We Were Fighting Before This
Welcome to We Were Fighting Before This: a podcast hosted by Disguised Toast and Yvonnie where these two best friends bicker, banter, and battle it out over both everything and nothing. It’s unfiltered, unhinged, and une...
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- Chelsea4 eps
- Yvonne1 ep
- Lilypichu1 ep
Also: Scarra, Nate, Leslie Fu, Nate Fu
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- 🇷🇴RO · Comedy#725.3K to 64K
- 🇵🇭PH · Comedy#1253.3K to 40K
- 🇰🇪KE · Comedy#852.9K to 35K
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11K to 140K🎙 ~2x weekly·62 episodes·Last published 4d ago - Monthly Reach
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23K to 280K🇺🇸71%🇷🇴13%🇵🇭8%+1 more - Active Followers
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13K to 154K
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 10/24/26 | Is it ok to ask your friends for money? | EP 68 | We Were Fighting Before This | Pickleball recap, dealing with haters, and should you let friends borrow money? Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Pickleball video thoughts 15:35 Dealing w/ online stalkers 20:21 Being hyper aware as a woman 22:24 Getting pepper sprayed 24:30 Riding in Ubers by yourself 26:11 Yvonne’s Ultrasound appointment 29:25 Seeing yourself in the mirror 31:16 Asking a friend for money 32:10 Toast lending a friend money 36:54 Why Toast pays in group settings 39:11 Why Toast is pissed at his friends 41:20 The Vegas dinner re-explained 45:46 Toast getting upset with an employee 47:35 Calgary trip 49:50 What would happen if Toast did nothing 51:55 Chelsea’s Miami trip 53:57 Toast’s autistic comments 55:32 Women paying for men 1:02:10 Toast’s dating experience with $ 1:07:03 High value man? High value woman? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 14m 45s | ||||||
| 10/15/26 | We're setting Yvonne up on a blind date | EP 67 | We Were Fighting Before This | The big 6 7 episode is here... Timestamps: 00:00 EPISODE 6 7 1:01 Yvonne’s bday! 3:50 Happier in your 30’s or 20’s? 4:55 Yvonne’s bday present prank 8:10 Scarra’s bday present for Yvonne 10:05 Congrats to DSG! 11:44 Getting affected by comments 13:15 Life of esports player 16:45 Yvonne’s NFL trip 19:40 Reflecting on the bro podcast 21:27 Thoughts on Nate 22:50 Chelsea calls out Nate 24:03 Dissecting Chelsea 28:55 Who’s the biggest ragebaiter in OTV 30:20 How Yvonne feels deals with Toast 32:10 Did Scarra cross the line? 35:01 Crossing the line with friends 37:45 Toast judges Chelsea 40:21 WWFBT book club? 43:35 Raw dogging activities 46:01 Taking business vs first class 49:10 Pickleball video coming soon! 53:16 Blind dating for Yvonne! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 01m 28s | ||||||
| 10/8/26 | THE BRO EPISODE ft.Toast, Scarra & Nate | EP 66 | We Were Fighting Before This | The boys take over! A full episode of Toast and Scarra and Nate chatting about life and it's changes and challenges. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 1:35 Male friendships 6:01 Men and sports 8:28 DSG wins in Riftbound! 12:01 Toast and Scarra’s thoughts about events 15:12 Scarra’s favorite thing about Chelsea 16:40 Toast “celebrates” Chelsea 21:03 The boys thoughts on Yvonne…. 21:22 Why is Chelsea stressed 23:43 Reading mean comments 24:45 Toast’s thoughts on being alone 25:55 Growing up as a man 27:30 Living alone and being ok being alone 32:45 Benefits of being dragged out 34:15 It’s hard to ask for help 37:45 Leaving the door open for others 39:00 Scarra doesn’t ask Toast to hangout 42:44 Being thankful for hangouts 44:47 Trauma dumping on strangers 49:42 You can tell when your friends are struggling 51:00 The Knicks game breakup 54:02 Validating someone’s feelings 56:30 Are men jealous of other men 58:45 Yvonne’s friends that she invites 1:00:35 Toast recognizes he’s hard on Yvonne 1:06:39 Toast wants to be alone but he still cares 1:09:22 Is Leslie and Nate extroverted? 1:12:30 The art of putting together a content friend group 1:17:00 Finding the right balance between friends 1:19:45 Would Chelsea and Toast be friends on the outside? 1:20:10 Chelsea and her brother 1:21:45 Pickleball video coming up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 29m 49s | ||||||
