Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP219 – Bliss Cruise Review Part 1: What Really Happens on a Swingers Cruise? After 11 years in the lifestyle, countless resorts, takeovers, and events around the world, Cate finally checked one item off the swinger bucket list: the Bliss Cruise. Joined by Mallory, the pair share their honest first impressions of their first-ever swingers cruise experience, from cruise culture surprises and unexpected friendships to hilarious onboard characters, hotwife adventures, and a few moments of complete chaos. In Part 1, we cover boarding day, the crowd demographics, theme parties, nightlife, the Jamaica and Cozumel beach events, and whether a swingers cruise lives up to the hype. Plus: a wife offering her husband to us before breakfast, a self-proclaimed meteorologist, a man with superhuman stamina in the next cabin, and the best compliment we've ever received: "You're attractive, but you're weird." Planning a Bliss Cruise? Join us on our hosted Wanderlust Swingers & Libertine Events group sailing aboard the November 2027 Bliss Cruise. https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise/ Useful Links From This Episode Join us at a Swingers Eventhttps://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore eventshttps://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Support Our Amazing Sponsors Comprehensive STI Testing (USA Only) with STD HeroGet 10% off use code Libertinehttps://mybls.com/Libertine Bliss Cruise review, swingers cruise review, first time Bliss Cruise, hotwife travel podcast, swingers cruise experience, lifestyle cruise review, Celebrity Silhouette, swinger vacation stories, ethical non monogamy travel, Wanderlust Swingers podcast

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP207 – How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events (aka: are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?) Ever left a lifestyle party with a sore throat from talking…and nothing else? In this episode we unpack why being a charismatic, chatty social butterfly can accidentally cock-block your own fun. Social sexual vs. DTF energy, how mixed signals stall momentum, and the exact moves to shift from talk to touch, without being creepy. Yes, there are wombat and platypus facts. No, we’re not sorry. Social V's Sexy: why holding court makes you look “unavailable,” the “talk block,” and how intent signals attraction better than endless banter. 6 Social Archetypes that Miss the Moment: the MC, the Talker, the Broad Flirt, the RBF, the “One More Drink,” and the Ghost Poll Results: 47% chat and forget to switch to play; 47% sometimes drift that way From Flirt to Close: specific lines that move things forward (“Are you free later?” vs. “Wanna go now?”) Listener Q: Tiffany’s husband holds court; Cate’s tactics to isolate, redirect, and actually get to a playroom Animal Fact Interlude: UV-glowing platypuses and cube-pooping wombats (you’re welcome, Charlotte). Coming Up Next EP208 – Sex Parties vs. Sexy Parties & the Dirty Vanilla Epidemic: how to read formats, avoid “no playroom” traps, and set expectations. Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – 2026 takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale, France) https://libertineevents.com/ Patreon – BTS outfits, bonus audio & polls https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Wanderlust Swingers Website https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Swinger Podcast, Social Sexual, How to Flirt at Swingers Parties, Consent in the Lifestyle, Playroom Etiquette, Dress-Down Rules, Swinger Clubs Europe, Non-Monogamy Tips, Hotwife Podcast, Wingwoman Strategies, Talk Blocking, Lifestyle Event Planning

