Anxiety! : This is Where Real Relief Starts

Anxiety! : This is Where Real Relief Starts

From Why Do People Do That? by Stacy Pellettieri, LCSW and Heather Harten. LCSW

January 25, 2026 · 1h 1m · Episode 39

About this episode

This episode explores the root causes of anxiety and effective treatment approaches.

This is the anxiety episode you’ve all been waiting for. What is anxiety, really? And why does it seem to get worse the harder we try to make it go away? As clinicians, we see far too many people who arrive exhausted—having tried every technique, strategy, and mindset shift yet still feeling trapped in fear. In this episode, we start where real healing begins: understanding anxiety at its root. Are we destined to live with anxiety forever? Does it truly “never go away”? The answer may surprise you. Relief is possible—but only when we treat anxiety in the right way. Cognitive tools don’t work for somatic responses, and somatic approaches won’t resolve cognitive patterns. Effective treatment requires knowing what you’re dealing with and using the right tools for the job. This episode breaks down why a one-size-fits-all approach fails and why working with a clinician who has an eclectic, informed, and flexible approach can be life-changing. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island…

People in this episode

Hosts: Stacy Pellettieri, Heather Harten

Topics covered

  • anxiety
  • mental health
  • cognitive tools
  • somatic responses
  • effective treatment

Keywords

  • anxiety
  • mental health
  • cognitive patterns
  • somatic approaches
  • healing

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Long Island Counseling Services, District Support Services, ADHD Training Center

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