Fresh Start Family Show

What if your reactivity isn’t a character flaw… but a program you can actually rewrite? In this fascinating and deeply hopeful conversation, Wendy sits down with board-certified hypnotist Penny Chiasson to explore how hypnosis can help parents break painful generational cycles and finally respond the way they want to, not just react on autopilot. Penny shares her powerful personal story, from a high-achieving medical career to a life-altering mental health crisis that ultimately led her to discover the profound healing potential of hypnosis. Together, she and Wendy unpack why so many parents feel “out of control” in triggering moments, and how those reactions are often rooted in subconscious patterns formed long ago. This episode offers a grounded, approachable look at hypnosis (no, it’s not scary or mind control), along with practical tools parents can start using right away to calm their nervous systems and create real, lasting change. If you’ve ever thought, “Why do I keep reacting this way when I know better?”… this conversation will feel like a lightbulb moment. ➡️ Head to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.freshstartfamilyonline.com/327 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more info and links. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📕 Grab your copy of Fresh Start Your Family: Powerful Parenting to Restore Peace in Your Home today! 🎶 Click here to check out the award winning Pep & Perk’s new album It’s Cool To Be A Kid - music designed to support and celebrate everyday family life, promoting positivity, because after all, it is cool to be a kid. 🌵 Raising a strong-willed cactus kid and need a little help? Grab my FREE 'Cactus Kids Survival Guide' today! ⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You want to grow. You’re reading the books. You’re learning new tools. And your spouse? Not so much. If you’ve ever felt like you’re parenting from two different playbooks under the same roof, this episode is for you. Wendy and Terry share their real-life journey of getting on the same page, what it looked like when one partner led the way, and how connection-based parenting transformed not just their kids, but their marriage. Inside this conversation, you’ll hear: Why one parent often goes first in the growth process How to invite a resistant spouse into learning without control or criticism The truth about “gentle” parenting and why firm-and-kind is not permissive How fathers especially benefit from prioritizing relationship What it really means to end generational cycles If you’re longing for unity, deeper connection, and less tension around discipline, there is a path forward, even if you feel like you’re walking it alone right now. ➡️ Head to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.freshstartfamilyonline.com/311⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more info and links. 🌵 Raising a strong-willed cactus kid and need a little help? Grab my FREE 'Cactus Kids Survival Guide' today! ⁠⁠https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/cactus⁠⁠ ☀️ Ready for a weekend to refill your soul, reset your peace, and transform your home? You can still grab your ticket to Freedom to Be - March 14-15th, in sunny San Diego, CA . Use the code FREEDOM for $150 off your ticket at checkout! ⁠⁠https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/freedom⁠⁠ 📕 Pre-order your copy of Fresh Start Your Family: Powerful Parenting to Restore Peace in Your Home and claim your FREE Bonuses! ⁠⁠⁠https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/preorder⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What if nurturing a healthy, shame-free sex life could actually help us become calmer, more patient parents? In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Wendy Snyder is joined by Christian sex educator Carlie Palmer-Webb to explore the powerful connection between intimacy, nervous system regulation, and the way we show up for our families. Together, they unpack how harmful purity culture messages have left many adults disconnected from their bodies, their desire, and their sense of safety, and how healing our relationship with sex can ripple outward into our marriages and parenting. Carlie shares her personal journey growing up in purity culture, why so many women struggle with shame, pain, or obligation around sex, and how education, compassion, and curiosity can open the door to truly connected intimacy. Wendy reflects on how emotional and physical connection in marriage fuels patience, regulation, and resilience at home, especially for parents working hard to break generational cycles. This episode is a validating, hopeful invitation for couples to reclaim intimacy as something life-giving, empowering, and deeply supportive of the family legacy they’re building. ➡️ Head to ⁠⁠⁠https://www.freshstartfamilyonline.com/309⁠⁠⁠ for more info and links. 🌵 Raising a strong-willed cactus kid and need a little help? Grab my FREE 'Cactus Kids Survival Guide' today! https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/cactus ☀️ Ready for a weekend to refill your soul, reset your peace, and transform your home? You can still grab your ticket to Freedom to Be - March 14-15th, in sunny San Diego, CA . Use the code FREEDOM for $150 off your ticket at checkout! https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/freedom 📕 Pre-order your copy of Fresh Start Your Family: Powerful Parenting to Restore Peace in Your Home and claim your FREE Bonuses! ⁠https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/preorder⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Threats might feel like they work in the moment, but they quietly erode trust, connection, and long-term cooperation. In this episode, Wendy and Terry break down why threats, bribes, and countdowns keep families stuck in power struggles, and what to do instead. They explore the difference between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation, why so many of us default to control without realizing it, and how a simple shift in language and leadership can completely change the tone of your home. You’ll learn Wendy’s favorite strategy for replacing threats with firm, kind guidance that actually teaches self-control, builds respect, and supports your child’s inner motivation, without fear, shame, or endless battles. A must-listen for parents who want calmer days now and stronger relationships long-term. Head to ⁠https://www.freshstartfamilyonline.com/307⁠ for more info and links. 🌟 Save your seat for the⁠ Empowered Parenting Reset workshop⁠ happening Jan 28th! 🗺 The Firm & Kind Parenting Blueprint is your step by step plan & video training to help you build the family of your dreams. Click here to learn more! 👉⁠⁠⁠⁠https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/firmandkind ⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of The Fresh Start Family Show, Wendy invites parents into a powerful reset, one that goes far beyond New Year’s resolutions. She explores how fresh starts are created through intention, nervous system safety, and the courage to imagine something better for your family. Wendy unpacks why misbehavior is often a signal, not a problem, and how breaking generational cycles begins with understanding what’s happening beneath the surface, for both parents and kids. You’ll hear how collective energy, community support, and regulation-first parenting can help you move from reactive patterns into more peace, joy, and connection at home. This episode is a grounding, hopeful reminder that it’s never too late to rewire old habits, rebuild trust, and create family dynamics that truly feel good. If you’re ready to reset your parenting approach and start the year with clarity and confidence, this conversation will meet you right where you are. Head to https://www.freshstartfamilyonline.com/305 for more info and guest links. 📆 Save the date for my FREE workshop - The Empowered Parenting Reset - happening January 28. Mark your calendar bc you're not going to want to miss this... 📕Grab my FREE Quick Start Learning Bundle & discover 3 secrets to empower, connect, and build true collaboration with your strong-willed child! Head here to learn more! 👉https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/thrive 🗺 The Firm & Kind Parenting Blueprint is your step by step plan & video training to help you build the family of your dreams. Click here to learn more! 👉⁠⁠https://freshstartfamilyonline.com/firmandkind ⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices