About this episode
Ellen Huet discusses the dynamics of cults and their parallels in modern business, particularly in Silicon Valley.
In this episode, I'm joined by Ellen Huet – journalist at Bloomberg and author of Empire of Orgasm – for a conversation about power, belonging, and the sometimes blurry line between influence and manipulation. Ellen has spent over a decade covering Silicon Valley – from AI startups to the personalities shaping the industry. Empire of Orgasm explores OneTaste, the sexual wellness company and alleged sex cult. Throughout the book, Ellen also explores the broader question of how high-demand groups actually work. At the center of this book is the uncomfortable idea that cults aren't a binary; they exist on a spectrum. And, as we discuss in depth, many of the dynamics we associate with extreme groups – belonging, shared language, mission-driven work, charismatic leadership – show up in everyday organizations more than we'd like to admit. We talk about what she learned reporting on OneTaste, from the power of social pressure and status to the subtle ways people are influenced without ever being explicitly told what to do. Ellen breaks down how "consent" gets distorted in these environments, and why the ability to freely say "no" is the clearest line between healthy influence and…
People in this episode
Host: Robin Zander
Guest: Ellen Huet
Topics covered
- cults
- influence
- manipulation
- business dynamics
- Silicon Valley
- social pressure
- tech industry
Keywords
- cults
- influence
- manipulation
- OneTaste
- Empire of Orgasm
- Silicon Valley
- social pressure
- tech
- AI
- business
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: Bloomberg, OneTaste, AI
Books & works: Empire of Orgasm
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