100 - How to Know When People Are Safe - How do we know when to trust people? Let's dig in.
From The Patrauma Party - Heal from trauma, improve self worth, and learn to love yourself, dammit by Remy Ramirez - Your Trauma Bestie™️
January 31, 2026 · 29 min
About this episode
The episode discusses how to identify unsafe people and the signs to look for in relationships.
Unsafe people aren't going to walk up to you and tell you they're unsafe. But there are lots of signs if you know what to look for. Unfortunately, many of us had that internal alarm system groomed out of us as kids so that we could survive our unsafe parents and caregivers, and we literally don't know what to look for. Until now. TW: This episode talks about acts of violence ICE has enacted on Americans. Want to work with Remy? Go here . Email: patraumaparty@gmail.com Find us on: Instagram TikTok The contents of this podcast are provided for informational purposes only. None of the material presented is intended to be a substitute for psychotherapy, counseling, professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you need to speak with a professional, you can find one local to you and reach out directly, or, in the US, you can call 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Hotline.
People in this episode
Host: Remy Ramirez
Topics covered
- trust
- safety
- trauma
- self-awareness
- relationships
Keywords
- trust issues
- unsafe people
- trauma recovery
- self-worth
- relationship safety
Mentioned in this episode
Organizations: ICE, Suicide & Crisis Hotline
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