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Episode 18: Still Waiting - A Check-In
May 17, 2026
26m 22s
Episode 17: Why Travel Planning is so Hard While Waiti
May 10, 2026
29m 21s
Episode 16: Does Waiting Ever "Settle?"
May 3, 2026
30m 24s
Episode 15: Infertility - Why Not Us?
Apr 26, 2026
30m 17s
Episode 14: The Logistics of International Surrogacy
Apr 19, 2026
30m 44s
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 5/17/26 | ![]() Episode 18: Still Waiting - A Check-In✨ | surrogacy journeywaiting for updates+4 | — | — | — | surrogacywaiting+5 | — | 26m 22s | |
| 5/10/26 | ![]() Episode 17: Why Travel Planning is so Hard While Waiti✨ | travel planningfertility treatments+5 | — | — | — | fertilitytravel+8 | — | 29m 21s | |
| 5/3/26 | ![]() Episode 16: Does Waiting Ever "Settle?"✨ | long-term waitingfertility journeys+4 | — | Waiting With Love | — | waitingfertility+5 | — | 30m 24s | |
| 4/26/26 | ![]() Episode 15: Infertility - Why Not Us?✨ | infertilityLGBTQ+ family building+5 | — | CosmopolitanNew York | — | infertilitygay men+8 | — | 30m 17s | |
| 4/19/26 | ![]() Episode 14: The Logistics of International Surrogacy✨ | international surrogacylogistics+4 | — | Waiting with Love | — | surrogacyinternational+6 | — | 30m 44s | |
| 4/12/26 | ![]() Episode 13: Waiting in the "What if it Works?" Headspace✨ | hopefear+5 | — | — | — | waitinghope+8 | — | 29m 11s | |
| 4/5/26 | ![]() Episode 12: Who Isn't Here?✨ | LGBTQ+ family buildingsurrogacy+5 | — | Waiting with LoveLGBTQ+ | — | LGBTQ+family building+6 | — | 29m 04s | |
| 3/29/26 | ![]() Episode 11: Finding Joy in the Waiting Room✨ | joywaiting+4 | — | — | Italy | waiting roomjoy+6 | — | 28m 55s | |
| 3/22/26 | ![]() Episode 10: When Good News Doesn't Feel "Good"✨ | adoptionsurrogacy+5 | — | — | — | good newsadoption+6 | — | 28m 35s | |
| 3/15/26 | ![]() Episode 9: Questions we Love to Hate (Part 2)✨ | infertilitysurrogacy+4 | — | — | — | parenthoodinsensitive questions+3 | — | 26m 43s | |
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| 3/8/26 | ![]() Episode 8: Reflecting on Life at 40 | Embracing Parenthood and Hope at 40: A Conversation on Waiting, Growth, and New BeginningsIn this heartfelt episode, Matt and Andrew reflect on navigating the journey to parenthood later in life, turning 40, and finding hope and strength in the process of waiting. They share personal insights, challenges, and the many benefits of becoming parents at this stage, offering encouragement to others walking a similar path.Key Topics:The emotional and practical realities of waiting to become parents over 40How life experiences and maturity shape parenting readinessThe impact of career stability and financial planning on delaying parenthoodThe significance of living in the moment versus future expectationsHow aging influences perspectives on longevity, energy, and relationshipsThe benefits of patience, resilience, and emotional depth gained through life's trialsCelebrating the unpredictability of life and embracing changeFamous examples of having children after 40 to inspire hopeTimestamps:00:00 - Welcome and introduction to the episode's theme of waiting and hope02:10 - Reflections on life milestones and expectations at age 4003:26 - Comparing visions of life 20 and 10 years ago04:16 - Challenges and surprises in the parenthood journey05:54 - Career trajectories and their influence on family planning07:11 - Perspectives on mortality and aging in midlife08:36 - Fears around energy and longevity for new parents09:54 - The emotional and financial advantages of waiting11:33 - Personal growth, patience, and resilience through challenges13:21 - Building a stable future for children and the role of finances15:17 - The value of living in the present and appreciating current moments16:36 - How age influences energy levels and opportunities for play18:10 - The importance of community, safety, and environment for raising kids19:08 - How late parenthood can be advantageous financially and professionally21:01 - Celebrating mutual career stability and readiness22:49 - Insights on why the timing now feels right for parenthood23:35 - Advice to younger selves: focusing on authentic happiness over impressing others24:24 - The qualities that age and experience contribute to parenting25:39 - Personal growth from fostering patience and genuine connections26:34 - The profound impact of being present for children and family27:47 - Recognizing that imperfection is part of the journey and embracing it29:04 - Spotlight on celebrities who became parents after 4029:21 - Wishing Matt a happy birthday and closing encouragementResources & Links:Waiting With Love WebsiteConnect with Matt & Andrew:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeRemember, the journey to parenthood is unique for everyone. Embrace the timing that feels right for you, and find hope in each step forward. | — | ||||||
