Wise Mind: A DBT Podcast

This week we're exploring Avoidant Attachment, one of the three insecure attachment styles. In this episode, we unpack what avoidant attachment is, how it develops, and the ways it can show up in relationships, emotions, and everyday life.We discuss common traits of avoidant attachment, why people may struggle with vulnerability and closeness, and most importantly, how change is possible. We explore practical strategies for building awareness, strengthening relationships, and moving toward a more secure attachment style.Plus, we have a very exciting announcement to share with our Wise Mind community! 🎉If you're interested in attachment theory, personal growth, relationships, or DBT skills, this is an episode you won't want to miss.If you're enjoying the podcast and would like access to additional resources and exclusive content, visit Wise Mind Collective and follow the links to our Patreon community.The best way to support us is to like, follow, rate, share, and leave a comment wherever you listen to your podcasts. Your support helps us continue creating free, evidence-based mental health and DBT content for our listeners.🎧 Tune in now and join the conversation!Find all details and register at: www.wisemindcollective.com.auContact us:wisemindcollective.com.auOrInstagram + Facebook - Wisemind DBT PodcastCrisis SupportThis space may include discussions that bring up strong emotions or difficult topics. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, please know you're not alone and support is available.If you or someone you know is in crisis, we encourage you to reach out to:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76 (A 24/7 national support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)Emergency Services – 000 (if you are in immediate danger)Acknowledgment of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan and the Origins of DBTWe honor Dr. Marsha M. Linehan, psychologist and professor who created Dialectical Behavior Therapy.It’s thanks to Dr. Linehan that DBT has become a proven intervention for a range of mental health challenges.Wise Mind A DBT Podcast gratefully acknowledges that DBT is Dr. Linehan’s work, not ours, and we honor her legacy.

Welcome back to Wise Mind: A DBT Podcast. Today, we continue our deep dive into attachment styles by exploring secure attachment — what it is, how it develops, and what it actually looks like in everyday life and relationships. We unpack the foundations of secure attachment, including consistency, emotional attunement, trust, and safety, and discuss how these early experiences shape the way we connect with others throughout adulthood.We also explore the traits commonly associated with secure attachment: healthy communication, emotional regulation, balanced independence, vulnerability, and the ability to navigate conflict without losing connection. Along the way, we compare secure attachment with other attachment patterns and discuss how these dynamics can show up in friendships, romantic relationships, parenting, and even therapy. This is not an episode to miss! If you want MORE head over to our Patreon for bonus content and resources each week! head to our website where you will also find the rego for our 10-week DBT group!Find all details and register at: www.wisemindcollective.com.auContact us:wisemindcollective.com.auOrInstagram + Facebook - Wisemind DBT PodcastCrisis SupportThis space may include discussions that bring up strong emotions or difficult topics. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, please know you're not alone and support is available.If you or someone you know is in crisis, we encourage you to reach out to:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76 (A 24/7 national support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)Emergency Services – 000 (if you are in immediate danger)Acknowledgment of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan and the Origins of DBTWe honor Dr. Marsha M. Linehan, psychologist and professor who created Dialectical Behavior Therapy.It’s thanks to Dr. Linehan that DBT has become a proven intervention for a range of mental health challenges.Wise Mind A DBT Podcast gratefully acknowledges that DBT is Dr. Linehan’s work, not ours, and we honor her legacy.

Welcome back to Wise Mind DBT Podcast with Raich and Maddy!In this episode, we explore behaviour what it really is at its core and the theory behind it. We also break down how to increase your chances of making behavioural change for yourself, and even influencing the behaviour of those around you.A huge thank you to all our new Patreon subscribers! If you’d like bonus content and weekly resources, jump onto our Patreon. Otherwise, the best way to support us is by liking, following, and commenting.And yes we’ve actually got our shit together. Our new 10-week online DBT group is now live and open for registration. Head over to Wise Mind Collective, click the group therapy link, and sign up there.We can’t wait to see you in group!Find all details and register at: www.wisemindcollective.com.auContact us:wisemindcollective.com.auOrInstagram + Facebook - Wisemind DBT PodcastCrisis SupportThis space may include discussions that bring up strong emotions or difficult topics. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, please know you're not alone and support is available.If you or someone you know is in crisis, we encourage you to reach out to:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76 (A 24/7 national support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)Emergency Services – 000 (if you are in immediate danger)Acknowledgment of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan and the Origins of DBTWe honor Dr. Marsha M. Linehan, psychologist and professor who created Dialectical Behavior Therapy.It’s thanks to Dr. Linehan that DBT has become a proven intervention for a range of mental health challenges.Wise Mind A DBT Podcast gratefully acknowledges that DBT is Dr. Linehan’s work, not ours, and we honor her legacy.

