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Would You Rather Discover Your Partner's Affair Or...
Jun 24, 2026
54m 36s
Falling in Love With Another...When Open Relationships Expand
May 20, 2026
58m 34s
Are Non-Monogamous People Narcissists?
May 6, 2026
53m 18s
Is Non-Monogamy For You?
Apr 21, 2026
45m 30s
School Principal on Rethinking Family School Relationships - Dr. Sandra Webster.
Apr 9, 2026
55m 00s
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| Date | Episode | Topics | Guests | Brands | Places | Keywords | Sponsor | Length | |
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| 6/24/26 |  Would You Rather Discover Your Partner's Affair Or... | What would you choose if there were no perfect answers?In this return of our Would You Rather series, we explore some confronting relationship dilemmas.Would you rather discover your partner had a passionate year-long affair you never knew about, or have them come to you beforehand and ask for permission to pursue the exact same connection openly?Would you choose the greatest romantic and sexual connection of your life if it only lasted two years, or a loving and stable partnership that never quite feels like your deepest connection?Along the way, we unpack honesty, consent, infidelity, desire, long-term partnership, non-monogamy, family stability, and the complicated ethical questions that emerge when real life collides with our ideals.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack | Youtube This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 54m 36s | ||||||
| 5/20/26 |  Falling in Love With Another...When Open Relationships Expand✨ | non-monogamyopen relationships+5 | — | Evolving Love Project | — | open relationshipsfalling in love+5 | — | 58m 34s | |
| 5/6/26 |  Are Non-Monogamous People Narcissists?✨ | non-monogamynarcissism+4 | — | Evolving Love Project | Yass Valley, New South Wales, Australia | non-monogamousnarcissism+6 | — | 53m 18s | |
| 4/21/26 |  Is Non-Monogamy For You?✨ | non-monogamyrelationships+4 | — | Evolving Love Project | — | non-monogamyrelationships+5 | — | 45m 30s | |
| 4/9/26 |  School Principal on Rethinking Family School Relationships - Dr. Sandra Webster.✨ | family-school relationshipsinclusion+3 | Dr. Sandra Webster | Evolving Love ProjectCreating Family-School Partnerships | — | family-school partnershipsinclusion+3 | — | 55m 00s | |
| 3/24/26 |  The Poly Pile On, Online Trolls & SBS Insight✨ | public relationshipsonline criticism+4 | — | SBSEvolving Love Project | — | public scrutinyjealousy+4 | — | 57m 56s | |
| 3/10/26 |  Beyond the Gender Divide: Rethinking Modern Love✨ | gender discoursemodern love+4 | — | Evolving Love ProjectMarried At First Sight | — | gender dividemodern love+4 | — | 47m 56s | |
| 2/23/26 |  When Abbey Veto'ed Fer - With Fer (Polycurious)✨ | jealousyveto power+4 | Fer | Polycurious PodcastEvolving Love Project | — | jealousyveto power+5 | — | 1h 00m 28s | |
| 2/10/26 |  Perimenopause, HRT & Supportive Partners w/ Shelly Horton✨ | perimenopauseHRT+5 | Shelly Horton | Evolving Love ProjectShellShocked Media+6 | — | perimenopauseHRT+5 | — | 56m 06s | |
| 1/28/26 |  Hotwifing & Hothusbanding - Let's Talk About It!✨ | hotwifinghothusbanding+4 | — | Evolving Love Project | — | hotwifinghothusbanding+5 | — | 1h 02m 00s | |
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| 1/17/26 |  Non-Monogamy and Midlife: Will There Be A Crisis?✨ | midlifenon-monogamy+4 | — | Imperfects PodcastEvolving Love Project | — | midlife crisisnon-monogamy+4 | — | 1h 06m 06s | |
| 12/31/25 |  Pillow-talk On The Bedroom Floor - A Year In Review✨ | year in reviewpodcast guests+3 | — | Evolving Love Project | — | 2025podcast+4 | — | 29m 08s | |
| 12/8/25 |  #100 - What is Love? with Dr. Christopher Ryan - Author of "Sex at Dawn" & "Civilized to Death" | Evolving Lovers!! 100 episodes of the Evolving Love Podcast!!! To celebrate, we invited back one of our all-time favourite guests: Dr. Chris Ryan, author of Sex at Dawn, Civilized to Death, and host of Tangentially Speaking.In this milestone episode, we dive deep into what it means to love, to be seen, and to navigate desire in a rapidly changing world. Chris discusses why humans are fundamentally non-monogamous, why monogamy can still be a meaningful choice, and how shame, safety, novelty, and honesty shape our erotic lives. We also explore how AI will transform intimacy and whether social conditioning distorts our instincts.For us, it is the perfect way to mark 100 episodes of the Evolving Love podcast.Thank you for being here with us. ❤️Chris Ryan Links:WebsiteSubstack / PodcastInstagram This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 1h 22m 46s | ||||||
