Episode 38: The Secret to Getting People to Change

About this episode

Wendy shares the secret to getting people to change, emphasizing that real change starts with oneself.

In this episode, I’m sharing the real secret to getting people to change and it might not be what you expect. For years, I believed that if the people in my life would just act differently, everything would feel easier. I spent so much time blaming my circumstances, my relationships, and other people for how I felt without realizing how much power I was giving away. Through my own personal growth journey and life coaching tools, I learned that real change starts with me. When I stopped trying...

Topics covered

• change
• personal growth
• life coaching

Keywords

• self-improvement
• relationships
• power

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