeon hygiene realities, censorship moral panics, and why repression never actually kills desire. The conversation also explores the feminist sex wars, kink history, and sex work decriminalization in NYC — plus why BDSM is basically “theater kid sex” at its best. Humor, power, politics, and absurdity collide in this one. For the full uncensored cut, head to Patreon. Chapters: 00:00 – 00:55 • Cold Open: Catholic Camp & Kink Vibes 00:55 – 01:31 • Intro: Who Is Amalia Valentine? 01:31 – 05:53 Origin Story: From Tomboy Terror to Pro Dom 05:53 – 10:00 Mentorship vs. Dungeon: How She Was Trained 10:00 – 13:39 Childhood Power Plays & Early Dominance 13:39 – 18:35 Growing Up Catholic: Guilt, Masochism & Kink 18:35 – 22:56 God Complex, Domitis & Staying Grounded 22:56 – 27:05 Hygiene, Dungeon Rugs & Behind-the-Scenes Labor 27:05 – 32:33 Early Internet Porn, Disgust/Desire & Taboo 32:33 – 41:39 Censorship, Kids, & Moral Panics 41:39 – 45:25 Archiving Kink: Feminist Sex Wars & Lineage 45:25 – 50:04 DecrimNY & Sex Work Decriminalization in NYC 50:04 – 53:10 Humor in BDSM: Theater Kid Sex & Play 53:10 – 55:44 Looney Tunes Kink: The Anal Birth Birthday Scene 55:44 – 57:37 Funniest Session Stories: Bananas, Fisting & Improv 57:37 – 01:00:03 Quickfire Round 01:00:03 – 01:01:27 What “Uncensored” Really Means + Patreon Pitch 01:01:27 – 01:01:45 Outro & Socials Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/amalia.valentine/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 1h 01m 50s | ||||||
| 2/9/26 |  Building a Venture-Backed Brand While Being Openly Kinky Online | Kim of the Internet | EP 48: In this episode of Uncensored, Mx Tomie sits down with Kim of the Internet—who exited Omsom for reportedly millions, a Forbes 30 Under 30 honoree, Adweek Young Influential, and one of the internet’s sharpest voices on kink, power, and visibility. Kim opens up about her unconventional upbringing, building a venture-backed CPG brand while coming into kink as a Mommy Dom, and navigating visibility, stigma, and success as a public founder. She reflects on exiting Omsom, solo travel, and why she became an online BDSM educator to counter widespread misinformation. The conversation dives into dominance, emotional labor, boundaries, attachment styles, entitlement, and how BDSM becomes a framework for communication, leadership, and self-knowledge—far beyond the bedroom. 👉 Watch the full uncensored version on Patreon. Follow Our Guest: IG - https://www.instagram.com/kimoftheinternet/?hl=en Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 42m 30s | ||||||
| 2/4/26 |  Louisa Ferre on Opera, Corporate Life & Becoming a Professional Dom: Power, Desire & 2 Days in Dubai | EP 47: In this episode of Uncensored, we interview Louisa Ferre, a professional dominatrix based in San Francisco and Los Angeles, to talk about BDSM, femdom, dominant girlfriend experience, and the real business of professional domination. Louisa shares how her background in classical music and corporate work informs her sessions, her experience with dungeon mentorships, and how she navigated the transition into online sex work during the pandemic. We discuss common myths about dominance, red flags in dom mentorship programs, emotional labor in BDSM, and how power dynamics extend beyond the dungeon into travel, lifestyle, and long-term dynamics. Chapters: 00:00 – 00:01:00 Setting the Scene 00:01:01 – 00:02:05 Welcome & Guest Introduction 00:02:05 – 00:03:12 Multiple Lives, One Throughline 00:03:12 – 00:05:08 Origin Story: From Music & Corporate to OnlyFans 00:05:08 – 00:06:00 Moving to the Bay & Dungeon Mentorship 00:06:01 – 00:08:28 Tumblr Era: BL, Femdom & “Love of the Game” 00:08:29 – 00:10:24 Early Kink Influences & Queer Theater Community 00:10:25 – 00:12:01 Classical Training: Discipline, Breath & Timing | 41m 10s | ||||||
| 1/27/26 |  The Truth About Working in Dungeon Houses | Follow Our Guest: X- https://x.com/ElenaDeLuca?lang=en Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 56m 09s | ||||||
| 1/20/26 |  Unmarried, Successful, and Happy — Cindy Gallup on Life Without Marriage | Uncensored Episode... Follow Mx Tomie For More Here - IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomie TikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensored FB - @uncensoredpodcast YouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie | 1h 00m 22s | ||||||
