356: Is Wanting More Making You Miserable?

About this episode

In this episode, Yami Cazorla-Lancaster explores the emotional tension between wanting more and being content, reflecting on personal struggles and the nature of desire.

In this deeply personal episode, I explore one of the biggest emotional tensions many of us face: Can you want more without becoming unhappy? After a powerful conversation with one of my program members, I found myself reflecting on something I’ve wrestled with my entire life — the tension between contentment and desire . Is wanting more a beautiful part of being human? Or is it the very thing making us miserable? We explore the fear behind dreaming bigger, why many people avoid aspirational thinking, and how the desire for “contentment” can sometimes become a form of self-protection. I also share my own personal struggle — from my longing for a dream home to navigating competing desires in marriage, finances, and identity — and what I’m learning about balancing gratitude with growth. This episode is for anyone who has ever wondered: Am I ungrateful for wanting more? Because maybe wanting more doesn’t make you selfish. Maybe it makes you human. Disclaimer The information on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not meant to replace careful evaluation and treatment. If you have concerns about your health or well-being, please consult a healthcare…

People in this episode

Host: Yami Cazorla-Lancaster

Topics covered

• contentment
• desire
• emotional tension
• self-improvement
• aspirational thinking

Keywords

• wanting more
• contentment
• emotional conflict
• self-protection
• aspirational thinking

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