Quick Spoon: “I’m just…”: the language that shrinks how we show up

Quick Spoon: “I’m just…”: the language that shrinks how we show up

From People Soup by People Soup

April 21, 2026 · 1 min · Season 7 · Episode 12

About this episode

This episode explores how the phrase 'I’m just...' can minimize self-worth and influence behavior in the workplace.

“I’m just…” It’s a phrase that shows up in many workplaces — often without much thought. But this seemingly small piece of language can have a significant impact. In this Quick Spoon , Ross explores how the word “just” can subtly shape behaviour, influencing how people contribute, communicate, and see their own value at work. When people describe themselves as “just” something, they can unintentionally minimise their role — speaking up less, holding back ideas, and second guessing their contribution. Over time, these small patterns can reinforce limiting beliefs about what someone is capable of. But the reality is: Everyone is already influencing something. Everyone is already shaping the culture around them. What This Episode Explores The hidden impact of the phrase “I’m just…” How language shapes behaviour at work Why people may undervalue their contribution The link between identity and action A simple reflection to build awareness Key Idea The language we use about ourselves can shape how we show up — often without us realising. Reflection Where are you saying “I’m just…”? People Soup: Real conversations about work, leadership, and being human — grounded in behavioural…

People in this episode

Host: Ross

Topics covered

  • language impact
  • workplace behavior
  • self-perception
  • identity
  • communication

Keywords

  • language
  • workplace
  • self-value
  • communication
  • behavior
  • identity
  • reflection

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