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| 1/12/26 |  A Dominatrix Breaks Down Power, Consent, and Censorship | Danielle Blunt | EP 44: In this candid, no-holds-barred conversation, Mx Tomie sits down with Danielle Blunt—a dominatrix, researcher, and organizer working at the intersection of sexuality, technology, censorship, and power. Danielle is the co-founder of Hacking//Hustling and a leading voice on how digital platforms, financial systems, and so-called “safety” policies disproportionately harm sex workers and marginalized communities. Together, they explore how domination isn’t just about pleasure, but about risk, ethics, and what happens at the edge of consent—both in intimate dynamics and in our relationship to technology and capitalism. From Danielle’s early training in old-guard BDSM spaces to the real consequences of platform censorship and financial discrimination, this conversation connects the dungeon to the digital world in ways you probably haven’t considered. If you’ve ever wondered who decides what’s “acceptable,” who gets punished for desire, and why intimacy always involves risk—this episode is for you. Chapters 0:00 — 1:05 Danielle Blunt Introduction 1:00 — 2:02 Mx Tomie Formally Introduces Danielle Blunt 2:15 – 3:25 Danielle is Anti‑Pleasure, Pro‑Torture? 3:25 – 5:30 Origin Story: Sex, Taboo & Power 5:30 – 8:26 The Old Guard BDSM Chateau 8:26 – 12:28 Lifestyle Domination, Manipulation & Negotiation 12:28 – 18:20 Edge Play: A Deep‑Dive Story 18:20 – 22:31 Repair Work, Consent & The Unknown 22:31 – 26:05 Long‑Term Subs, DS Dynamics & Training 26:00 – 30:13 Femdom GFE, Sex & The “Untouchable Dom” Myth 30:13 – 32:34 Censorship, “Safety” Rhetoric & Who’s Protected 32:34 – 35:55 Financial Discrimination & Banking Deplatforming 35:55 – 37:43 Digital Security & Threat Modeling 37:43 – 40:30 Censorship, Codes & Fetish Evolution 40:30 – 42:55 Content Creation Fatigue & Forced Innovation 42:55 – 44:10 Quick‑Fire Segment (Presented by IWantClips) 44:10 – 45:05 Outro & Closing Follow Our Guest: IG - https://www.instagram.com/missblunt.nyc/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 45m 09s | ||||||
| 1/8/26 |  The Real Reason We Struggle to Talk About S3x | Dr Tara | EP 43: Mx Tomie sits down with award-winning sexologist and TV sex expert Dr. Tara to explore how pleasure, kink, and communication intersect with power, shame, and liberation. They unpack why conversations about sex—and money—are often the hardest in long-term relationships, how shame is used as a tool of control (especially against women and marginalized communities), and how reclaiming pleasure can radically shift how we show up in our lives. From morning “pleasure routines” that replace coffee, to kink-aware ways of talking about desire with a vanilla partner, to the deeper psychology behind BDSM and humiliation, this episode weaves together practical tools, personal stories, and unapologetically real talk. Dr. Tara also shares insights from her domme training with a professional dominatrix, her perspective on television as a form of sex education, and what happens when high-powered people finally have permission to let go—and be held. Chapters 0:00 — 1:00 Dr. Tara Introduction 1:00 — 2:00 Mx Tomie Introduces Dr. Tara 2:00 — 04:50 Sexual Wellness as “Morning Coffee” and Pleasure Routine 04:50 – 7:36 Sex Toys, Pleasure Pathways & “Desensitization” Myths 07:36 – 10:01 Growing Up Repressed in Bangkok & Finding Sexology 10:01 – 12:44 Sex, Money, Power & Walking on Eggshells 12:44 – 16:38 Kinks, Shame & What Clients Confess 16:38 – 21:21 Three Practical Tips for Sharing Kinks with a Partner 21:21 – 26:50 Coaching Couples, Normalizing Kink & Finding the Right Therapist 26:50 – 28:50 Dom Training: From Theory to Practice 28:50 – 30:33 | Favorite Dom Activities & Dominant Archetypes 28:58 – 30:38 TV, Sex Ed & Where the Biggest Gaps Are 30:38 – 34:04 Shame as Social Control & Performing Sex 34:04 – 35:09 Cultural Shame Around Divorce & Staying “For the Kids” Follow Our Guest: IG - https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 58m 27s | ||||||
| 1/2/26 |  If I Didn’t Make It on the Meter, I Made It in the Backseat of the Taxi | EP 42: A Vietnam War veteran turned anti-war activist. The Queen of Hell’s Kitchen. A trans activist and longtime sex worker who survived eras most people only read about. In this unforgettable episode, Renee Imperato sits down with Mx Tomie to share New York stories you won’t find in history books—from growing up in 1940s Hell’s Kitchen against the backdrop of the theater district, to Vietnam’s war zones and Agent Orange, from Mafia-run queer clubs to a 30-year career driving NYC taxis, where backseats became mobile dungeons. Renee reflects on being raised by drag queens, carrying an axe for protection, surviving loss and violence, and how war radicalized her into a lifelong anti-imperialist. What emerges is not just a conversation, but a living archive of queer, trans, sex worker, and anti-war history—told with tenderness, sharp humor, and an absolute refusal to apologize. Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/reneimperato/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 1h 21m 56s | ||||||
