Wonderfully Done: Wholesome Sex and Dating Advice

Ooooo Wonderfully Done Fans, we have got a particularly jizz-tastic episode hot off the editing floor for you to enjoy! Our guest in this episode is the intelligent and sensual genius that is Daddy Will! ​​Who is Daddy Will?Daddy Will is a content creator and educator focused on helping men give and receive more pleasure. His style is warm and affirming yet adventurous, and we’ve been a big fan of his work for absolutely ages! Topics we explore in this episode: How Will’s career and content is informed by his background in personal training, massage, sex and tantra education and so much more What is tantra, and how can we start exploring it? How can we work on improving our partnered sex lives through solo masturbation? Ways to bring mindfulness and intimacy together Moving away from feeling in a ‘rut’ with masturbation What exactly is ‘sex magic’, though? Where to find more Daddy Will: Twitter OnlyFans JustForFans Our audio mix and mastering is by Raf Chavez from Big Mastering ✨ Connect with us! Website: www.wonderfullydone.showInstagram: wonderfullydoneshow Twitter: @donewonderfully Facebook: Wonderfully DoneListen on Spotify!Support the show!Leave us a review wherever you listenJoin our newsletter hereAsk an anonymous question here Lots of love,Lauren and Vix 💋

A love for beautiful things is such a delicious part of being queer. In this episode, we're joined by an out-of-this-world sapphic artist, who we've yearned to interview since the Wonderfully Done concept was born. Meet Mayticks! 🎨 ​​Who is Mayticks?Mayticks (she/her) is a divine artist who makes sapphic art that explores queerness, body feels, and connection - basically all our favorite shit! She is a Canberra-based Australian cutie, queer, and draws a loooooot of nipples and leg hair! Topics we explore in this episode: Exploring sexuality in erotic art, as a queer woman What’s the difference between drawing for 'a male gaze' vs 'a queer gaze' (gays)? Queer Romance - How Mayticks met her wife What makes art sensual vs. pornographic Challenging your own biases in your art Should Twitter make changes for 18+ gating? Today and the future in queer art Where to find more Mayticks! Buy some beautiful art: www.etsy.com/au/shop/Mayticks Instagram: www.instagram.com/mayticks Twitter: https://twitter.com/mayticks A few key projects to check out: Classics... but make it gay I - Mayticks as an Illustrator + Merch designer (new edition coming in 2022!) Dames, Warrior Women of Legends II - Mayticks as a Merch Designer Cover Me Queer Zine - Mayticks as an Illustrator Some recommended creators from Mayticks:Mayticks recommends following Twitter accounts @DamesZine and @Nova_Mali to see incredible queer-centered art by a talented array of artists. Some of Mayticks' collaborators on Twitter include: @Renstrapp @fiona_creates @gildedruin @Aadorah @may12324 @BlkDistraction @Shouty_y @ErenAngiolini Fill your life with gorgeous queer art, and we'll see you in the next episode! Connect with us! Website: www.wonderfullydone.showInstagram: wonderfullydoneshowTwitter: @donewonderfullyFacebook: Wonderfully Done Listen on Spotify!Support the show!Leave us a review wherever you listenJoin our newsletter hereAsk an anonymous question here Lots of love,Lauren and Vix 💋

The end of Season Two has arrived! ❤️ To you we offer a special Anal August treat, and vulnerable chats about body feels and journeys of personal sexual freedom. CW: This episode has some heavy exploration of body image issues and fatphobia Topics we explore in this episode: Broaching the desire for pegging with a cis het male partner Practical advice on developing self esteem & confidence Fat liberation, body neutrality, body acceptance and more The concept of sexual freedom with lashings of practical advice Thoughts and feelings about Season Two and what is to come Content and Creators mentioned in this episode: Book Recommendation: Intuitive Eating - A Revolutionary Anti-Diet Approach Written by Elyse Resch and Evelyn Tribole Health at Every Size Written by Linda Bacon Podcast Recommendation: WHY ARE PEOPLE INTO THAT?! Hosted by Tina Horn A fascinating podcast really getting into the guts of why people are into different kinds of sex, kink and more with interesting and thought provoking guests Thank you so much for an incredible second season, cutie beans! Connect with us! Website: www.wonderfullydone.showInstagram: wonderfullydoneshow Twitter: @donewonderfully Facebook: Wonderfully DoneListen on Spotify!Support the show!Leave us a review wherever you listenJoin our newsletter hereAsk an anonymous question here Lots of love,Lauren and Vix 💋