| 10/1/26 | Hookup mistakes you should never make | EP 65 | We Were Fighting Before This | Toast is back in town and we have a lot to catch up on... Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 1:01 Toast is back in town 4:36 Is life different without Toast? 9:15 Yvonne’s apartment is cozy 10:10 Is Yvonne family? 11:47 Yvonne questions Toast… 13:03 Toast doesn’t want Chelsea to help him 15:05 Chelsea’s HOT questions for Toast 17:36 Is Yvonne an ally to men? 22:02 How many times have we hooked up 24:44 Yvonne lists five men she respects 25:30 Has Yvonne ever helped out Toast 29:25 Setting boundaries with fans 32:05 How can Yvonne celebrate Toast more 33:21 AAPI months thoughts 36:00 Toast can’t make it to Yvonne’s BDAY 38:20 Why do asians go to raves? 43:12 Toast and Scarra have the same bday 45:32 Introvert vs Extrovert personalities 46:45 Eating alone at a restaurant 49:50 Chelsea’s alone alot 51:16 Toast likes to sleep on the floor ALONE 54:50 Sleeping in separate rooms 56:34 Who has the higher social battery? 1:01:00 Toast hasn't made a new friend 1:03:21 Chelsea has a friend for Toast 1:05:51 Yvonne’s first date ettiequte 1:08:34 Google-ing Yvonne on the first date 1:10:41 How much $ would it take to be a stay at home mom/dad 1:17:55 Leaving mean comments online 1:20:13 Who’s ragebaiting who?? 1:22:30 Playing your attractive cards 1:23:27 Flexing your car Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 33m 37s | ||||||
| 9/24/26 | How Yvonne went on an accidental date | EP 64 | We Were Fighting Before This | Yvonne's accidental date might have been a blessing in disguise... This week, Toast forces the pod to play pickleball, stay tuned... Thanks to our Sponsors: Sign up for your free trial at https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00 intro 1:13 The podcast lives on 3:01 Toast thinks Yvonne is going through it 4:28 Does Toast have friends for Yvonne? 5:50 Guys going for the same girl… 8:03 Yvonne and Leslie hypotheticals 11:00 Can a woman or man be bumped up to a 10 12:01 Rewatching older clips 13:20 Chelsea reviews if she is biased 16:35 Fighting women on a public platform 19:22 Fighting men on a public platform 21:42 Yvonne’s rude date 25:02 Creators feeling privileged 27:11 Being direct 30:28 Chelsea’s animation friend 31:33 Who’s the funniest OTV member 37:40 What Toast is consuming these days 38:52 Peak OTV days 40:20 Creative rut 44:45 Predicting life 45:55 Toast wants to play pickleball 48:44 Toast comments on Yvonnes weight 53:10 Yvonne’s been working out! 55:04 Chelsea invites Scarra to play pickleball… 57:20 Tune in when we all play pickleball… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 03m 45s | ||||||
| 9/17/26 | Toast is being squished into a little ball again | EP 63 | We Were Fighting Before This | The trio is back together and Toast and Yvonne need to address the past couple of episodes... Timestamps: 00:17 Intro 1:04 Singapore trip + tournament drama7:06 Is AI more accepted in Asia?8:32 Toast’s mom watches the podcast9:24 Is Toast being “squished into a ball”?10:38 Does Toast need more backup?12:56 Toast admits to rage baiting15:04 How Toast & Yvonne handle tension18:23 Chelsea is scared of the YouTube comments20:05 Nate is secretly rage baiting??21:11 Content creators vs pro gamers24:22 Toast's Collab with Yunjin28:50 OTV x SB19 Fear Pong34:25 Team Toast vs Team Yvonne in Singapore36:28 Pickleball + badminton in Singapore37:37 Traveling with Toast’s mom38:58 What relationships have taught us50:21 Dating app openers 51:48 Our upcoming blind dating episode…53:44 Has the podcast affected our relationships?57:02 Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 01m 45s | ||||||