| 12/23/25 |  Why Doms Need Safewords Too: Parker Penn on Risk, Consent, and Power Exchange | EP 41: Mx Tomie sits down with NYC-based domme, escort, and creative Parker Penn to explore where art, sex, power, risk, and healing intersect. They discuss professional dominance, kink as somatic mindfulness, consent beyond clichés, and the vulnerability and ethics of domming—venturing into edgy terrain along the way. Parker also shares how motorcycles, art, and erotic practice all strip identity down to pure sensation and meaning-making. | 1h 01m 01s | ||||||
| 12/19/25 | From Extreme Sadism to Hard Limits: Yin Q on Edge Play, Trauma, and Knowing When to Stop | EP 40: Mx Tomie sits down with legendary dominatrix, writer, filmmaker, and sex worker organizer *Yin Q* for a raw conversation about pain, power, kink, trauma, and politics. Drawing on over three decades in BDSM, Yin reflects on their evolution from hard sadism and edge play into disability-informed kink, art-making, and community organizing—speaking candidly about burnout, the emotional toll of professional domination, and the sessions that pushed them past their limits. Together, they unpack the difference between negotiated violence and abuse, why boredom and dissociation are important data, and how kink can function as art and ritual without being sold as a cure. They also explore dom aftercare, the myth of the flawless 24/7 dom, class divides in sex work, and the responsibility that comes with being visible. The episode closes with reflections on activism and Yin’s forthcoming documentary, *The Whores’ Feast.* Chapters 0:00 — 1:06 Yin Q Introduction 1:06 — 1:54 Mx Tomie Introduces Yin Q 1:54 — 6:46 Origins of Kink, Violence & Childhood Wounds 6:46 — 10:57 Using pro work to explore different scenes and discover personal tastes 10:57 — 14:07 Boredom, Burnout & Rotating Clients 14:07 — 16:41 From “Hard Sadist” to Pain With Limits & Disability 16:41 – 20:03 Kink as Art, Therapy & Imperfect Healing 20:03 — 21:23 Why Keep Doing the Work? Kinkout & Community 21:23 – 22:20 Art, Academia & Lived Experience 22:20 – 23:17 How the Literature Has Changed: Healing & Exigent Sadism 23:17 – 25:53 Edges, Cruelty & Emotional Toll in Consensual Non-Consent 25:53 – 31:14 Two Sessions That Caused Rupture (Content Warning: Blood & Emotional Abuse Roleplay) 31:14 – 33:30 Safety, Aftercare & Tracking Shifting Boundaries 33:30 – 36:22 Bringing Kink & Sex Work Voices Into Museums 36:22 – 37:38 Glamour vs Reality of Activism, Being recognized by Spike Lee 37:38 – 40:01 — Mercy Mistress, Margaret Cho & Asian American Representation 40:01 – 42:07 The Unfinished Storyline: Stalking, Power Flips & State Violence 42:07 – 43:35 Class Divides in Sex Work & Ethical Use of Privilege 43:35 – 45:19 Rapid Fire: Music, Pre‑Session Rituals & Atmosphere 45:19 – 47:20 Favorite Gear & Dominatrix Misconceptions 47:20 – 50:14 Dungeon Memories & Old-School Training 50:17 – 51:40 What’s Next: The Whores’ Feast Documentary 51:40 – 0:52:01 — Closing, Plugs & Farewell *Follow Our Guest* IG - https://www.instagram.com/yinq13ritual/?hl=en *Support the Show* 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie *Follow Mx Tomie *🖤 *IG* — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital *TikTok* — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie *Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie* *IG* — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ *TikTok* — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie *FB* — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie *YouTube* — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 53m 26s | ||||||
