Rebel Momma Pod

🧡 This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/rebelmomma. ---- Sarah welcomes ADHD coach Lisa Alecci back to discuss new insights on ADHD and hormones, including research linking estrogen to dopamine regulation and executive function changes during perimenopause and menopause. They explore how women with ADHD experience greater symptom severity (not more symptoms) during hormonal transitions, and how clinicians are increasingly adjusting treatment during pregnancy, postpartum, and perimenopause. Lisa shares her "sandwich generation" reality—caring for a 92-year-old mother in assisted living while supporting adult children, grandchildren, and running a coaching practice—and explains how constant role-switching, decision fatigue, stress, and depleted emotional reserves can lead to overwhelm. She offers strategies like planning decisions ahead, building transition time, pausing to reflect and choose, recognizing cognitive/emotional/body warning signs, and prioritizing sustainable self-care through saying no, asking for help, simplifying, lowering standards temporarily, consistent medication, and scheduling recovery time. 00:00 Welcome Back Lisa 01:05 Hormones And Dopamine 02:25 Symptoms Get More Severe 03:22 Clinicians Finally Adapt 05:08 Sandwich Generation Life 06:49 Guilt And Overwhelm 09:09 Decide Ahead Of Time 10:56 Context Switching Burnout 13:51 Emotional Regulation Tax 16:10 Stress And Resilience 18:04 Starting Over Again 19:35 Self Compassion Shift 20:05 Decision Fatigue Costs 22:21 Pause Reflect Choose 23:40 Overwhelm Warning Signs 27:06 Irrational Anger Clues 28:47 Real Self Care Tools 33:02 No Done Only Stop 34:46 Acceptance In Phases 35:50 Liminal Space Mindset 36:54 Wrap Up And Connect Connect with Lisa Alecci: adhdfreedom.com | [email protected]

Getting started can feel harder than the work itself—especially when your brain insists on finding the perfect system before you begin. In this episode of Adulting with ADHD, Sarah sits down with Russ Jones, host of the ADHD Big Brother Podcast, to explore what happens when we stop waiting for certainty and start jumping in sloppy instead. Russ shares his late-in-life ADHD diagnosis and how burnout, depression, and the isolation of the pandemic led him to rethink productivity from the inside out. Together, Sarah and Russ unpack why ADHD brains get stuck in planning mode, how perfectionism disguises itself as "research," and why starting imperfectly is often the most compassionate move we can make. This conversation is a grounding reminder that progress doesn't come from flawless systems—it comes from momentum, connection, and designing effort that your nervous system can actually tolerate. In this episode, we explore: Why ADHDers often over-plan instead of starting—and how to interrupt that cycle What "jumping in sloppy" really means (and what it doesn't) How finite effort and timers can reduce anxiety around overwhelming tasks Why quitting is sometimes part of getting started The concept of felt accountability and why other humans make follow-through more likely How community, body doubling, and shared effort reduce shame and isolation Reframing productivity as something we do together, not alone Russ also shares the heart behind his ADHD Big Brother approach—why guidance works better when it feels like support instead of authority, and how small, human-scale systems can help us finally tackle the tasks we've been avoiding. If you've ever told yourself, "I know me—this won't work," this episode gently challenges that belief and offers a more hopeful alternative: start where you are, start imperfectly, and don't do it alone. 🔗 Connect with Russ Jones Website: www.adhdbigbrother.com

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Natalia Aza, a licensed therapist and co-founder of Kairos Wellness Collective, discusses the overlap between ADHD and OCD. Natalia shares her personal journey with ADHD and OCD, the importance of proper diagnosis, and the specific treatments for OCD. She highlights the challenges of misdiagnosis and discusses lesser-known OCD presentations that individuals with ADHD might overlook. Highlights Natalia's Journey with ADHD and OCD Understanding the Overlap Between ADHD and OCD Lesser-Known OCD Presentations in ADHD Steps to Take if You Suspect OCD Mentions kairoswellnesscollective.com adhdonline.com/adultingwithadhd

In this episode, ADHD coach Christine Kotik shares her journey to becoming an ADHD coach, discusses the impact of burnout on adults with ADHD and provides actionable steps for managing time, productivity and emotional regulation. The conversation emphasizes the importance of creating supportive environments for neurodivergent employees and implementing strategies that benefit everyone in the workplace. Highlights Understanding burnout in adults with ADHD The concept of the 'Me Hat' Supporting neurodivergent employees Mentions www.ckadhdcoach.com http://adhdonline.com/adultingwithadhd 📣 If you enjoy the show, please leave a review wherever you listen to your podcasts.

In this episode of the Adulting with ADHD podcast, host Sky Waterson, an ADHD strategist and founder of Unconventional Organization, shares her journey to an ADHD diagnosis during her PhD. She discusses common prioritization mistakes among ADHD individuals and introduces systems to help ADHD entrepreneurs focus and grow their businesses. Sky emphasizes the importance of personalized systems and the impact of the 80-20 rule in optimizing business operations for ADHD minds. Highlights Skye's ADHD Diagnosis Journey Prioritization Challenges and Solutions ADHD Online Diagnostic Evaluation Effective Systems for ADHD Management The 80/20 Rule for ADHD Entrepreneurs Mentions http://adhdonline.com/adultingwithadhd https://instagram.com/unconventionalorganization

In this episode we are joined by Melissa Orlov, an award-winning author and expert on ADHD and marriage. Melissa shares her journey into the field, practical strategies for couples dealing with ADHD during times of economic volatility, and how to build resilience and maintain connection. Highlights Challenges for ADHD Couples During Tough Times Financial and Emotional Strategies for ADHD Couples Building Resilience and Connection Mentions adhdmarriage.com adhdonline.com/adultingwithadhd

Dr. Luke Smith walks us through how El Futuro, a nonprofit addressing Latino mental health care in North Carolina, advances culturally responsive ADHD support. He shares what culturally responsive care looks like, from philosophy to practice. Listeners gain insights into effective, culturally-attuned approaches for ADHD within a community-centered focus. Highlights How being understood culturally helps clients heal and thrive. Examples of holistic and lifestyle-based ADHD treatment. Examples of common hurdles and real-world nuances in navigating treatment options. Mentions El Futuro - https://elfuturo-nc.org ADHD Online Assessment: adhdonline.com/adultingwithadhd (use promo code ADULTINGADHD40 for $40 off)