
Deborah Mallow and the Gratitude Jar
From Silent Strength with Invisible Warriors by Nancy Becher
December 29, 2025 · 28 min · Episode 242
About this episode
Deborah Mallow shares practical ways to choose happiness and the power of a gratitude jar to retrain the brain towards positivity.
Episode overview In this episode, Deborah Mallow, a motivational speaker and “ray of sunshine,” shares practical ways to choose happiness, interrupt negative thinking, and bring more light into everyday life. A central theme is the power of simple tools—like a gratitude jar—to retrain the brain to notice what is going right instead of what is wrong. About Deborah Mallow Deborah is a positive energy and success coach who helps people shift out of self-sabotage and chronic negativity. She is the author of “6 Steps to Fewer Days That Suck,” where she offers stories, strategies, and science-backed tips for cultivating a more uplifting mindset. Key topics discussed Negativity bias and the brain: How the brain’s ancient focus on problems and danger creates more “bad days” than necessary, and what it takes to interrupt that pattern. Being personally considerate: Treating yourself with the same kindness you offer others and replacing harsh self-talk with more supportive thoughts. Small daily practices: Simple habits—like dancing to a favorite song or using a “make me smile” box—that help your nervous system shift toward calm, joy, and resilience. The gratitude jar practice Deborah…
People in this episode
Guest: Deborah Mallow
Topics covered
- happiness
- negative thinking
- gratitude
- self-sabotage
- mindset
Keywords
- gratitude jar
- negativity bias
- positive energy
- success coach
Mentioned in this episode
Products: 6 Steps to Fewer Days That Suck
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