United Bi Swinging: Bisexual Men in the Swinging Lifestyle

For over two decades, Bi Fuck Fest has existed in bi male spaces as something almost mythical.Some people don’t believe it’s real.Others believe it’s real but have no idea how to find it.In this episode, we sit down with the third owner and current organizer of Bi Fuck Fest to talk about its 21-year history, how it began, what a multi-day BFF experience looks like, and how the vetting process works.We cover:• The origin story of BFF• What first-timers can expect• The culture and structure of the event• How discretion and safety are handled• How someone can request access and be consideredLinks to the official group pages and application paths are included in the show notes below.This conversation isn’t about hype. It’s about transparency, legacy, and why dedicated spaces for bi men still matter.To contact the organizer for consideration to join BFF simply join and log into any one of the swing lifestyle sites below and contact them under username CUTEONES. Kasidie****For the first month of free full access to Kasidie.com use the code CUTEONESThe Lifestyle Lounge MembershipsSignup Page - SDC.comTo contact the organizer to join BFF on the following platforms, use the username CUTEONES1Swingers Lifestyle Community | Adult Personals | Clubs & EventsFetLife: World's Largest BDSM, Kink, and Fetish Community | FetLifeConnect with us!! We want to hear from you! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnXInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qrJoin Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!!https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMupLooking for more information on mixed-orientation relationships? You can explore helpful resources at MORandMore.org👉 https://MORandMore.orgHave a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!!***Everyone will remain anonymous***Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.comPlease leave us a rating and review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :) **What We Talk About on this Podcast**- Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle- How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding- Building a stronger, more open community togetherPlease Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts.Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self — in and out of the bedroom.

In this episode, we share our first swing experience with a fully bisexual couple. We talk about what went right, what went wrong, and what we learned navigating a scenario where the men were also having sex. It was Rob’s first time being with a man in front of me, and we break down the emotions, communication, and takeaways. We also announce our new affiliation with Future Method and tease next week’s deep dive into anal play, pegging, safety, and preparation.**** We’re excited to share that we’re now affiliated with Future Method, a brand focused on safe, intentional anal play and preparation. If you’re curious about learning your body, training safely, or exploring pegging or MM play, check them out. ****Use our link or code below to save 15%: 👉 Link: https://future-method.myshopify.com/?rfsn=8946342.d04b83&utm_source=refersion&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=8946342.d04b83 👉 Code: UBISConnect with us!! We want to hear from you! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnXInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qrJoin Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!!https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMupLooking for more information on mixed-orientation relationships? You can explore helpful resources at MORandMore.org👉 https://MORandMore.orgHave a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!!***Everyone will remain anonymous***Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.comPlease leave us a rating and review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :) **What We Talk About on this Podcast**- Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle- How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding- Building a stronger, more open community togetherPlease Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts.Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self — in and out of the bedroom.

This episode continues Rob’s story as a bi man.In part two, the conversation covers his marriage and the process of navigating same sex attraction while trying to make sense of who he was internally. Rob shares his first coming out experience, the fear that came with it, and what it felt like to begin accepting himself.The episode then moves into meeting his current partner and what it was like to be in a relationship built on acceptance, honesty, and trust. Together, they talk about building their bond, creating a strong foundation, growing their family, and eventually choosing to enter the swinging lifestyle together as a fully bi couple.This episode is not about labels or advice. It is about growth, communication, and choosing honesty even when it feels uncomfortable.We also share that we were guests on Beyond Monogamy with Adam and Pris. Our episode aired on December 28. Please see the link below to check out their amazing podcast!!Beyond Monogamy | Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy & SwingingConnect with us!! We want to hear from you! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnXInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qrJoin Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!!https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMupLooking for more information on mixed-orientation relationships? You can explore helpful resources at MORandMore.org👉 https://MORandMore.orgHave a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!!***Everyone will remain anonymous***Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.comPlease leave us a rating and review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :) **What We Talk About on this Podcast**- Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle- How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding- Building a stronger, more open community togetherPlease Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts.Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self in and out of the bedroom.

In this episode, Rob begins sharing his story. (PART 1)From early same-sex attraction and internal conflict to the emotional toll of hiding parts of himself, this conversation focuses less on labels and more on the cost of silence.This is not an episode about graphic experiences. It’s about fear, shame, love, and the long road toward honesty, both with yourself and with the person you’re committed to.We know this topic can bring up a lot for people. Listener discretion is advised.If you’re a partner, a spouse, or someone quietly carrying a similar story, you are not alone.This is Part 1 of Rob’s journey.We also chose to set aside some private, deeper conversations that didn’t fit the flow of this episode. What you’ll hear is the core of Rob’s journey and the moments that shaped it most. Some of that material may be shared at a later time.📞 Support & Crisis ResourcesIf you or someone you love is struggling or in crisis, you are not alone. Support is available 24/7.🏳️‍🌈 The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ Youth & Young Adults)Phone: 1-866-488-7386Text: “START” to 678-678Chat: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/🧡 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (All Ages)Call: 988Text: 988Chat: https://988lifeline.org/Note: You can request to speak with an LGBTQ+-affirming counselor. When available, 988 will route you to a counselor trained in supporting LGBTQ+ individuals.These services are free, confidential, and available any time, day or night.________________________________________________🌈 MOR & More (Mixed-Orientation Relationships and More)Website: https://www.morandmore.orgMOR & more was created from a desire to bring light, hope, and connection to mixed-orientation relationships. Born from the founder's own search for understanding and kindness, it is a space that exists to share real stories, foster empathy, and remind others that they are not alone. Connect with us!! We want to hear from you! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnXInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qrJoin Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!!https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMupHave a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!!***Everyone will remain anonymous***Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.comPlease leave us a review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :)  **What We Talk About**- Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle  - How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding  - Building a stronger, more open community together   Please Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts.  Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self — in and out of the bedroom.  

Join us as Rob and Ashley take to the ring to go toe-to-toe on bi chatting vs straight chatting. We had very differing opinions on which is more important to have all members of both couples present. We hope you enjoy the playful banter from your ring side seats!Connect with us!! We want to hear from you! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnXInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qrJoin Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!!https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMupHave a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!!***Everyone will remain anonymous***Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.comPlease leave us a review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :)  **What We Talk About on This Podcast**- Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle  - How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding  - Building a stronger, more open community together   Please Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts.  Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self in and out of the bedroom.  Recommended Websites:Mixed Orientation Relationships | MOR & more

In our very first episode of United Bi Swinging, we're introducing ourselves - Rob and Ashley - a married, fully bisexual in the swinging community. We share who we are, why we started this podcast, and what we hope to create: a supportive, open space for bisexual men and their partners in the lifestyle. This episode sets the stage for everything to come - real conversations, shared experiences, and growing community that celebrates being United Bi Swinging._____This podcast explores real stories, honest conversations, and shared experiences from couples and single men navigating bisexuality within the swinging lifestyle.  Our goal is to normalize male bisexuality, create community, and spark open, judgment-free discussions about love, attraction, and authentic connection.  Connect with us!! We want to hear from you! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnXInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qrJoin Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!!https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMupHave a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!!***Everyone will remain anonymous***Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.comPlease leave us a review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :)  **What We Talk About**- Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle  - How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding  - Building a stronger, more open community together   Please Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts.  Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self — in and out of the bedroom.