The Surprising Power of Oversharing

The Surprising Power of Oversharing

From The Next Big Idea by Next Big Idea Club

March 26, 2026 · 1h 12m

About this episode

Leslie John discusses the benefits of oversharing and its role in building trust and relationships.

We’ve been told that “oversharing” (TMI) is a social sin. But our guest today, Leslie John, who teaches at Harvard Business School, argues that TLI (Too Little Information) is far more dangerous. In her new book, Revealing: The Underrated Power of Oversharing, she shows how personal, vulnerable, even uncomfortable disclosures are the wellspring of trust, friendship, romance, and professional success. Watch The Next Big Idea on YouTube! You can find our episodes ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow Rufus on ⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠, subscribe to our ⁠⁠⁠Substack⁠⁠⁠, or send us an email at ⁠podcast@nextbigideaclub.com⁠. We love getting fan mail. Sponsored By: Fabric — Join the thousands of parents who trust Fabric to help protect their family at ⁠⁠meetfabric.com/nbi⁠⁠ Factor — Head to ⁠⁠⁠factormeals.com/idea50off⁠⁠⁠ and use code idea50off to get 50% off your first box Granola — Get three months free at ⁠⁠granola.ai/idea⁠⁠ Shopify — Start your $1/month trial at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shopify.com/nbi⁠⁠⁠⁠

People in this episode

Host: Rufus

Guest: Leslie John

Topics covered

  • oversharing
  • trust
  • vulnerability
  • social dynamics
  • professional success

Keywords

  • oversharing
  • TMI
  • TLI
  • trust
  • friendship
  • romance
  • professional success

Sponsors

Fabric, Factor, Granola, Shopify

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Harvard Business School

Books & works: Revealing: The Underrated Power of Oversharing

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