Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t ...
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On the show
- Sam28 eps
- Sierra26 eps
- Sierra DeMulder23 eps
Also: Sam Blackwell
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- 🇲🇾MY · Mental Health#812K to 151K
- 🇳🇬NG · Mental Health#471.4K to 17K
- 🇸🇬SG · Mental Health#60590 to 7.2K
- 🇵🇭PH · Mental Health#94475 to 5.8K
- 🇬🇷GR · Mental Health#73306 to 3.7K
- Per-Episode Audience
Est. listeners per new episode within ~30 days
16K to 196K🎙 Weekly cadence·792 episodes·Last published yesterday - Monthly Reach
Unique listeners across all episodes (30 days)
32K to 392K🇺🇸71%🇲🇾22%🇳🇬2%+5 more - Active Followers
Loyal subscribers who consistently listen
18K to 216K
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 10/28/26 | Episode 780: I'm Dating A Couple That Call Each Other Names | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't like how her partners talk to each other Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 25m 47s | ||||||
| 10/26/26 | Episode 779: My Partner of 3 Years Still Isn't Out | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner isn't ready to post her on main Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 33m 13s | ||||||
| 10/16/26 | Episode 778: There Is A Future Without This Love | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who just can't imagine a life without their ex Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 32m 16s | ||||||
| 10/12/26 | Episode 777: Grateful For One Safe Man When So Many Aren't | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to thank the man who kept her safe ten years ago Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 41m 33s | ||||||
| 10/9/26 | Episode 776: Russian Nesting Dolls of Shame | In this Patreon episode we're releasing on the main feed, Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling renewed shame about something terrible that happened to her and her friend Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 40m 08s | ||||||
| 10/7/26 | Episode 775: Dating While Caring for a Dying Parent | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is having trouble sticking to her relationship when her father is dying Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 35m 24s | ||||||
| 10/5/26 | Episode 774: How Do I Live in a Body I’m Angry With? | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to be in her body while also trying to conceive Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 35m 50s | ||||||
| 10/2/26 | Episode 773: You Don't Have to Move On to Move Forward | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to know if he's still grieving or simply stuck Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 32m 41s | ||||||
| 9/30/26 | Episode 772: My Fiancé Is in Couples Therapy With Her Best Friend…Who Hates Me | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner's best friend maybe hates her Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 28m 13s | ||||||
| 9/28/26 | Episode 771: My Ex's Mom Texted Me to Get Her Gifts Back | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who stayed friends with their ex's mom and it got weird Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 28m 26s | ||||||
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| 9/25/26 | Episode 770: I Fear I'll Be This Lonely Forever | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she'll every have a close community again after the death of her best friend Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 33m 27s | ||||||
| 9/23/26 | Episode 769: How Long Do I Wait for My Partner to Change? | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner's anger continues to be an issue Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 31m 57s | ||||||
| 9/21/26 | Episode 768: My Boyfriend of 3 Years Won't Introduce Me to His Mom | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if her boyfriend is living a double life Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 38m 17s | ||||||
| 9/18/26 | Episode 767: Don't Just Stay Because It Feels Easier | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't make her break up stick Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 30m 19s | ||||||
| 9/16/26 | Episode 766: What's Actually Under All My Relationship Anxiety? | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is really anxious about the relationship escalator Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 31m 12s | ||||||
| 9/14/26 | Episode 765: Advice For a Newly Single Baby Gay Pollywog | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to explore their sexuality after a 7-year relationship Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 23m 24s | ||||||
| 9/11/26 | Episode 764: We're Back Together But He Won’t Tell His Parents | Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is stuck between "relationships take work" and "the right person will make it feel easy" Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices | 38m 16s | ||||||
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| 7/10/26 | compassionself-abandonment+3 | — | Patreonjustbreakuppod.com+1 | — | compassionself-abandonment+3 | — | 36m 34s | ||
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Chart history for Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Peaked at #8 in MY, top 10 in 1 of 11 tracked markets, currently #8 in MY.
| Market | Genre | Peak | Current | Trend |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| MY | — | #8 | #8 | — |
| MY | — | #19 | #19 | — |
| NG | — | #47 | #47 | — |
| SG | — | #60 | #60 | — |
| GR | — | #73 | #73 | — |
| HK | — | #87 | #87 | — |
| PH | — | #94 | #94 | — |
| CL | — | #99 | #99 | — |
| NG | — | #105 | #105 | — |
| KE | — | #112 | #112 | — |
| VN | — | #125 | #125 | — |
Chart Positions
11 placements across 9 markets.
Chart Positions
11 placements across 9 markets.