Connection Is a Contact Sport. Here's How to Play It. (Step 5 of 7)

About this episode

In this episode, Adam and Jess discuss the importance of genuine connection in scaling a coaching business and outline actionable steps to achieve it.

You've defined your payoff. You know your math. You've identified your audience. You've picked your channel. Now what? Now you actually talk to people. This is Step 5 in our 7-part series on scaling your coaching business from one-to-one to one-to-many. And this is the step most coaches skip entirely, or confuse with selling. Connection is not selling. It is not coaching in the DMs. It is the contact sport that happens before any of that, and if it's not in your calendar, it's not happening. In this episode, Adam and Jess break down what real connection looks like, why active and passive approaches both work depending on who you are, and why the same tactics that filled your one-to-one roster will not fill a group. What You'll Learn Why connection is Step 5 and not Step 2, and what goes wrong when coaches invert the order The difference between active connection (DMs, texts, outreach) and passive connection (email nurture, stages, podcasts) and why both are valid Why you should never sell or coach in the DMs during the connection phase How Jess grew her email list by 20% in a week and a half with two lead magnets and what that means for connection at scale Why 60-80% email open…

Topics covered

• connection
• coaching
• business growth
• audience engagement

Keywords

• scaling
• one-to-many
• active connection
• passive connection
• email marketing

Mentioned in this episode

Products: lead magnets, email nurture sequences

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