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Dr. Kerry Kerr McAvoy is a retired psychologist and renowned expert on narcissistic abuse. In this intensely candid conversation, Kerry shares not only her professional expertise but also her hard-earned personal experiences on breaking free from the grip of a toxic, narcissistic relationship.How is it that intelligent, self-aware women end up partnered with deceitful, sometimes dangerous, narcissistic men? And why does it often take so much time and emotional energy to break these bonds, even after the truth about these men is revealed? Well, it’s complicated.Kerry explains the psychology and subtle social pressures that leave even the strongest, self-aware women vulnerable to the dynamics of betrayal, manipulation, and gaslighting. She unpacks the evolutionary and cultural roots of our need for connection and for being "chosen," which challenge women to reckon with self-betrayal as the deepest cut of all. This episode confronts the real-life erosion of self and the powerful journey to reclaim identity, agency, and healing. It will engage, challenge, inform, and empower.

Janice Selbie is a master practitioner of clinical counselling, a bestselling author, a host of the Divorcing Religion and Sex and Power podcasts, and a religious trauma recovery coach. In this soul-stirring conversation, Janice courageously shares how she was once a devout cult participant and her journey through the complex intersections of sex and religion to personal liberation. From surviving religious indoctrination to reclaiming her voice and self-agency, Janice’s story speaks to anyone yearning for authenticity. Join us as we unravel the layers of Betrayal, Identity, Trust, Change, and Healing: the 5 principles at the core of the VBB’s "Year of the B.I.T.C.H." If you're ready for honest, stereotype-shattering conversations, you're in the right place!

We dive into an inspiring and thoughtful conversation with Reverend Dr. Xenia Barnes, a social behavioural scientist and organizational healing expert. We get right into our acronym, B.I.T.C.H., which stands for Betrayal, Identity, Trust, Change, and Healing. This episode explores how women have been challenged by stereotypes, societal expectations, and the burdens of roles imposed by others. Dr. Xenia Barnes brings a deep, global perspective to these themes, discussing the layers of betrayal women face and the importance of redefining identity beyond relational or professional titles. The episode highlights the transformative journey of self-trust, the necessity of embracing change, and the healing that comes from reclaiming your life and purpose, even in the face of serious personal adversity. In this exchange, you will hear actionable advice about self-inventory, breaking free from people-pleasing habits, finding strength in solitude, and the importance of daily growth. At its core, the discussion reclaims and redefines the word “Bitch,” supporting women to embrace it as a badge of confidence, boundaries, and personal empowerment. This episode is truly about challenging the status quo, encouraging women’s self-discovery, and building resilience.

We (Christopher & Heather) have declared 2026 The Year Of The B.I.T.C.H., the evolution of a word that girls instinctively learn to avoid, and in fear of it, women inadvertently sacrifice their freedoms. Following eight years of talking with women who’ve shared their lived experiences with the word Bitch, we acknowledge the history of destruction it has brought to women's lives, but we have also discovered the strength some women take from the archetype. In 2026, VBB will dismantle the world, letter by letter, and what it has meant for women, and rebuild it into a woman’s source of wisdom and strength. We welcome you to The Year Of The B.I.T.C.H.

This week, we overlook our pre-holiday wish list to focus on real-life issues shaping women's lives around the globe in 2025. It's a conversation that unpacks ongoing concerns, including political representation, bodily autonomy, and workplace equity, as well as technology, culture, and the growing influence of women in sports.This episode explores the push and pull between power, resistance, and hope, how each shapes the reality of women around the world, and why the fight for true equality and equity is elusive yet invariably critical.Whether you're passionate about social justice, invested in women's rights, or unsure how these issues impact your life and why these are turbulent times, you'll find valuable perspectives and empowering energy in this conversation. So join us on this journey as we explore the real-life concerns, victories, and hard-fought battles of women in 2025.