| 9/10/26 | Chelsea’s master plan for Scarra’s dating life | EP 62 | We Were Fighting Before This | Scarra and Chelsea are back together for round 2! This time Chelsea needs answers. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:45 Scarra’s here!! Again… 2:18 Are Chelsea and Scarra friends now? 3:10 Getting Scarra to play tennis 5:32 Chelsea on the courts… 7:30 How Scarra REALLY felt playing tennis again 16:04 Being a tennis influencer… 18:17 Updates on Scarra’s dating life 20:12 When did Scarra know he was straight 21:45 Female allies 25:55 Is Chelsea an ally to Scarra? 29:43 Chelsea proposes a NEW friend! 32:27 Are streamers socially awkward? 34:15 Scarra loves pickleball 37:28 Finding Scarra’s perfect woman 49:00 Scarra doesn’t think Yvonne is a pro gamer 53:12 Intelligent dream woman? 54:25 Paying your therapist to laugh 55:10 Having a close family 1:01:25 Complimenting a guy 1:05:48 Chelsea is here to help Scarra 1:10:27 Toast and Scarra’s relationship 1:14:31 Why Chelsea became friends with Scarra 1:21:20 Fakefans is back! 1:24:20 The don and the diva… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices | 1h 36m 06s | ||||||
| 9/3/26 | sibling reunionstreaming+5 | Leslie FuNate Fu | OTVHyperX | — | sibling reunionstreaming+5 | — | 1h 20m 08s | ||
| 8/27/26 | streamerspurchases+4 | — | OTVNetflix Avatar the Airbender | — | streamersBrawl Stars+4 | — | 1h 17m 14s | ||
| 8/20/26 | datinggaming+3 | Chelsea | AndroidLove is Blind | — | dating gamegaming anxiety+3 | — | 58m 05s | ||
| 8/13/26 | cheatingdating+4 | — | Studio71 | — | cheatingdating+5 | — | 58m 45s | ||
| 8/6/26 | dating standardspersonal experiences+3 | — | — | — | datingstandards+5 | Shopifybeforethis | 56m 46s | ||
| 7/30/26 | datingfriendship+3 | Chelsea | — | — | ScarraChelsea+3 | — | 1h 28m 26s | ||
| 7/23/26 | Streamer UniversityValorant+4 | — | pickleballStreamer University+1 | — | Streamer UniversityValorant+5 | — | 58m 52s | ||
| 7/16/26 | rumorsfriendship+4 | — | — | — | dating rumorsCalgary trip+4 | SHOPIFYbeforethis | 55m 12s | ||
| 7/9/26 | gender dynamicsrelationships+4 | — | Love IslandMarvel | — | genderrelationships+5 | — | 1h 01m 59s | ||
| 7/2/26 | familyreconnection+3 | — | Mecca Chameleon | — | Yvonnedad+5 | — | 58m 34s | ||
| 6/25/26 | content creationgaming+4 | — | OTV100 Thieves | — | OTV100 Thieves+5 | — | 1h 00m 05s | ||
| 6/18/26 | spicy chip challengesports betting+3 | — | KnicksRichmond night market | — | spicy chip50 episodes+3 | — | 1h 05m 49s | ||
| 6/11/26 | pickleballgender dynamics+4 | — | — | — | pickleballgender+5 | — | 1h 05m 06s | ||
| 6/4/26 | 2v1 dynamicAsian Canadian identity+4 | Chelsea | FOBOTV | VancouverVegas | 2v1Chelsea+5 | — | 1h 25m 42s | ||
| 5/28/26 | war moviesself-image+3 | — | — | — | war moviesself-image+3 | — | 1h 27m 09s | ||
| 5/21/26 | datingrelationships+3 | — | — | — | datingrelationships+5 | Shopifybeforethis | 59m 19s | ||
| 5/14/26 | friendshipcompliments+4 | Nate | — | — | friendshipcompliments+5 | — | 1h 32m 39s | ||
| 5/7/26 | revengefriendship+3 | YvonneChelsea | America’s Next Top ModelStudio71 | — | revenge planmind games+3 | — | 1h 00m 29s | ||
| 4/30/26 | Sykkuno dramalife advice+3 | — | — | — | Sykkunodrama+4 | — | 1h 01m 26s | ||
| 4/23/26 | friendshipimprov+3 | Lilypichu | OTV | — | LilypichuYvonne+5 | — | 1h 04m 22s | ||
| 4/16/26 | swattinginternet culture+5 | — | — | — | swattedreddit accounts+5 | — | 58m 45s | ||
| 4/9/26 | friendshiprelationships+5 | — | OTV | — | friendshipOnlyFans+5 | — | 1h 07m 53s | ||
| 4/2/26 | datingrelationships+4 | Scarra | — | — | Scarradating+5 | — | 1h 12m 53s | ||
| 3/26/26 | cancellationboxing+4 | — | — | — | cancellationboxing+5 | — | 1h 18m 25s | ||
| 3/12/26 | restaurant controversycelebrity interactions+3 | — | Xpot | — | Xpothotpot+5 | — | 1h 11m 06s | ||
| 3/5/26 | comedyhumor+3 | — | OTV&Friends | — | lesbianhumor+3 | — | 1h 09m 35s | ||
| 2/26/26 | male egoAsian dating culture+3 | — | — | East CoastWest Coast+1 | male egoAsian dating+5 | — | 56m 03s | ||
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Chart history for We Were Fighting Before This
Peaked at #72 in RO, currently #72 in RO.
| Market | Genre | Peak | Current | Trend |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| RO | — | #72 | #72 | — |
| KE | — | #85 | #85 | — |
| PH | — | #125 | #125 | — |
Chart Positions
3 placements across 3 markets.
Chart Positions
3 placements across 3 markets.