| 3/1/26 | ![]() Episode 7: Questions we Love to Hate (Part 1) | Navigating Inconsiderate Questions During Fertility and Adoption JourneysIn this episode, Matt and Andrew shed light on the common questions friends and family ask that can unintentionally hurt those going through infertility, surrogacy or adoption. They offer practical, compassionate alternatives to foster understanding and support.Key TopicsThe impact of questions like "Any updates?" and why they can feel invasiveHow presuming progress or timing can add emotional strainThe importance of silence and space vs. rigorous questioningWhy questions about "how long" or "why so long" may reflect lack of understandingShifting from questions to supportive statements and affirmationsPractical ways to show up compassionately without pressureThe significance of understanding legal, medical, and emotional complexities behind fertility processesHow to foster genuine connection through empathetic communicationTimestamps00:00 - Introduction: The importance of thoughtful questions during waiting periods00:45 - Why "Any updates?" can feel dismissive or invasive02:15 - Presumptive questions and their emotional toll03:45 - Alternatives to invasive questions: how to show support05:30 - The role of silence and space in conversations about infertility07:45 - Why "why is it taking so long?" misses the complexity09:50 - Questions about agency quality and perceived incompetency11:30 - Managing questions about how many tries or when to stop13:10 - The importance of understanding legal and medical processes behind surrogacy and adoption15:00 - Reframing questions into supportive statements16:20 - Recognizing the emotional fragility behind these inquiries17:45 - How to genuinely support someone without adding pressure19:50 - Summary: The power of statements over questions21:00 - Final thoughts: Offer presence, space, and empathy instead of problem-solving27:20 - Closing remarks: The value of warmth and understanding in supporting loved onesResources & LinksWaiting With Love CommunityUnderstanding Surrogacy Law (example link for context)Emotional Support & Fertility ResourcesConnect with Matt & Andrew:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeRemember, the most meaningful support comes from offering understanding, space, and compassion. Instead of questions, consider statements that validate feelings and show genuine care. | — | ||||||
| 2/22/26 | ![]() Episode 6: Why Traditional Advice Falls Flat | In this episode of "Waiting with Love," Matt and Andrew explore the emotional landscape of long-term infertility and the importance of community, fellowship, and shared experience. They discuss the limitations of conventional advice and highlight the power of compassion, laughter, and authentic connection in navigating challenging journeys.KEY TOPICSThe impact of unsolicited and superficial advice during infertility strugglesThe importance of fellowship and shared experiences in emotional resilienceThe role of laughter, validation, and non-judgmental supportNavigating logistical stresses and emotional rollercoasters in international surrogacyHow honest conversations and connection reduce feelings of isolationThe significance of accepting what cannot be changed and focusing on what canThe benefits of meditation, spiritual moments, and grounding practicesEncouragement to prioritize genuine support over well-meaning but unhelpful questionsTIMESTAMPS00:00 - Welcome and overview of navigating waiting with hope and community01:09 - Differentiating advice from genuine fellowship and understanding02:09 - Why traditional advice often falls flat in difficult journeys03:23 - The frustration of unanswered questions about fertility setbacks04:18 - Parallels between building a house and the fertility process05:41 - The comfort found in fellowship with others who understand07:19 - The power of shared stories and normalization in community08:40 - How connection reduces feelings of loneliness, even with children09:46 - The importance of validation and feeling witnessed11:07 - The role of laughter and humor during setbacks12:24 - Shared experiences in addiction, recovery, and infertility13:41 - The complexity and divine work behind surrogacy and biological processes15:22 - The unpredictability and logistical stresses of international surrogacy16:32 - Moving beyond stress through community and mutual understanding18:28 - Recognizing that no levers remain to accelerate the journey19:13 - The serenity prayer and acceptance of what can’t be changed20:39 - The value of grounding practices like meditation and spiritual moments22:40 - The importance of living in the present and allowing support to scratch the itch23:33 - Practical grounding tips: meditation and self-care strategies24:18 - Final thoughts: You are not alone—reach out, connect, and keep waiting with loveRESOURCES & LINKSWaiting with Love - WebsiteMeditation apps and guided meditations on YouTubeConnect with Matt & Andrew:Email us: hope@waitingwithlove.comInstagramFacebookTikTokYouTube | — | ||||||
| 2/15/26 | ![]() Episode 5: Life Continues | Navigating Life While Waiting: Embracing Feelings and Continuing ForwardIn this heartfelt episode, Matt and Andrew explore how life's inevitable hardships—like loss and illness—intersect with ongoing journeys of hope, such as fertility or family building. They emphasize the importance of allowing oneself to feel, process, and live fully even amidst pain, ultimately advocating for a balanced approach to grief and responsibilities.In this episode:How life continues despite significant challenges like death and illnessThe importance of processing emotions rather than suppressing themStrategies for staying present and living intentionally during tough timesThe difference between healthy distraction and unhealthy avoidanceLessons learned from past setbacks in fertility and family journeysThe role of focus, perspective, and