Legally Clueless

What happens when the woman the world celebrates isn't the same woman you experience when you're alone?In this episode of For Mannerless Women, Adelle sits down with DJ, broadcaster, creative entrepreneur, and healer Precious Nkadimeng (Spoken Priestess) for a powerful conversation about self-trust, spirituality, identity, and the journey back to yourself.Together, they explore the tension between achievement and authenticity, the cost of self-doubt, ancestral guidance, spiritual awakening, and why choosing yourself is one of the most radical things a woman can do.In This EpisodeThe gap between who the world sees and who you really areBuilding an identity beyond your workSelf-doubt, confidence, and learning to trust yourselfDepression, healing, and confronting what's been hidden awaySpirituality beyond religionAncestors, dreams, and intuitionPrecious' journey through traditional spiritual initiationWhy women need to stop asking for permissionThe power of making choices that honour yourselfWhat it means to live authenticallyConnect With PreciousInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/spokenpriestessTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@spokenpriestess_Resources From Precious"I'd say the book: 5AM Club has really inspired me a lot this past year. I'm currently reading the Body Keeps A Score and it's also enlightening, it's a book about how trauma is stored in our bodies"Share Your StoryHave a story you'd like to share on Legally Clueless?Submit it here:https://forms.gle/JMrQD55jcrazKFKX7Follow Legally Clueless AfricaNewsletter: https://www.legallycluelessafrica.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafricaTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LegallyCluelessAfricaEnjoyed This Episode?Share it with all the mannerless, or almost mannerless women in your life.Your share could be exactly what another woman needs to hear today.

For years, Annkia knew that something wasn't right.She had spent most of her life living with pain, navigating hospital visits, procedures, medication, and conflicting diagnoses. But despite everything she was experiencing, the answers never seemed to come.In Part 2 of her story, Annkia shares what happened when she finally met a doctor who listened. What followed was a series of tests that revealed the true cause of the pain she had been living with since childhood: a rare form of bladder cancer.This is a story about resilience, self-advocacy, hope, and the life-changing power of being believed.Listen to the Legally Clueless Podcast:https://linktr.ee/legallycluelessafricaSign up for our newsletter:https://www.legallycluelessafrica.comShare your story:https://forms.gle/JMrQD55jcrazKFKX7Connect with us:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafricahttps://www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricahttps://www.youtube.com/@LegallyCluelessAfricahttps://www.legallycluelessafrica.com#LegallyCluelessPodcast #LegallyCluelessAfrica #AfricanStories #Healing #CancerSurvivor #Storytelling #KenyanPodcast #BladderCancerAwareness

This week on Mid Week Tease, we're talking about generational cycles! Not just the obvious ones, but the invisible family rules, coping mechanisms, beliefs and survival strategies that quietly shape our lives. Many of us inherit ways of thinking, loving, communicating and surviving long before we're old enough to question them. We grow up believing they're simply part of who we are. But what happens when we begin to realize some of what we've called personality is actually inherited pain?In this episode, Adelle explores:The unspoken rules every family passes downThe survival strategies we mistake for personality traitsWhy the first person to choose differently is often labelled difficultThe difference between understanding and excusing our parentsHow trauma can be passed down through behaviours, not just experiencesWhat it truly means to become a cycle breakerThe legacy we're creating through our healingBecause breaking generational cycles isn't just about what you're refusing to pass on. It's also about what you're choosing to build.Join our community:Website: https://www.legallycluelessafrica.comNewsletter: https://www.legallycluelessafrica.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafricaTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LegallyCluelessAfrica

This week on For Mannerless Women, Adelle Onyango sits down with lawyer and entrepreneur Bev Munga, founder of Gspot Kenya and popularly known as “The Vibrating Lawyer.” In this bold and honest conversation, Bev opens up about:Building one of Kenya’s most talked-about pleasure brandsThe backlash she faced for centering women’s pleasureChoosing a child-free lifeSolo travel as self-careFulfillment outside motherhoodFreedom, autonomy, and redefining womanhood on her own termsConnect with Bev Munga:https://www.instagram.com/theevibratinglawyerFollow Gspot Kenya:https://www.instagram.com/gspotkenya_Join Bev's Childfree Community:We've had to pull down the link as the group has reached capacity.Follow Bev on instagram for more information.Subscribe to the Legally Clueless Africa newsletter:https://www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Follow Legally Clueless Africa:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutubeShare your story:https://forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8 #ForMannerlessWomen #LegallyCluelessAfrica #AfricanWomen

In this episode of the Legally Clueless podcast, we continue with Part 2 of Dr. Kui Muraya’s story. After spending years learning to silence her voice, Kui shares what happened when she slowly began reconnecting with herself again.From moving abroad at a young age, to navigating academia, leadership, activism, workplace politics, burnout, and eventually choosing to step away from the working world altogether, this episode explores the cost of constantly pushing yourself and the healing that can come from finally choosing yourself. Kui also reflects on identity, purpose, spirituality, legacy, and what it has meant to stop seeing herself as a “black sheep” and fully embrace the woman she is becoming. This is a story about reclaiming your voice, redefining success, and creating a life that feels aligned, joyful, and true.In this episode, Kui speaks about:Moving to Australia after high schoolChanging career paths and choosing herselfFinding her voice again abroadNavigating leadership and workplace activismGender justice and speaking up in professional spacesBurnout and toxic work environmentsTaking an intentional break from workRedefining “joyful work”Spirituality, healing, and legacyListen to Part 1: If you haven’t yet, listen to Part 1 of Dr. Kui Muraya’s story in Episode 376. Connect With Kui:https://www.instagram.com/kuimuraya/https://www.instagram.com/konversationswithkui/Share Your Story: If you’d like to share your story, you can do so anonymously here:forms.gle/kMn7Wae5N563JFGQ8Connect with Legally Clueless Africa:Newsletter: www.legallycluelessafrica.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/legallycluelessafrica/TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@legallycluelessafricaYouTube: www.youtube.com/c/LegallyCluelessYoutube