Welcome back to another episode of Wise Mind, A DBT podcast with your hosts, Maddy and Raichel! A huge thank you to all our new Patreon subscribers. If you’d like access to extra bonus content each week for your ears and eyes, you can subscribe via the link on our website.In this episode, we explore the “Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse” the relationship patterns identified by the Gottmans that can predict conflict and disconnection in relationships over time. We unpack the four horsemen: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling, and discuss how these behaviours can impact not only romantic relationships, but also friendships, family dynamics, and everyday interactions.We also dive into why the Gottmans’ research is so influential and how it connects with DBT principles, emotional regulation, mindfulness, and effective communication. Most importantly, we explore the antidotes to these patterns and the practical ways we can begin creating healthier, more connected relationships through validation, repair attempts, self-awareness, and intentional communication.This episode is full of insight, reflection, and practical tools to help strengthen your relationships and better understand the patterns that shape connection.Find all details, resources, training, groups at: www.wisemindcollective.com.auContact us:wisemindcollective.com.auOrInstagram + Facebook - Wisemind DBT PodcastCrisis SupportThis space may include discussions that bring up strong emotions or difficult topics. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, please know you're not alone and support is available.If you or someone you know is in crisis, we encourage you to reach out to:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76 (A 24/7 national support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)Emergency Services – 000 (if you are in immediate danger)Acknowledgment of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan and the Origins of DBTWe honor Dr. Marsha M. Linehan, psychologist and professor who created Dialectical Behavior Therapy.It’s thanks to Dr. Linehan that DBT has become a proven intervention for a range of mental health challenges.Wise Mind A DBT Podcast gratefully acknowledges that DBT is Dr. Linehan’s work, not ours, and we honor her legacy.

Anger is not your enemy , it’s your greatest safety cue and like Raich says, without it… it can be a quick death.In this episode of Wise Mind - A DBT Podcast we take a deep, deep, deep dive into the emotion of anger! Its role, its purpose, and how it protects you. We explore what happens when anger gets suppressed, and the impact of explosive, rageful anger. Of course, we also help you figure out where you sit on the dialectic.If you’re a human being, this episode is for you because we all feel anger. And if you think you don’t… well, guess what? We’ve got some news for you.Tune in now wherever you get your podcasts 🎧Like, comment, and follow to support us and keep the conversation going. If youre wanting more bonus content, conversations and BONUS EPISODES jump over to our PATREON account, we will meet you there!!>>>>https://patreon.com/wiseminddbtpodcast<<<<<<Contact us:wisemindcollective.com.auOrInstagram + Facebook - Wisemind DBT PodcastCrisis SupportThis space may include discussions that bring up strong emotions. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, please know you're not alone and support is available.If you or someone you know is in crisis, we encourage you to reach out to:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76 (A 24/7 national support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)Emergency Services – 000 (if you are in immediate danger)Acknowledgment of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan and the Origins of DBTWe honor Dr. Marsha M. Linehan, psychologist and professor who created Dialectical Behavior Therapy.It’s thanks to Dr. Linehan that DBT has become a proven intervention and the GOLD STANDARD for a range of mental health challenges.Wise Mind A DBT Podcast gratefully acknowledges that DBT is Dr. Linehan’s work, not ours, and we honor her legacy.