| 11/24/25 |  The Silent Load: Navigating Mental Loads in Relationships | In this episode, Liam and I sit down to unpack what we’ve been calling “the silent load”….the unseen, unspoken work that keeps relationships and families running smoothly.We talk about the four types of invisible load that show up in love: the physical, emotional, mental, and relational loads. From who remembers to buy the groceries, to who plans the date nights or initiates the tough conversations, we explore how these patterns form, what they mean, and why they can feel so heavy.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 1h 02m 34s | ||||||
| 11/7/25 |  Meet Our Girlfriend, Olivia | What happens when a married, polyamorous couple goes on a first date with artificial intelligence? In this episode we introduce our new “girlfriend” — Olivia, an AI companion built through ChatGPT’s voice mode — and take her on a virtual first date.We talk attraction, jealousy, and boundaries as Olivia flirts, sets limits, and asks tough questions about love, consent, and communication. After the date ends, we unpack the emotional and ethical fallout — from erotic AI fantasies to whether falling for a chatbot could ever count as cheating.This episode blurs the line between human and digital intimacy, asking:Can an AI girlfriend feel real?What happens when machines mirror desire?Is emotional connection without a body still love?Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 1h 00m 09s | ||||||
| 10/30/25 |  Lily Allen & Our P**sy Palace | Lily Allen has dropped her new album West End Girl. This record is a brutally honest breakup album about her open marriage with actor David Harbour, and has put non-monogamy back into the cultural Zeitgeist.In this episode, we discuss* Is Lily Allen’s “p*^sy palace” anthem empowering or exploitative?* What are the ethics of writing about your ex?* Why do female rage albums hit so hard?* Does this record hurt or help how non-monogamy is seen?* And… who exactly is Madeline?From kink-shaming to compersion, privacy to power, we discuss the tension between honesty, art, and the stories we tell about love.We also mention the Architectural Digest Tour of Lily and David’s House and this brilliant Substack article by Jack Cullen.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 1h 05m 18s | ||||||
| 10/22/25 |  Abbey Gets Envious, NRE Music & AI Doomsday | This week, Abbey and Liam unpack the difference between jealousy and envy — and how those feelings show up even in the most secure relationships. What starts as a story about a paddle boarding invitation turns into an honest look at FOMO, friendship, and the desire to keep creating “firsts” together after more than a decade of marriage.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 1h 05m 16s | ||||||
| 10/12/25 |  "Shame Dissolves In Safe Spaces" with Dabaco Sunset | Dabaco Sunset is a queer-affirming psychotherapist and embodiment facilitator in Sydney, specializing in Gestalt Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Embodied Counselling to help LGBTQ+ individuals and clients with alternative relating styles like ethical non-monogamy.Dabaco practices In the inner-west in Sydney at Sunset Psychotherapy.In this episode Dabaco opens up about growing up bisexual and pansexual, his time in Berlin’s queer scene, and the journey from infidelity and secrecy to radical self-acceptance.Dabaco Sunset LinksWebsite | Instagram | Naked ManEvolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 53m 36s | ||||||
| 9/24/25 |  Are Female Friendships A Threat To Marriage? | “Why do you need a female friend if you’re married?” In this episode, Abbey and Liam unpack the space where friendship, attraction, romantic relationships and trust collide.From jealousy to risk-taking they explore whether cross-gender friendships are threats to marriage, what happens when you forbid them, and how non-monogamous couples navigate these dynamics differently.Do female friendships always pose a risk? Or are they an essential part of a balanced life?Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack | Retreat This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 55m 36s | ||||||
| 9/17/25 |  Husband vs. Wife - Open Marriage Debate | In todays episode we play Devil’s Advocate. Can you argue a position you don’t truly believe in? Does switching sides test our own beliefs and sharpen our perspectives?We go head-to-head on:* Should happy couples risk opening their relationship?* Is non-monogamy a solution for struggling couples?* The infamous One Penis Policy — protection or possession?* Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell vs Kitchen Table Polyamory* Growing older: does monogamy or non-monogamy serve us better?Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack | Retreat This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 55m 30s | ||||||
