he was cute until he wasn’t

About this episode

The episode discusses subtle behaviors that can kill attraction in relationships, featuring insights from women online.

subtle icks that instantly kill attraction . The ick. I asked women online. They didn’t hold back. It’s always something small. And then it’s over. Follow & connect Instagram (personal): @monica_cotolan Podcast Instagram: @girl_ive_been_thinking_podcast Support the show

People in this episode

Host: Monica Cotolan

Topics covered

• attraction
• relationship advice
• subtle icks
• women's perspectives
• dating
• self-improvement

Keywords

• attraction
• icks
• dating
• relationships
• women's opinions
• self-improvement

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