Fresh Take: The Custody Queens on What Parents Need to Know About Divorce and Separation

About this episode

Margaret discusses essential insights on divorce and custody with family law attorneys Kristen Holstrom and Samantha McBride.

What should parents know if they're considering divorce? Margaret talks with family law attorneys Kristen Holstrom and Samantha McBride—the hosts of the "Custody Queens" podcast—about custody disputes, co-parenting conflict, child support, digital footprints, and the biggest mistakes people make during separation. Drawing from years of experience in high-conflict custody and divorce cases, Kristen and Samantha explain how family court actually works, why “amicable” divorces can still require strong boundaries, and how parents can protect themselves and their children emotionally, financially, and legally. The conversation covers: Why every custody case is unique—and why Facebook advice can backfire The difference between staying amicable and giving up your rights How courts evaluate custody arrangements and parenting concerns Child support myths, enforcement, and financial responsibility The long-term consequences of social media posts, texts, and digital evidence Why courts care more about safety concerns than personal betrayal Co-parenting with a difficult ex or a new romantic partner in the picture How therapy, documentation, and realistic expectations can reduce conflict…

People in this episode

Hosts: Margaret Ables, Amy Wilson

Guests: Kristen Holstrom, Samantha McBride

Topics covered

• divorce
• custody disputes
• co-parenting
• child support
• family law
• digital footprints
• emotional well-being

Keywords

• divorce
• custody
• co-parenting
• child support
• family court
• digital evidence
• social media
• conflict resolution

Mentioned in this episode

Organizations: Custody Queens

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