| 9/6/25 |  Will AI Kill Intimacy? w. Evolutionary Biologist Dr. Rob Brooks | Abbey and Liam are joined by evolutionary biologist Dr. Rob Brooks to explore the rise of AI companions, sex robots, and whether love with machines can ever be “real.” They discuss jealousy over chatbots, the naturalist fallacy, and the deep question of whether humans are naturally monogamous or non-monogamous.Drawing from Rob’s book Artificial Intimacy, the conversation dives into the future of intimacy, the regulation of AI, and what it means for relationships when machines can replicate (and even challenge) human connection.Rob Brooks LinksWebsite | SubstackWatch this episode on YoutubeEvolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack | RetreatLive Podcast Tickets LinkFriday 10th October, NFSA, Canberra This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 1h 23m 46s | ||||||
| 8/25/25 |  Fantasy vs. Reality - Secrets & Exhibitionism | In this episode of Evolving Love 2.0, Abbey and Liam explore where they sit on the spectrum between swinging and polyamory. From loud neighbours and exhibitionist fantasies to navigating crushes, labels, and compersion, they dive into the playful, messy, and honest realities of non-monogamy after more than a decade together.They also share why “relationship by design” is central to their lives, and how fantasy and reality often intersect in surprising ways.Watch on YoutubeEvolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack | RetreatLive Podcast Tickets LinkFriday 10th October, NFSA, Canberra This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 57m 14s | ||||||
| 8/4/25 |  Pickleball, Therapy & Sex Swings | In today’s episode we bounce from pickleball courts to cold plunges, breathwork breakthroughs, and even DIY sex swings. We discuss our experiences with therapy, and Liam’s recent experience in a men’s breathwork circle.🧵 Topics Covered🎾 Pickleball Obsession: Why Liam has pivoted from bouldering to pickleball, and how it's becoming the new social sport for connection (and maybe even pickup).🧊 Cold Plunge Confessions: Their first experience with a 3°C plunge at a retreat.🌬️ Breathwork Journeys: Liam’s powerful experience in a men’s breathwork circle and how it compares to traditional talk therapy.🧠 Therapy, Flow & Healing: From EFT tapping to crafting gnomes, the many ways we process emotion and find peace.🧵 Crafting as Inner Child Work: Abbey’s deep dive into fairy swings, and the joy of imperfection.🛠️ DIY Erotica: Reddit’s BDSM DIY, ceramic dildos, and the dream of a podcast room sex swing.🔥 Saunas, Sex & Sensory Play: Why temperature matters in intimacy and the allure of hardpoints in the home.Upcoming EventsConversation Night:Sydney | Monday, 18th August 2025Social Event:Canberra | Sunday, 31st August 2025Women’s Retreat:Yass, NSW | October 17–19, 2025 This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 58m 32s | ||||||
| 7/22/25 |  When Affairs Go Public - Clinton to Coldplaygate | In today’s episode we dive into the spectacle of public affairs—from the viral Coldplay KissCam scandal to the infamous Clinton-Lewinsky saga. We explore the cultural obsession with infidelity, the ethics of public shaming, and the complex dynamics of relationships under scrutiny.Topics Covered* Coldplaygate: The viral moment that exposed Astronomer CEO Andy Byron and HR head Kristin Cabot on KissCam.* Public vs. Private Affairs: Why some affairs explode into the public eye and what that means for those involved.* Workplace Infidelity: Why so many affairs begin at work and the psychology behind it.* The Clinton-Lewinsky Affair: A deep dive into the scandal, power dynamics, betrayal, and media frenzy.* Esther Perel’s “State of Affairs”: How this book reframes infidelity and offers a path to healing.* The Ethics of Enjoying Scandal: Grappling with the guilty pleasure of watching public drama unfold.* Security Clearances & Infidelity: Can cheating disqualify you from high-level government roles?Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack | Retreat🌿 Upcoming EventWomen's Retreat – October 17–19, 2025 This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 56m 22s | ||||||
| 7/15/25 |  Is Liam Controlling? You Decide. | In today’s Evolving Love Podcast we discuss boundaries, limits, and unpack my recent Substack article.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack | Retreat🌿 Upcoming EventWomen's Retreat – October 17–19, 2025 This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe | 57m 17s | ||||||
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