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP205 – Sexual Health Awareness Month: STI Testing for Swingers with STD Hero (and why “safer sex” beats “safe sex”) Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts—and two experts. Today we’re joined by Alan Brock, founder of STD Hero, and Dr. William Budd, CEO of Alliant Lab Consulting, to talk real-world STI testing for swingers, myths that need to die (no, you can’t blame a truck-stop toilet seat), incubation windows, oral vs. penetrative risk, site-specific swabs, and why regular screening plus straight-up conversations make play hotter and safer. Sponsor (and a Perk for You) STD Hero — discreet, at-home STI testing built for the lifestyle.Use code Libertine for 10% off: https://mybls.com/Libertine Segments: Myth Busting 101 – Toilet seats, “clinic tests are the only real tests,” and the HSV antibody red-X problem Incubation Windows – Why most results are meaningful at ~2 weeks, and Mgen needs ~3–4 Oral vs Penetrative Risk – Where gonorrhea shows up most, when dental dams matter, and “safer” vs “safe” HPV Deep Dive – Vaccines, oral HPV, head & neck cancer screening, and when to add annual checks Lifestyle Scenarios – Two couples, two play patterns: what to test, and how often Hot Seat – Why STD Hero includes site-specific swabs and keeps prices lower (hint: they’re the lab) Fact or Fiction Lightning Round – Condoms, syphilis from oral, monthly testing, and cruise-week “clearance” fantasies What You’ll Hear in This Episode Why quarterly testing works for low-frequency, barrier-using couples—and why monthly makes sense for frequent players The 2-week rule (and 3–4 weeks for Mycoplasma genitalium) after events before you rely on a negative Why site-specific swabs (throat/anal) catch infections urine-only panels miss HSV & HPV realities: antibodies ≠ contagious today; why HPV screening still matters even if vaccinated How to talk about risk appetite and recent play with new partners without killing the vibe The truth about at-home vs clinic testing (licensed lab methods are the same; cheaters can cheat anywhere) Practical cue: if an oral sore sticks around beyond a few days, get it checked Useful Links from this Episode STD Hero – 10% Off with code Libertine - https://mybls.com/Libertine Join our community & events – https://libertineevents.com/ Check out our podcast website https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Quick Tips & Takeaways Language matters: say safer sex, not safe sex—there’s always some risk. After big events: wait ~2 weeks (Mgen: 3–4 weeks) for the most reliable results; test sooner only if you’ll retest. Oral counts: expect more oral gonorrhea than other oral STIs; don’t skip throat swabs. HPV plan: screen annually; if positive, recheck in 6 months + ask your dentist about fluorescent oral screenings. Don’t alternate testing between partners to “save money”—immune responses vary by person. Transparency turns people on: share dates of last test, where you played, and what you’re comfortable with now. Not Medical Advice This episode shares expert perspectives and practical lifestyle strategies. For personal healthcare decisions, consult your clinician. Tags:Swinger Podcast, STI Testing for Swingers, Sexual Health Awareness Month, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Non-Monogamy Podcast, HSV Myths, HPV Oral Cancer, Mycoplasma Genitalium, Site-Specific Swabs, Oral Gonorrhea, Lifestyle Safety, At-Home STI Testing, Wanderlust Swingers, Hotwife Podcast, Safer Sex Communication, Swinger Health Tips, STD Hero Discount, Swingers Cruise Prep, Lifestyle Event Safety

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP203 – Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor? We’re diving into France’s infamous "Naked City" with first-timers Ben & Kate from the UK—sharing what it’s really like to strip down, party hard, and play freely in one of the world’s most iconic non-monogamous travel destinations. From body confidence wobbles to naked grocery runs, group foam party flings, and boundary-testing solo play, this episode is equal parts hilarious, sexy, and honest AF. Stick around for the segments: Hot Seat Quickies – foam or finesse? Nudity or nightlife? Sexy surprises and flirty regrets. Guess Who: Cap d’Agde Edition – is that a mesh thong and too much cologne, or are we imagining things? Prison Wallets & Pool Parties – yes, that’s a thing. Yes, we explain it. No, you won’t forget it. The Moose Party & Babylon Vibes – what to expect, what to pack, and why you might never want to leave. Tips for Cap First-Timers – boundaries, blunders, solo moments, sneaky threesomes, and finding your tribe (while naked). Whether you're Cap-curious, dreaming of your first naked beach walk, or just here for the stories of awkward sex club tunnels and golden body jewelry envy—this episode delivers everything you didn’t read on the Cap d’Agde travel forums. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: The surprising psychology of public nudity Body image vs. body liberation Sexy moments, awkward encounters, and one creepy Dutch guy Connection vs. compersion in foursomes and solo play Why Cap is not just for swingers—and who it’s definitely not for Top Cap tips: what to pack, what to book, and what to avoid Useful Links from this Episode:Cap d’Agde The Ultimate Swingers Guide – https://wanderlustswingers.com/cap-dagde-the-ultimate-swingers-guide/ Libertine Events 2025 / 2026 Takeovers – https://libertineevents.com/Join the Conversation on Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/swingingdownunder Support the show + get exclusive bonus content:👉 Patreon – Wanderlust Swingers https://www.patreon.com/c/SwingingDownunder Tags:Swinger Podcast, Cap d’Agde Swingers, Cap d’Agde Naturist Village, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Cap d’Agde Nudist Travel, Lifestyle Travel Podcast, Non-Monogamy Podcast, European Swingers Resorts, Swingers France, Wanderlust Swingers, Swinger Vacations, Lifestyle Boundaries, Hotwife Travel, Group Play Stories, Lifestyle Tips