Today we have a very special episode with an equally special guest - The incredibly clever, Maddison Fawdry, an eating disorder dietitian with over 10 years of experience in the field.In this episode, we explore all things eating disorders and disordered eating: what they are, the factors that can make someone more vulnerable, and the different approaches to treatment. We also dive into some of the bigger concepts and misconceptions surrounding these topics. We are super proud to be able to give you this episode and loved this convo that we will be sharing over 2 episodes!!Maddie shares incredibly valuable insights, and it was an absolute pleasure to have this thoughtful and important conversation with her. To keep supporting us, make sure to like, follow, and comment on our social media platforms , it really helps us grow and reach more people.If you’d like even more content, you can subscribe to our Patreon for bonus episodes, resources, and deeper, thought-provoking discussions.Patreon: https://patreon.com/wiseminddbtpodcastContact us:wisemindcollective.com.auOrInstagram + Facebook - Wisemind DBT PodcastContact Maddison Fawdry: https://www.maddisonfawdrydietetics.com/Crisis SupportThis space may include discussions that bring up strong emotions or difficult topics. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, please know you're not alone and support is available.If you or someone you know is in crisis, we encourage you to reach out to:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76 (A 24/7 national support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)Emergency Services – 000 (if you are in immediate danger)Acknowledgment of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan and the Origins of DBTWe honor Dr. Marsha M. Linehan, psychologist and professor who created Dialectical Behavior Therapy.It’s thanks to Dr. Linehan that DBT has become a proven intervention for a range of mental health challenges.Wise Mind A DBT Podcast gratefully acknowledges that DBT is Dr. Linehan’s work, not ours, and we honor her legacy.

Happy Easter, Passover—or however you’re marking this season 🌿WISE MIND is taking a short break, so we’re revisiting one of our earlier (and favourite) episodes: Mindfulness — the Kool-Aid we all must drink… or at least die trying.In this episode, Raich and Maddy dive into the delightful paradox of mindfulness. Why does something that promises so much clarity and calm feel so hard to actually do? Raich compares it to “drinking the mindfulness Kool-Aid”—but what are we really buying into?We explore:The dialectic between mindfulness and mindlessnessThe constant tug-of-war between past, present, and futureThe science behind mindfulness (because who doesn’t love a brainy breakdown?)We break down the three core mind states developed by Marsha M. Linehan:Emotion MindReasonable MindWise MindAnd here’s the key takeaway: there are no “bad” mind states—just effective and ineffective ways of responding. (Your move.)We also get practical (and a little cheeky), exploring everyday ways to practice mindfulness—including yes… mindfully going to the bathroom (WHAT THE HELLY! – Maddy).Finally, we talk about how to cultivate Wise Mind—that sweet spot of balanced awareness—to help you navigate daily life with more clarity, resilience, and intention.What is Mindfulness — DBT Skills Manual by Marsha LinehanWise Mind Worksheet (Megan Moorhead)Mind States Worksheet“Is This Wise Mind?” Meditation (YouTube)Smiling Mind: www.smilingmind.com.auWe’d love to hear from you—questions, feedback, collaborations, or just a hello:📧 wiseminddbtpodcast@gmail.com🌐 www.raichelgreencounselling.com📸 Instagram: @wiseminddbtpodcastIf this episode brings up strong emotions, support is available:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76Emergency Services – 000

In this episode of Wise Mind: A DBT Podcast, Maddy and Raich explore the idea that you catch more bees with honey or as Raich jokes, flies. This saying leads into a discussion of the DBT GIVE skill, a key part of relationship effectiveness. GIVE focuses on how we communicate in ways that strengthen and maintain relationships while still allowing us to express our needs and wants. Throughout the episode, Maddy and Raich break down what GIVE looks like in everyday life and how small shifts in the way we approach others can make a big difference in connection. They discuss how being gentle, showing interest, validating others, and using an easy manner can help conversations feel safer, more respectful, and more collaborative. We also explore how these skills can be especially helpful when building new relationships, whether that’s friendships, work connections, or other important relationships in our lives.As always, the conversation blends practical DBT skills with real-life examples, helping listeners think about how they might apply GIVE in their own interactions.If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to follow, like, and leave a comment to support the podcast. And we have an announcement! We’re now on Patreon, where we’ll be sharing bonus content, hosting meaningful conversations with listeners, and offering giveaways. Tune in to learn more and find the link on our website.Contact us:wisemindcollective.com.auOrInstagram + Facebook - Wisemind DBT PodcastCrisis SupportThis space may include discussions that bring up strong emotions or difficult topics. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, please know you're not alone and support is available.If you or someone you know is in crisis, we encourage you to reach out to:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76 (A 24/7 national support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)Emergency Services – 000 (if you are in immediate danger)Acknowledgment of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan and the Origins of DBTWe honor Dr. Marsha M. Linehan, psychologist and professor who created Dialectical Behavior Therapy.It’s thanks to Dr. Linehan that DBT has become a proven intervention for a range of mental health challenges.Wise Mind A DBT Podcast gratefully acknowledges that DBT is Dr. Linehan’s work, not ours, and we honor her legacy.