| 12/9/25 |  From Fetish To Fine Dining: Lucy Sweetkill's Journey as a NYC Dominatrix | In this episode of Uncensored, Mx Tomie sits down with legendary New York dominatrix, educator, and dungeon owner Lucy Sweetkill for a raw conversation about kink, identity, business, and—yes—food. Lucy shares her path from the fashion world to moonlighting in an all-Asian dungeon she found on Backpage, eventually becoming a full-time pro dom and co-founder of La Maison de Rouge. She opens up about the emotional and spiritual labor of domination, navigating Asian fetishization, Buddhist approaches to pain, and the realities of running a kink space in NYC. They also dive into Lucy’s obsession with food culture—chef subs, sploshing, human trash bags, frozen Peeps as insertables, and humiliation scenes followed by Eleven Madison Park dinners. Smart, gritty, funny, and philosophical, this episode moves from cake-sitting chaos to gender journeys and building a sustainable, values-driven life as a creative and sex worker. Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/lucy.sweetkill/?hl=en Support the Show 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie | 1h 06m 24s | ||||||
| 12/4/25 |  Inside NYC’s Secret Dungeons: Mistress Shayla Unleashed | Join Mx Tomie and the illustrious Mistress Shayla as they delve into the intricacies of New York's kink scene. This episode explores the personal journeys, unique stories, and creative practices of professional dominatrices. Mistress Shayla shares her evolution from conservative upbringings to a celebrated dominatrix, revealing the humor and humanity that lies within the leather-clad boundaries. From mentoring burgeoning doms to orchestrating outrageous roleplays, Mistress Shayla leaves nothing unsaid. Follow Mx Tomie For More Here 🖤🌶️ IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomie TikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensored FB - @uncensoredpodcast YouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie | 55m 30s | ||||||
| 11/18/25 | From Farmer to Ballerina to 🌶️ Worker…And She was a Tumblr Girlie | Uncensored Episode... Follow Mx Tomie For More Here - IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomie TikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensored FB - @uncensoredpodcast YouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie | 0m 52s | ||||||
| 11/2/25 | Redditor finds out her dad was throwing WILD parties at his house... 👀 #redditstories #AITA #reddit | Uncensored Episode... Follow Mx Tomie For More Here - IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomie TikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensored FB - @uncensoredpodcast YouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie | 0m 57s | ||||||
| 10/29/25 | He Divorced His Wife Over THIS... 👀 Dominatrix Reacts to MORE Reddit AITA Stories | Dive into the wild world of kink, boundaries, and family drama in this episode of Uncensored with MX Tomie! We're reading and reacting to "Am I the A**hole?" threads on Reddit involving BDSM parties, CNC roleplay trauma, and body count revelations in marriage. MX Tomie shares honest insights from her experience in the BDSM community, emphasizing consent, safe spaces, and why some situations cross the line. Whether you're into femdom, exploring kinks, or just love juicy relationship stories, this episode covers it all with no holds barred. Follow Mx Tomie For More Here - IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomie TikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensored FB - @uncensoredpodcast YouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie Chapters 00:15 - AITA for Refusing Dad's House After Discovering BDSM Parties? 01:52 - Reacting to the BDSM Party Discovery and Family Boundaries 03:30 - Advice on Separating Kink from Family Life 06:29 - Verdict on the First Story and BDSM Community Tips 07:23 - AITA for Feeling Traumatized by CNC Roleplay? 09:22 - Reacting to CNC Intensity and Safe Words for Tops 10:32 - Girlfriend's Frustration and Relationship Fallout 11:43 - Verdict: Consent in Trauma Play and Hiring Professionals 14:00 - Reading Comments on the CNC Story 15:30 - More Insights on Manipulation and Healing 16:40 - AITA for Divorcing My Wife Over Her Body Count? 18:10 - Reacting to Virginity Lies and Religious Boundaries 19:20 - Verdict: Judgment, Trust Violations, and Outdated Concepts | 21m 21s | ||||||
| 10/29/25 | We’re back with more of Reddit’s spiciest AITA stories🌶️ Dropping today at 4 PM PST!🔥 #redditstories | Uncensored Episode... Follow Mx Tomie For More Here - IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomie TikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensored FB - @uncensoredpodcast YouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie | 0m 46s | ||||||
| 10/29/25 | How Doms Keep Subs Safe While Exploring Desires 🖤⛓️ | Uncensored Episode 45! Follow Mx Tomie For More Here - IG - @mx.tomie.digital & @uncensoredwithmxtomie TikTok - @mx.tomie & @uncensored FB - @uncensoredpodcast YouTube - @UncensoredWithMxTomie | 0m 27s | ||||||
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