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP201 – Swinger Event Hosting Isn’t for the Weak Ever wondered what it really takes to host a swingers lifestyle event? From clogged toilets in lingerie to DJ sets soaked in sweat, this candid crossover with Mickey & Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast exposes the highs, lows, and hilariously gross realities of being a swingers event host. We’re pulling back the velvet curtain to share our wildest stories from hosting major lifestyle takeovers like Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Jamaica and Libertine Events Miami. You'll hear about guests gone rogue, glow-stick overkill, questionable hotel staff, and the unexpected emotional weight of managing relationship drama at sex-positive parties. Stick around for the segments: Top 5 Unsexiest Things We’ve Done at a Sexy Event What’s in Our Swinger Event Survival Kits? True or Trope? — a rapid-fire myth-busting game about lifestyle stereotypes If One More Person Asks Me To… (You know who you are) Toast, No Roast — our heartfelt shoutouts to guests who made it all worth it Tipsy Takeaways — advice for nervous newbies, returning guests & aspiring event hosts Whether you're a seasoned swinger, an aspiring event planner, or just here for the behind-the-scenes chaos, this episode is a laugh-out-loud, learn-a-lot look at what it takes to run the sexiest events on earth—without losing your mind (or your vibrator). What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Condom carnage and playroom clean-ups Conflict resolution and crying girls in the hallway Lifestyle myths: fact or fiction? Our ultimate swinger event survival kits (snacks, lube, Narcan, and more) How to be a better guest at lifestyle takeovers Gold-star hosting advice from three lifestyle veterans Useful Links from this Episode:Casual Swinger Podcast – https://casualswinger.com/Libertine Events Miami Swingers Takeover – https://libertineevents.com/miami/Libertine Events San Antonio Takeover – https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio/ Support the show + get exclusive bonus content:👉 Patreon – Wanderlust Swingers Tags:Swinger Podcast, Swingers Lifestyle Events, Hotwife Lifestyle, Casual Swinger Podcast, Libertine Events, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Non-Monogamy Podcast, Swingers Hotel Takeover, Lifestyle Hosting, Behind the Scenes, Hedonism Events, Swinger Myths, Playroom Stories, Open Relationships, Swinger Advice, Conflict Resolution in Swinging, Hotwife Fantasy, Lifestyle Survival Tips

Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP199 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle In this episode, Cate and Darrell dive into the psychology and practicality of spontaneous vs. responsive desire — and how this can make or break your experiences in the lifestyle. Whether you're the one who’s ready to go at the first flash of lingerie or someone who needs the right mood, connection, or even lunch before feeling sexy, we explore what it all means for swingers navigating clubs, hotel takeovers, and multi-day events. We also update you on the notorious dildo from the last episode — yes, Cate used it. Was it sexy? Science-y? Did it cause a UTI? (Spoiler: yes to all of the above). Plus, you’ll hear about Cate’s surprise visit to a Canadian club, her puffed-up chipmunk face courtesy of the Dutch healthcare system, and a viral Facebook video that got her slapped with a ‘bullying’ violation. You can’t make this stuff up. Finally, we tackle a fantastic listener question: Why are we pickier on dating sites than in real life? Is it about spontaneity, judgment, or just too many filters? What you’ll hear in this episode: The Dildo Debrief – Cate puts the giant toy to the test (with help) and shares the honest, messy aftermath Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire – What it means, how to spot it in yourself or your partner, and how it plays out at lifestyle events Desire Mismatches – What to do when one partner is ready to pounce and the other needs time to warm up Listener Q&A – Why are we all trolls online? Cate reflects on being pickier in apps than IRL, and what that says about connection Be A Better Swinger Tips – Learn your desire style and how to meet each other in the middle (without pressure) Links: Website: www.wanderlustswingers.comYouTube: Wanderlust Swingers on YouTubeLibertine Events – Texas Takeover: https://libertineevents.com/sanantonioEmail: email@wanderlustswingers.comSupport us & see the uncensored dildo pics: patreon.com/swingingdownunder Are you spontaneous or responsive? Tell us what turns you on, how you navigate mismatched desire with your partner, or what you’ve learned in your own lifestyle journey — we love hearing your stories and insights. Tags: Spontaneous Desire, Responsive Desire, Swinger Podcast, Hotwife Lifestyle, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Events, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotel Takeovers, Sex Toy Reviews, Open Relationships, Lifestyle Club Tips, Group Play, Swingers Communication, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Desire Mismatch, Cap d’Agde, Sexual Compatibility