community support during grievingHow to manage obsession over processes and embrace surprisesPractical advice for balancing grief with daily responsibilitiesTimestamps:00:00 - Introduction: Why it's important to navigate life amidst challenges01:10 - Continuing life after a family member's death and personal health issues01:54 - The balance between grieving and carrying on02:49 - Early in the journey: unhealthy coping mechanisms and lessons learned03:23 - The importance of feeling feelings and not compartmentalizing04:16 - Finding grounding through shared family time and positive distractions04:51 - Perspective shifts: recognizing life's surprises beyond fertility struggles05:18 - The value of life continuing to help process grief and maintain hope06:18 - Moving from obsession to healthy engagement with the process07:01 - The dangers of being obsessed with updates and control08:10 - Personal reactions to shocking news: fixer mentality vs. emotional processing08:57 - Practical steps taken during crises: cooking, logistics, and support11:27 - Different ways people process hardship: avoiding and breaking down12:48 - The importance of authentic living and allowing feelings to surface13:17 - Past setbacks, like issues with an exchange student, and living in the moment14:08 - Supporting others while managing your own grief15:15 - Pretending vs. genuine presence in difficult moments16:09 - The importance of resilience and muscle memory for future setbacks17:19 - Continuing to live through grief and supporting others18:30 - Finding healthy outlets and perspective shifts19:30 - The concept of life's terms and acceptance of setbacks20:37 - Reflection on the unpredictability of fertility journeys and timing21:13 - Embracing setbacks as part of growth and life’s journey22:28 - Balancing genuine emotions with daily responsibilities23:10 - Hope and grief can coexist; importance of processing emotionsResources & Links:Waiting With Love WebsiteAmazon - Emotional Resilience BooksConnect:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTube | — | ||||||
| 2/8/26 | ![]() Episode 4: When Hope turns to Cynicism and Grief | SummaryIn this conversation, Andrew and Matt reflect on their decade-long journey of trying to become parents through adoption and surrogacy. They discuss the emotional evolution from initial hope and excitement to a more guarded cynicism, and ultimately to a place of acceptance and finding joy in the present. They explore the coping mechanisms they've developed, the impact of setbacks, and the importance of living in the moment while waiting for their dreams to materialize.TakeawaysThe emotional journey of trying to have a child evolves over time. Initial excitement can turn into cynicism due to setbacks. Coping mechanisms can disguise themselves as excitement. A phone call from the agency is often bad news.Living in the moment is crucial while waiting for a child.Setbacks have become easier to handle over time. It's important to separate hope from guarantees. Personal growth occurs during the waiting period. Comparison to others can lead to resentment and cynicism.Finding joy in the present can help alleviate anxiety about the future.Sound bites"Do we want a baby? Yes.""What gives you hope today?""We are where we are."Chapters00:00 The Journey Begins: From Hope to Cynicism05:45 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Adoption10:00 Coping Mechanisms: Cynicism and Realism17:04 Finding Hope Amidst Uncertainty22:05 Living in the Moment: Building a Life While WaitingKeywordsadoption, surrogacy, hope, cynicism, emotional journey, parenting, coping mechanisms, personal growth, waiting, life lessons. | — | ||||||
| 2/2/26 | ![]() Episode 3: The Expectations vs Reality Gap | SummaryIn this episode, Andrew and Matt discuss the complexities of navigating conversations around infertility and surrogacy, particularly within the LGBTQ community. They explore the expectation gap between reality and what one hopes for, the challenges of seeking support from family and friends, and the importance of compassionate listening. The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding and patience from those who wish to support individuals on this journey, highlighting that silence does not equate to a lack of progress. The episode concludes with a call for community support and sharing experiences to help others in similar situations.TakeawaysThe expectation gap between reality and hopes can be challenging. Conversations about infertility can feel high stakes. Support from friends and family is often well-intentioned but can miss the mark. It's important to articulate what kind of support is needed. Questions about the process can feel invasive and overwhelming.Compassionate listening is more valuable than probing questions.Silence from loved ones doesn't mean there is no progress.The journey of infertility is often filled with emotional ups and downs. Sharing experiences can help others feel less alone. Community support is crucial for those navigating infertility.Sound bites"It's a hard thing to talk about.""Everyone has good intentions.""It's a very long journey for you."Chapters00:00 Introduction and Gratitude00:57 The Expectation Gap in Infertility02:52 Navigating Conversations About Infertility05:19 Desiring Support Without Probing Questions09:11 Understanding the Complexity of Surrogacy11:08 The Challenge of Well-Intentioned Questions12:36 The Need for Compassionate Support14:00 How to Check In Without PressureKeywordsinfertility, LGBTQ, surrogacy, support, expectations, family, conversations, emotional journey, compassion, community | — | ||||||
