The Big 5 Mankillers (Part 4) Lust

The Big 5 Mankillers (Part 4) Lust

From Unleashed by Brent Henderson

May 4, 2026 · 20 min · Season 1 · Episode 147

About this episode

Brent Henderson explores the deeper issues behind lust, addressing identity and the lies that lead to destructive behaviors in relationships and purpose.

Lust isn’t the problem—it’s the symptom. In Part 4 of The Big 5 Mankillers series, Brent Henderson takes an honest and powerful look at one of the most common struggles men face: lust. But instead of just addressing behavior, this episode uncovers the deeper issue—identity, misplaced desire, and the lies we believe about what will truly satisfy us. Through real-life stories, including a personal childhood experience and a powerful illustration called “God’s Invisible Dog Fence,” Brent shows how lust is often a warning sign that something deeper is off—and how ignoring that warning can lead to destruction in areas like marriage, relationships, and purpose. You’ll also hear: Why lust is more than just a sexual issue How men and women both experience lust in different ways What the Bible says about lust (Matthew 5:28, 1 John 2:16) The “rhino rolling” story and why untrained strength leads to destruction How to recognize emotional warning signs before crossing the line The difference between guilt and shame—and why it matters How to begin renewing your mind and walking in freedom If you’ve ever struggled with pornography, comparison, temptation, or feeling like your thoughts…

People in this episode

Host: Brent Henderson

Topics covered

  • lust
  • identity
  • misplaced desire
  • emotional warning signs
  • freedom from temptation
  • Christian perspective on lust

Keywords

  • lust
  • identity
  • temptation
  • pornography
  • emotional warning signs
  • guilt
  • shame
  • Christianity

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: The Big 5 Mankillers

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