Dearest sex and love nerds, today we’re talking about the D in BDSM 🖤 with a wholesome and yummy interview with a local Pro Dom in Melbourne. Meet Sir James! Topics we explore in this episode: Anecdotes and lessons learned from kink and sex work Legal limitations for sex worker advertising and operating Stigma and misconceptions around sex work Tackling shame and helping partners find their kinky interests How to be a fabulous first-time client Tips for adding domination into your dynamic at home How to be an active, supportive submissive Who is Sir James?Sir James (He/Him) is a Pro Dom working out of Melbourne at Fetish House in Oakleigh. He’s a strong rugged man, specialising in services including Masculine Domination, Manhandling, Impact, Bondage, couples coaching, and more. Where to find more Sir James Twitter: https://twitter.com/SirJamesMedia Fetish House Profile: https://fetishhouse.com.au/fetish-providers/james/ Email: SirJamesFetish@gmail.com Content and Creators mentioned in this episode: Resource: Sex Menu An awesome tool made by Dr. Stephen de Wit (Sex Therapist) This sex menu outlines a wide range of activities and gives you the space to rate your interest out of 5, whether to you to give or receive a certain act, if you’ve done it before and a space for notes Filling this in is a great opportunity to get in touch with what interests you in the world of touch, sex, pleasure, and BDSM right now Really fun to do alone for personal knowledge or with partners! Also makes for great sexy homework Fetish House The only custom-designed and built venue in Melbourne specialising in fetish, fantasy and BDSM Versatile selection of available professionals, including Dominatrixes, Masters, submissives and more! We love their extensive Etiquette Guide Tryst Recommended listings page for independent escorts, with photos and lots of information on services, pricing and more Everything Harder than Everyone Else by Jenny Valentish A fabulous new book focusing on ‘why some of us push our bodies to the extreme’, including a substantial interview with Sir James in the context of BDSM Connect with us! Our Website: www.wonderfullydone.showFacebook: Wonderfully DoneTwitter: @donewonderfullyListen on Spotify!Support the show!Leave us a review wherever you listenJoin our newsletter hereAsk an anonymous question here Lots of love,Lauren and Vix 💋

With the rise of online dating, words and terms to describe ourselves and our desires are more prevalent than ever. The tricky thing about words is that many (especially in the world of sex and dating!) don’t actually have a singular meaning understood and accepted by all people. So what the heck can we do? Questions we ask in this episode: Do we use any slang or language in our own dating profiles? Do we use labels? How do labels help us? How do they limit us? Why does slang and new language emerge around sex and community? Is it just like horoscopes, or what? How do we have conversations asking what terms actually mean for different people? When is it about understanding ourselves, and when is it about explaining ourselves? What should people ‘know’ or learn? When do we ‘need’ to know specifics? Words and terms we explore: Top Bottom Submissive/Sub Dominant / Dom / Domme Vers / Switch Polyamorous vs. non-monogamy etc Open Relationship vs. Ethical Non-Monogamy Labels like: stud, stem, femme, butch, otter, bear, twink (presentation slang) SW lingo: PSE, GFE, BBJ Connect with us! Our website: www.wonderfullydone.showFacebook: Wonderfully DoneTwitter: @donewonderfully Listen on Spotify!Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here Lots of love,Lauren and Vix 💋

Saddle up cuties - today we’re talking about Unicorns! 🦄 Babysodes break away from our usual format, and explore something that tickles our fancy - such as an interview, discussing a particular topic of interest, or playing games. In this episode we discuss: Unicorns - what are they? Unicorn culture - the good, the bad & the ugly Tips for being a good, respectful ‘unicorn hunter’ Tips for a safer, better unicorn experience How to be them, and find them! Content and tools mentioned in this episode: Book Recommendation: The Ethical Slut English non-fiction book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy This is often suggested as a first read for Polyamory Take with a grain of salt Dating apps through the lens of seeking threesomes: Feeld app Used to be called Thrinder Kink and sexual encounter focused You can connect your profile with your partners People are pretty upfront with their specific sexual or kink related desires, which can make screening a little easier! OkCupid More common to see non-monogamy & queerness explicitly on profiles Robust information on profiles You can connect your profile with your partners Tinder Largest pool of selection, but less clear who is open to different lifestyles or their openness to it Since a recent update, you can connect your profile with your partners Connect with us! Our website: www.wonderfullydone.showFacebook: Wonderfully DoneTwitter: @donewonderfully Listen on Spotify!Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here Lots of love,Lauren and Vix 💋