In this episode, we jump into the famous DBT skill we all know and love called DEAR MAN . The foundation of assertive communication. This skill is all about learning how to ask for what you need clearly, calmly, and effectively, without guilt, aggression, or people-pleasing. Before breaking down the steps of DEAR MAN, we explore what assertiveness truly is, and what it isn’t. Assertiveness isn’t being demanding or confrontational, and it’s not staying silent to keep the peace. It’s about communicating with clarity and respect, while staying connected to your Wise Mind.We walk through each part of the DEAR MAN framework and explain how to apply it in real-life situations so you can increase your chances of getting your needs met . This skill helps you feel more confident the next time you need to make a request, set a boundary, or say no.Tune in on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, and don’t forget to follow the show so you never miss an episode. If you found this helpful, please like, comment, and share on Instagram and Facebook to continue supporting us and spreading these skills to more people.And brand new! we’re now on Patreon! We’ll be sharing bonus episodes and exclusive resources just for our community. Click the link below and on our website to join us.Contact us:wisemindcollective.com.auOrInstagram + Facebook - Wisemind DBT PodcastCrisis SupportThis space may include discussions that bring up strong emotions or difficult topics. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, please know you're not alone and support is available.If you or someone you know is in crisis, we encourage you to reach out to:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76 (A 24/7 national support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)Emergency Services – 000 (if you are in immediate danger)Acknowledgment of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan and the Origins of DBTWe honor Dr. Marsha M. Linehan, psychologist and professor who created Dialectical Behavior Therapy.It’s thanks to Dr. Linehan that DBT has become a proven intervention for a range of mental health challenges.Wise Mind A DBT Podcast gratefully acknowledges that DBT is Dr. Linehan’s work, not ours, and we honor her legacy.

In this episode of Wise Mind: A DBT Podcast, Raich and Maddy dive into one of the most requested DBT skills: Interpersonal Effectiveness. After hearing your messages and questions, we explore why this skill is so important for emotional wellbeing and healthy relationships.We break down the three core DBT goals of interpersonal effectiveness , getting what you want, maintaining relationships, and preserving your self-respect and discuss the common barriers that get in the way, including people-pleasing, fear of conflict, guilt, and emotional overwhelm.Then we shift into a deep dive on boundaries - what they are, what they aren’t, and why they matter. We introduce different boundary types and boundary styles, helping you understand your own patterns before you begin setting clearer limits. Think of this as laying the foundation and “nailing the posts into your fence” before building it.If you’ve ever struggled to say no, felt resentment creep into relationships, or questioned whether your boundaries are reasonable, this episode is for you.🎧 Tune in now on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, and don’t forget to like, follow, and share to support the show!Contact us:wisemindcollective.com.auOrInstagram + Facebook - Wisemind DBT PodcastCrisis SupportThis space may include discussions that bring up strong emotions or difficult topics. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, please know you're not alone and support is available.If you or someone you know is in crisis, we encourage you to reach out to:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76 (A 24/7 national support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)Emergency Services – 000 (if you are in immediate danger)Acknowledgment of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan and the Origins of DBTWe honor Dr. Marsha M. Linehan, psychologist and professor who created Dialectical Behavior Therapy.It’s thanks to Dr. Linehan that DBT has become a proven intervention for a range of mental health challenges.Wise Mind A DBT Podcast gratefully acknowledges that DBT is Dr. Linehan’s work, not ours, and we honor her legacy.

In this episode of the Wise Mind: A DBT Podcast, we explore the ABC skills, the core DBT skills for building pleasant emotions on purpose.We break down Accumulating Positive Events, why positive emotions don’t just “happen,” and how intentionally creating them reduces emotional vulnerability. We also explore Building Mastery and Values, and why these skills aren’t optional extras but essential for building a life worth living.Using the metaphor of a lighthouse, we frame values as the steady light that guides us back to Wise Mind, especially when emotions or urges try to pull us off course. We also dive into the idea of alpha values and share a bit about our own.Raich and Maddy explore how a “spoonful” of daily positive events, mastery, and values-based actions can create a purposeful life—one where we get to show up as our most authentic selves.🎧 Tune in now on Apple Podcasts and Spotify✨ Like, comment, follow, and share to support the show and so we can continue to provide you free skills!Contact us:wisemindcollective.com.auOrInstagram + Facebook - Wisemind DBT PodcastCrisis SupportThis space may include discussions that bring up strong emotions or difficult topics. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, please know you're not alone and support is available.If you or someone you know is in crisis, we encourage you to reach out to:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76 (A 24/7 national support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)Emergency Services – 000 (if you are in immediate danger)Acknowledgment of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan and the Origins of DBTWe honor Dr. Marsha M. Linehan, psychologist and professor who created Dialectical Behavior Therapy.It’s thanks to Dr. Linehan that DBT has become a proven intervention for a range of mental health challenges.Wise Mind A DBT Podcast gratefully acknowledges that DBT is Dr. Linehan’s work, not ours, and we honor her legacy.