| 1/25/26 | ![]() Episode 2: No Regrets | SummaryIn this episode, Matt and Andrew reflect on their journey through the complexities of building a family, particularly focusing on the concept of 'no regrets'. They share personal anecdotes from their experiences with adoption, including the emotional rollercoaster of being matched with birth mothers and the subsequent challenges they faced. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing what can be controlled in uncertain situations and how to shift perspectives from regret to learning experiences. They emphasize the need to balance living in the moment while planning for the future, especially when navigating the financial and emotional aspects of family building. As they delve deeper into their experiences, Matt and Andrew discuss the mental shifts they've made to embrace a more positive outlook. They talk about the significance of creating a fulfilling life outside of their family-building journey, including travel and personal growth. The episode serves as a candid exploration of the ups and downs of their path, offering insights and encouragement to others in similar situations.Keywordsfamily building, no regret work, adoption journey, emotional challenges, personal growth, parenting, uncertainty, mental health, travel experiences, LGBTQ+ parentingTakeaways'What can we do that no matter what the outcome is, we wouldn't regret doing?''We were desperately trying to control this process.''Every lesson has its purpose.''We have to remind ourselves that we also still have a marriage.''It's important to find what your passions are.'Sound Bites"What can we do that no matter what the outcome is?""We were desperately trying to control this process.""Everything we did was all about we're gonna have kids one day."Chapters00:00Introduction and Reflections on the Journey08:48Shifting Perspectives on Regret15:53Embracing Life Beyond Family Building | — | ||||||
| 1/18/26 | ![]() Episode 1: Getting Started | SummaryIn the first full-length podcast, Matt and Andrew reflect on their journey into the world of podcasting, sharing the challenges they faced in selecting topics and building credibility. They discuss the complexities of going public with their personal experiences surrounding adoption and surrogacy, emphasizing the emotional weight of sharing their story. The duo candidly admits that the process has been more difficult than anticipated, revealing their struggles with technology and communication as they navigate their new venture. They aim to create a space for shared experiences, focusing on authenticity rather than simply providing educational content about adoption and surrogacy.Keywordspodcasting, adoption, surrogacy, personal journey, LGBTQ parenting, shared experiences, credibility, emotional challenges, starting a podcast, navigating parenthoodTakeawaysIt's harder to start a podcast than we thought.Building credibility is a challenge when sharing personal stories.Going public about our journey is both scary and liberating.We want to create a space for shared experiences, not just educational content.Finding the right topics to discuss has been a struggle.Sound Bites"It's harder to start a podcast than we thought.""We don't want this to be just an academic lecture.""This journey's lasted now over 10 years."Chapters00:00 Welcome to Our Podcast Journey01:51 The Challenges of Topic Selection06:58 Building Credibility and Authenticity12:18 Navigating Personal Experiences17:28 Going Public with Our StorySocialsInstagram @waiting_withloveFacebook: Waiting with Love | — | ||||||
| 1/11/26 | ![]() Waiting with Love: Episode 0 | In this inaugural episode of 'Waiting with Love', hosts Matt and Andrew share their personal journey of waiting to build a family over the past decade. They discuss the emotional challenges, the silence surrounding their struggles, and the importance of creating a supportive community for those navigating similar experiences. The episode emphasizes the coexistence of hope and grief during the waiting process and invites listeners to join them in a fellowship of shared experiences.TakeawaysYou don't have to wait without hope.Waiting for a family can be a long and emotional journey.Silence can often feel protective but may actually harm us.Social media often showcases only success stories, not the struggles.Creating a space for shared experiences is essential.There is a lack of public support for those still waiting.This podcast is for those in the messy middle of waiting.It's important to seek professional help when needed.Life continues, and joy can still be found during waiting.Hope and grief can coexist in the waiting process.Sound Bites"You don't have to wait without hope.""Silence was actually the opposite of protection.""This space doesn't exist and it's needed."Chapters00:00Introduction to Waiting with Love01:20The Journey of Waiting for a Family05:05Navigating the Emotional Weight of Waiting09:13Creating a Space for Shared Experiences11:05Hope and Grief Coexisting in the Waiting RoomSocialsInstagram @waiting_withloveFacebook: Waiting with Love | — | ||||||
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