The season of LOVE has begun as we march towards February 14th, Valentine's Day! With our deep fascination in all things dating and sex, we’d be remiss if we didn’t share some robust chats about this polarising holiday! Babysodes break away from our usual format, and explore something specific that tickles our fancy - such as an interview, discussing a particular topic of interest, or playing games. In this episode we discuss: A brief history on the origins of Valentine's Day Figuring out how to give good gifts to please your sweetie(s) Navigating one person liking Valentine's while the other hates it Why Valentine's Day shouldn't be the only day you’re extra romantic with partner(s) Creative date ideas to break away from the classic ‘dinner and drinks’ combo Our very own Valentine's Day plans! We’re absolutely big sluts for Valentine’s and would LOVE to hear your thoughts about it! Please especially feel free to share your best Valentine’s OR your plans for this year here! Ps. If you have a friend you think might enjoy our show, please share it with them - it would mean a lot to us! Connect with us! Our website: www.wonderfullydone.show Facebook: Wonderfully Done Twitter: @donewonderfully Listen on Spotify!Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here Lots of love,Lauren and Vix 💋

Prepare for cheerful chaos and hard love - we’re back with another round of Seven Minutes in Heaven! In these special episodes we answer at least four listener questions, but each question only gets seven minutes. A quickie, if you will. ;)The topics we cover in this episode include: Online sexting buds disappearing Check-ins on flirt welcomeness Long-term mismatched libido Challenges with flirting on the spectrum Creators mentioned in this episode: Article Recommendation: Sexual Currency Article by Swell - from Dame Wellness Dot Come What is Sexual Currency? The article describe it as:‘ Anytime we hug, kiss, rub, squeeze, and nuzzle into a romantic partner, there is an erotic charge. This comes from the sexual relationship that exists between couples.. Sexual currency is a little different from physical affection. It is sexually charged touch that has erotic meaning.’ Loved this article it’s a great reminder that keeping a saucy fire going in our relationships is work, FUN WORK, that we can make lots of little investments into Could be particularly helpful to anyone experiencing low libido in their relationship Instagram Post Recommendation: Topic: Relationships with different neurotypes Stevie Writes shares neat things on kink, non-monogamy, Autism, sexuality and gender on their Instagram Really wow concept to see specified and to really sit and consider how this affects our perceptions coming together in communications and our experience of our reality The idea that our realities are all different - our perception is not reality - it is a version of it Especially loved this:‘'Getting comfortable with the ideas that difference can be met with curiosity and not condemnation is powerful work' Instagram Recommendation: @thefatsextherapist Amazing trauma-informed sex therapist Spoke on an Instagram Live about having a maz (masturbate) on top of your bedcovers while naked, rather than covering yourself up, staying clothed etc. By seeing ourselves in a slightly more embodied way, we can create micro-moments of body acceptance and appreciation. We challenge our dear listeners to give this a try! Resource Recommendation: YearCompass A great reflection tool to help me let go of a hard year, and set me up for the new one We are both filling this out this year (Lauren has done hers already ofc) Connect with us! Our Website: www.wonderfullydone.showFacebook: Wonderfully Done Twitter: @donewonderfully Listen on Spotify!Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter hereAsk an anonymous question here Lots of love,Lauren and Vix

A big hello to you, our dearest sex nerds and romance sweeties! The topics we cover in this episode include: Guilt around feeling the need to reciprocate the gift giving of a partner Ideas for how to keep a long distance relationship feeling fresh and spicy in these pandemic times where travel is off the cards What monsters we would like to fuck the very MOST Creators mentioned in this episode: Podcast Recommendation: Why Won't You Date Me? Hosted by comedy genius Nicole Byer You may know Nicole from hosting ‘Nailed It’ on Netflix Her podcast is an entertaining exploration of why she is single, love, life, and sex Podcast Episode Recommendation: ‘Advice from a Dating Coach - Damona Hoffman by Why Won’t You Date Me?’ A juicy episode packed full of social analysis, vulnerability and concrete suggestions around dating in today’s world Listen on Spotify Connect with us! Our website: www.wonderfullydone.showTwitter: @donewonderfully Listen on Spotify!Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen! Join our newsletter here Lots of love,Lauren and Vix