How does sexual trauma affect your lifestyle journey? Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual trauma, abuse, and emotional triggers. Please take care while listening. In this vulnerable and powerful episode, Cate is joined by trauma-informed coach Meshai from Expansive Connection to explore what happens when past trauma meets lifestyle play. Cate also shares her personal experience with sexual trauma — opening up publicly for the first time. Whether you’re navigating your own healing, supporting a partner, or just want to be a more compassionate and informed member of the lifestyle, this conversation is essential. What we cover:✔ What sexual trauma looks like in lifestyle spaces✔ Common triggers during play or events✔ What partners and playmates need to understand✔ Cate’s story✔ How to create trauma-aware swinger environments✔ Supporting survivors without needing every detail✔ Why trauma must be part of the conversation✔ Real tools for safer play and stronger connections Resources & Support:1800Respect – www.1800respect.org.au | 1800 737 732RAINN – www.rainn.org | 800-656-HOPERape Crisis UK – www.rapecrisis.org.ukSurvivorsUK (for men) – www.survivorsuk.org Let’s talk about it.Share this episode with your partner, club community, or friends in the lifestyle.The more we talk, the safer we all become. Join us in Texas https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio/ Website: www.wanderlustswingers.comInstagram https://www.instagram.com/swingingdownunder Twitter https://twitter.com/swingdownunder TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShamelessNonMonogamywithSDU Tags:Sexual Trauma, Swinger Lifestyle, Trauma-Informed Play, Non-Monogamy, Consent Culture, PTSD and Sex, Ethical Swinging, Open Relationships, Trauma Support, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

In this important episode, Cate speaks with Steve Gagne, owner of Wicked Fun Club, a private members-only lifestyle venue in Connecticut that has recently been issued a cease and desist order by the Town of Plymouth. Only five months into a three-year lease, the club is now in the midst of a legal and political battle that raises serious questions about privacy, zoning laws, and stigma against non-monogamous communities. Steve shares what really happened, how it’s affecting the club and its members, and what the community can do to support. This episode goes beyond local politics—it's a wake-up call for everyone in the lifestyle. “This story isn’t just about one club in one town—it’s about how adult freedom, privacy, and community values clash in the real world. Whether you're in Connecticut or California, we all have a stake in the lifestyle's right to exist safely and respectfully.” ~ Cate, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast In this episode, we cover: What Wicked Fun Club is and who it serves The zoning issue and cease and desist order Tensions between the club, the landlord, and the neighboring church The broader impact on lifestyle members and safe spaces The current appeal process What support is needed from the non-monogamous community How this story affects the lifestyle space nationwide Links and Resources:Wicked Fun Club Website: https://wickedfunclub.comNews article on the shutdown: NBC ConnecticutReddit review thread: r/Swingers discussionLearn about club rights: https://ncsfreedom.org Stay Connected:Instagram: @swingingdownunderTwitter: @swingdownunderWebsite: https://wanderlustswingers.com Enjoying the show?Please subscribe, share, and leave us a review wherever you listen. Your support helps amplify important conversations like this one.