Divorce Mediation 101: Costs, Timeline, and Common Mistakes

About this episode

In this episode, Ksenia Muench discusses the ins and outs of divorce mediation with expert Amanda Singer, focusing on costs, timelines, and common pitfalls.

On this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered , I sit down with Amanda Singer, a professional family mediator and founder of West Coast Family Mediation, who helps couples navigate divorce in a collaborative and amicable way. We talk about why you don’t need to be friends to negotiate a fair settlement or finalize a divorce without draining your bank account—or your emotional well-being. Even if you don’t get along, there are ways to mediate successfully when you have the right mediator and the right support. Key Topics Covered: What mediation is—and how it differs from litigation Who mediation is right for (and when it’s not the best fit) The typical timeline for the mediation process Why mediation can get tricky and how an experienced mediator helps get things unstuck The role and importance of a consultative attorney The most common sticking points in mediation and why they arise Separation date vs. filing date—and why the distinction matters What to do (and what not to do) before entering mediation Divorce coaches and CDFAs as part of the divorce ecosystem How to choose the right mediator for your situation “With mediation, you have a mediator who works as a neutral third…

People in this episode

Host: Ksenia Muench

Guest: Amanda Singer

Topics covered

• Divorce mediation
• Costs of mediation
• Timeline for mediation
• Common mistakes in mediation
• Collaborative divorce

Keywords

• family mediation
• amicable divorce
• negotiation
• emotional well-being

Mentioned in this episode

Products: Prime

Books & works: Uncoupled and Unfiltered

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