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Episode 48 - The Boyfriend
Apr 15, 2025
11m 08s
Episode 47 - The Salesman and Me
Apr 1, 2025
8m 17s
Episode 46 - Librarians, Low Effort, and Lukewarm Interest
Mar 24, 2025
6m 50s
Episode 45 - Is Low Effort Dating a Cultural Thing?
Mar 17, 2025
4m 58s
Episode 44 - The Five-Hour Ghosting: When Connection Feels Like an Illusion
Mar 10, 2025
8m 23s
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| Date | Episode | Description | Length | ||||||
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| 4/15/25 | Episode 48 - The Boyfriend | After countless low-effort matches, ghostings, and confusing conversations, I’ve finally met someone who feels different. In this episode, I share what it’s been like to date someone who is sweet, emotionally present, physically confident, intellectually stimulating (hello, PhD in humanities!), and genuinely invested in getting to know me. He plans dates. He calls. He brought flowers on our first official date. And most surprisingly? He makes it easy. Being with him is not only refreshing—it’... | 11m 08s | ||||||
| 4/1/25 | Episode 47 - The Salesman and Me | Some dating conversations feel like an interview, others feel like a monologue, and some… just leave you confused. In this episode, I share my bizarre exchange with a former Marine—who went from serving his country to selling Tempurpedic mattresses—and how the conversation took a sharp turn when I dared to have thoughts and opinions. 💌 Ever been unmatched for a ridiculous reason? Tell me about it at moderndating2025@gmail.com | 8m 17s | ||||||
| 3/24/25 | Episode 46 - Librarians, Low Effort, and Lukewarm Interest | If you’ve ever had a guy assume your profession for absolutely no reason, this episode is for you. First, I talk about a guy who confidently decided I was a librarian—based solely on the fact that I read books. Then, I dive into the painfully slow fade of someone who seemed interested… until his response time went from thoughtful messages to one every two days. Spoiler: it ended with an underwhelming coffee invite that made me question why I even bothered. If you’re tired of low-effort dating... | 6m 50s | ||||||
| 3/17/25 | Episode 45 - Is Low Effort Dating a Cultural Thing? | I’ve been wracking my brain over the shockingly low level of effort in dating where I live. Is it just me? Or is this an actual cultural thing? A friend of mine said that women in my area have just accepted that this is how things are—so men don’t need to try. And honestly? That blew my mind. In this episode, I unpack the frustrating reality of modern dating, whether we set the bar too low, and why so many men seem comfortable putting in bare minimum effort. Is this a regional issue? A genera... | 4m 58s | ||||||
| 3/10/25 | Episode 44 - The Five-Hour Ghosting: When Connection Feels Like an Illusion | Ever had a conversation so good that you knew it was going somewhere… only to be completely ghosted the next day? In this episode, I talk about my five-hour-long phone call with a guy who seemed like he was actually interested—until he wasn’t. I break down what happened, the odd red flags (including a weird entitlement about speaking Italian in Italy), and the way I tend to dwell on these moments even when I know I shouldn’t. If you’ve ever been left questioning what you did wrong when, reall... | 8m 23s | ||||||
| 3/3/25 | Episode 43 - Dodging Bullets Like I’m in The Matrix | Dating in my 40s sometimes feels like a high-stakes action movie, and honestly? I am thrilled to be dodging these emotional bullets. In this episode, I break down one of my latest dating encounters—a guy who seemed promising until his insecurities started screaming through his messages. We went from a decent conversation to him over-explaining his financial success, subtly dismissing my concerns, and then suddenly deciding we weren’t a match… only to immediately ask me out. The flip-flopping?... | 11m 05s | ||||||
| 2/24/25 | Episode 42 - Ending things for all the right reasons | Another one bites the dust | 14m 50s | ||||||
| 12/22/24 | Episode 41 - Year End Summary | Year-end summary of my dating in 2024 | 14m 10s | ||||||
| 10/28/24 | Episode 40 - The Power of Boundaries | Boundaries are a critical part of any healthy relationship, especially when it comes to dating. | 17m 48s | ||||||
| 10/21/24 | Episode 39 - You deserve more | You deserve more than a relationship that leaves you feeling empty. You deserve more than settling for less than what makes you truly happy. You deserve to be with someone who respects your boundaries, values your needs, and wants to see you thrive. It’s not selfish to want more for yourself—it’s necessary. | 7m 21s | ||||||
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| 10/14/24 | Episode 38 - Becoming You | It’s about rediscovering the person you are outside of a relationship so that when you enter one again, you do so as your authentic, empowered self. | 8m 13s | ||||||
| 10/7/24 | Episode 37 - The Boomerang | We all have those people in our lives who come and go with such irregularity that it’s hard to know what their intentions are. These are the people I call "the boomerangs." | 13m 09s | ||||||
| 9/30/24 | Episode 36 - The "Hanger-Ons" | the next time someone pops up with that vague, “How’s it going?” ask yourself: Do I really want to continue this ambiguous dance? Or is it time to let them drift away for good? | 8m 04s | ||||||
| 9/23/24 | Episode 35 - Third Love: When Love Becomes a Conscious Choice | Third love is something to embrace fully. It’s about trusting your instincts and your heart while also allowing yourself the freedom to choose what’s best for you. | 10m 47s | ||||||
| 9/16/24 | Episode 34 - When They're Just Not That Into You | Dating can be challenging, but it’s important to recognize when someone isn’t giving you the effort and attention you deserve. | 9m 35s | ||||||
| 9/9/24 | Episode 33 - The No Show Dates | No description provided. | 7m 27s | ||||||
| 9/2/24 | Episode 32 - Shallow conversations | No description provided. | 7m 54s | ||||||
| 8/25/24 | Episode 31 - The Importance of Intent | No description provided. | 12m 21s | ||||||
| 8/19/24 | Episode 30 - Lifestyle compatibility part 2 | No description provided. | 7m 10s | ||||||
| 8/12/24 | Episode 29 - Lifestyle compatibility is important | No description provided. | 7m 43s | ||||||
| 8/5/24 | Episode 28 - Honesty on age | No description provided. | 9m 05s | ||||||
| 7/29/24 | Episode 27 - Self care | No description provided. | 7m 13s | ||||||
| 11/27/23 | Episode 26 - Dating Etiquette | No description provided. | 6m 14s | ||||||
| 11/20/23 | Episode 25 - Safety in Online Dating | No description provided. | 5m 12s | ||||||
| 11/13/23 | Episode 24 - Long Distance Relationships | No description provided. | 4m 54s | ||||||
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Chart Positions
2 placements across 2 markets.
Chart Positions
2 placements across 2 markets.