Wonderfully Done is a wholesome show about sex, communication and loving yourself!Sweet listeners! This is the final episode of Season One of Wonderfully Done! Wow! Seriously, thank you for being with us and sharing in this space. We thought we’d do something fun and fresh before taking a little season break! In this episode, we revisit a game from our highschool days: Seven Minutes in Heaven. In our version, we’re answering four of your questions, but each question only gets seven minutes! This episode is chaos in the funnest of ways, and we absolutely plan for a round two! The topics we cover are: How to be a total baddie, and the key to our personal confidence How to open the door to chatting about sex and relationships with your pals, and encouraging sex positive culture in groups How to recover after an unreturned affection from someone in the workplace Defining intimacy in the context of our relationships - ie. physical, emotional, etc Creators Mentioned in this episode: Book Recommendation: ‘Sex and Social Media’ Written by Katrin Tiidenberg (Tallinn University, Estonia) and Emily van der Nagel (Monash University, Australia) A juicy book exploring the intersection of sex & social media Lauren and Vix were both participants in the research for this book Buy your own copy of the book here: https://bit.ly/3gtMIHK Book Recommendation: ‘Love 2.0’ by Barbara L. Fredrickson It’s all about ‘Creating Happiness and Health in Moments of Connection’ Really good, accessible, not too long! The idea that Love is made in moments and is frequent but recurring. Not a destination but a habit etc Website: https://www.positivityresonance.com/ Artist Recommendation: Exotic Cancer A wicked awesome illustrator and stripper who is also based in Melbourne Australia! We adore her work!!! Website: https://exoticcancer.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/exotic.cancer/ If you have a burning question or a topic you would like to hear our thoughts on, we would love to hear it! Slide into our DMs with your questions @donewonderfully on Twitter, or slip us an anonymous message at curiouscat.qa/wonderfullydone!

Wonderfully Done is a wholesome show about sex, communication and loving yourself! In this episode, Lauren and Vix discuss ways to address experience anxiety with sexual partners later in life, and explore a scenario where messages from an old FWB cause tension in a long term monogamous relationship! Lauren & Vix share regular opinions and advice for all your curious questions about sex, relationships, love and everything in between. Questions like: Is my vibrator lying to me? How do I take nudes I’m proud of? How do I tell my partner I want to peg them? This is an explicitly shame-free, supportive space. So, if you have a burning question or a topic you would like to hear our thoughts on, we would love to hear it! Slide into our DMs with your questions @donewonderfully on Twitter, or slip us an anonymous message at curiouscat.qa/wonderfullydone!

Wonderfully Done is a wholesome show about sex, communication and loving yourself!In this episode, Lauren and Vix discuss how to manage fears and expectations when approaching dating apps, and share inspiration plus personal experiences in the delicious world of taking nudes and sexting cuties!Lauren & Vix share regular opinions and advice for all your curious questions about sex, relationships, love and everything in between. Questions like: Is my vibrator lying to me? How do I take nudes I’m proud of? How do I tell my partner I want to peg them? This is an explicitly shame-free, supportive space. So, if you have a burning question or a topic you would like to hear our thoughts on, we would love to hear it! Slide into our DMs with your questions @donewonderfully on Twitter, or slip us an anonymous message at curiouscat.qa/wonderfullydone!

Wonderfully Done is a wholesome show about sex, communication and loving yourself!In this episode, Lauren and Vix explore motivations behind encouraging a partner's sexual self confidence, and discuss ‘normal’ in relation to masturbating.Lauren & Vix share regular opinions and advice for all your curious questions about sex, relationships, love and everything in between. Questions like: Is my vibrator lying to me? How do I take nudes I’m proud of? How do I tell my partner I want to peg them? This is an explicitly shame-free, supportive space. So, if you have a burning question or a topic you would like to hear our thoughts on, we would love to hear it! Slide into our DMs with your questions @donewonderfully on Twitter, or slip us an anonymous message at curiouscat.qa/wonderfullydone!