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What really affects your libido? Why is sex education still missing so much? And how do religion, culture and reality TV shape the way we view sex and relationships? In this episode of Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Friends, I sit down with Virgin Island sexologists and therapists Danielle and Celeste for an honest conversation about sex, intimacy, relationships and everything we wish we’d been taught growing up. We discuss: ✨ How to boost your libido naturally ✨ The biggest gaps in sex education ✨ How religion can impact sex and relationships ✨ First-time experiences and sexual confidence ✨ Love, intimacy and emotional connection ✨ Behind the scenes of Channel 4’s Virgin Island ✨ Common relationship struggles people face today ✨ The pressure society places on sex and dating Whether you’re looking to improve your relationship, understand your sexuality better, increase intimacy, or simply enjoy open conversations about sex, this episode is packed with expert insights and practical advice. 🎙️ Listen to Under The Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn and Friends on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and wherever you get your podcasts.

In this conversation, Lauren shares her story — one marked by pain, survival, strength, and the kind of honesty that takes your breath away. We talk about the hidden patterns of abuse: how easy it is to get caught in them, how hard it is to leave, and how those experiences leave lasting marks on our hearts, our relationships, and our sense of self. Lauren speaks with such bravery about the moments that broke her, the red flags she missed, and the fight to trust herself again all whilst having two gorgeous children. We also open up about the everyday realities of healing — from the messiness of modern dating to the unsolicited messages no one asks for — and how difficult it can be to feel whole again after you've been silenced or shamed. This conversation is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck, questioned their worth, or needed a reminder that healing is possible — and that you are never alone. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Neemah pulled up to the pod like a Honda Jazz in sport mode. From first-time sex to getting kinky in the bushes, and the delicate art of dating someone with a child—plus a light touch of daddy issues and a not-so-light touch of breeding kink. We talk about the finer things in life; Tinder hook-ups, post-nut clarity, sacrificing morals for money, cheating (is it ever really wrong?), commitment issues, and the dreaded pokey bum moment. Neemah reveals all but I think I revealed more. It was the best catching up with Neemah, messy, funny, and completely unhinged - tea time, if someone had slipped in a double shot of tequila.

In this episode, we sit down with BlindTobes—disability advocate, content creator, and blind footballer—to talk about life, love, and breaking down misconceptions.From navigating relationships as a blind person to the worst dates imaginable, we get real about the challenges, the funny moments, and the unexpected joys. We also dive into relationship advice, the realities of dating with a disability, and the tough but important conversation around sexual assault.This one’s honest, and packed with insight—because relationships are already tricky, and sight is definitely not the only thing that matters.You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of unexpected entrepreneurship with Tom, the man who turned lockdown boredom into a booming business—handcrafting branding spanking paddles (yes, literally). What started as making kitchen tops quickly pivoted into the pleasure industry, proving that necessity (or maybe just curiosity) is the mother of invention. We talk about his "permitted" relationship with a married woman, the filthy truth about Midlanders and Americans, and whether he really should have just embraced a career in the sex industry outright. Does sex have to be amazing to make a relationship work? Bum and boob advice from a man who knows his way around both. And, of course, the unforgettable moment: "I’m being eaten alive." Buckle up (or, you know, bend over) for a wild, no-holds-barred conversation about relationships, business, and the fine line between DIY and BDSM.

In this wild interview, I finally sit down with horse stunt double Franki Hackett, about life behind the cameras. From the chaos of balancing industry standards with young motherhood  & relationships to hilarious and cringe-worthy tales of bad sex, blowjob techniques, and asthma attacks in all the wrong moments, Franki tells it like it is. Including the big question - if you have too much anal does that mean your fart would just be silent air?We dive into the wild world of sex parties, to break beds just because we can, and what it’s like navigating life as a young parent while performing jaw-dropping stunts on horseback and becoming an independent Wonder Woman. It’s raw, funny, and absolutely unforgettable—just like Franki herself or should I say ’Unpredictable, Rough & Slightly Salty’If you’re ready for the perfect mix of jaw-dropping industry stories, laugh-out-loud moments, and some very candid advice, and a furry visitor, hit play now.

Buckle up for an episode that's hotter than a firehouse kitchen! Join Minty, the ex-firefighter and my local pub mate, as we dive into everything from the absurd to the insightful. Backdoor fun & bendy bowels, with a side of colonoscopy, banjo string rips & nurses. We talk fire service life, workplace shenanigans, and even navigating post-separation family dynamics. It’s a laugh riot that covers all the wild topics you didn’t know you needed in your life. Trust me, this one's a must-watch! 

In this special episode, recorded in Zoë’s bedroom in New Zealand. Zoë is a passionate advocate for sex positivity. Zoë shares her journey through various aspects of modern intimacy and personal growth. We discuss her struggles with birth control and the complete loss of her sex drive, and the pressures of dating in today's society. Zoë sheds light on living with PMD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) and her decision on sexuality and whether she will head into the non-monogamy route. She emphasises her principle of "only sleep with people who will work with me," highlighting the importance of mutual effort and respect in intimate connections. Zoë also explores how sex therapy has helped her reclaim her sexual health and confidence, and shares her journey to finding new ways to enjoy life despite the challenges she has faced. Join us for a raw and enlightening conversation with Zoë, filled with heartfelt stories, practical advice, and empowering insights into sex, dating, and self-discovery. Zoë it is a pleasure to have met you and to have you in bed. You have opened my eyes to more possibilities and has truly helped navigate was sex means to me.  You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.