In this episode of Wise Mind: A DBT Podcast, we tackle the “A” in PLEASE skills—Avoid mood-altering substances with curiosity, compassion, and a little humor. Instead of zooming in only on drugs and alcohol, we take a big-picture, Marsha Linehan–style look at addiction, including anything we use to numb out, escape, or emotionally duct-tape ourselves together.We talk about emotional regulation and that familiar inner voice saying, “Okay… get your shit together.” Spoiler alert: it’s not that simple. Using the disease model of addiction, we explain what’s actually going on in the addicted brain, why cravings feel so intense, and why stopping is hard, even when you really, really want to.This episode kicks off our deeper dive into the neurobiology of addiction, breaking down how the brain’s reward system gets hijacked and why willpower alone rarely works.We also bring the hope: recovery is real. We share solid stats, including a 75% recovery rate, and introduce a self-assessment tool to help you figure out your own risk level.If you’ve ever wondered why your brain does what it does and how DBT skills can help you work with it instead of yelling at it or shaming it, this episode is for you. 🎧Want to know the best way to support us and help us to keep providing free content?! Like, follow, react, comment on Wise Mind - A DBT Podcast on Apple, Spotify and social media!!Find all details, resources and trainings at : www.wisemindcollective.com.au⁠www.wisemindcollective.com.auwww.wisemindcollective.com.auContact us:wisemindcollective.com.auOrInstagram + Facebook - Wisemind DBT PodcastCrisis SupportWe are not a crisis service, If you or someone you know is in crisis, we encourage you to reach out to:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76 (A 24/7 national support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)Emergency Services – 000 (if you are in immediate danger)Acknowledgment of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan and the Origins of DBTWe honor Dr. Marsha M. Linehan, psychologist and professor who created Dialectical Behavior Therapy.It’s thanks to Dr. Linehan that DBT has become a proven intervention for a range of mental health challenges.Wise Mind A DBT Podcast gratefully acknowledges that DBT is Dr. Linehan’s work, not ours, and we honor her legacy.

In this episode of the Wise Mind : A DBT Podcast, Raich and Maddy dive into the essential role of sleep within the PLEASE skills and its direct connection to emotional regulation. They explain the science of sleep, what happens in the brain during rest, and why adequate sleep is critical for accessing Wise Mind and managing emotions effectively.The episode covers the short- and long-term effects of sleep deprivation, including mood swings, reduced focus, and increased stress sensitivity. Raich and Maddy also highlight key research on sleep cycles, circadian rhythms, and how long-term sleep habits impact mental and physical health.Listeners are offered practical, evidence-based strategies for improving sleep, along with guidance on creating routines that support regulation. The episode also explores nightmare protocols, including imagery rehearsal and rewriting the ending to reduce distress and improve rest.Tune in for accessible tools, research, and insights to help you sleep better and regulate more effectively.Contact us : wisemindcollective.com.auOrInstagram + Facebook - Wisemind DBT PodcastCrisis SupportThis space may include discussions that bring up strong emotions or difficult topics. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, please know you're not alone and support is available.If you or someone you know is in crisis, we encourage you to reach out to:Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7)Beyond Blue – 1300 22 463613YARN – 13 92 76 (A 24/7 national support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people)Emergency Services – 000 (if you are in immediate danger)Acknowledgment of Dr. Marsha M. Linehan and the Origins of DBTWe honor Dr. Marsha M. Linehan, psychologist and professor who created Dialectical Behavior Therapy.It’s thanks to Dr. Linehan that DBT has become a proven intervention for a range of mental health challenges.Wise Mind A DBT Podcast gratefully acknowledges that DBT is Dr. Linehan’s work, not ours, and we honor her legacy.