
Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
by Cate and Darrell
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Bliss Cruise Review Part 1: What Really Happens on a Swingers Cruise?
Jun 24, 2026
1h 07m 26s
Hotwife Session Live From Hedonism Resort
Apr 15, 2026
39m 35s
Inside Hedonism: Real Swingers Resort Stories, First-Timer Tips & Casual Swinger Week Takeover Interviews
Mar 27, 2026
57m 01s
Apple Banned Us, Lifestyle Dating Ghosting, 55 Wild Kinks & Nevada Brothel Union Drama
Mar 4, 2026
32m 50s
Playroom Etiquette, Grey Areas & A Hotwife Onboard the Bliss Cruise
Feb 18, 2026
37m 28s
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| 6/24/26 | ![]() Bliss Cruise Review Part 1: What Really Happens on a Swingers Cruise? | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP219 – Bliss Cruise Review Part 1: What Really Happens on a Swingers Cruise? After 11 years in the lifestyle, countless resorts, takeovers, and events around the world, Cate finally checked one item off the swinger bucket list: the Bliss Cruise. Joined by Mallory, the pair share their honest first impressions of their first-ever swingers cruise experience, from cruise culture surprises and unexpected friendships to hilarious onboard characters, hotwife adventures, and a few moments of complete chaos. In Part 1, we cover boarding day, the crowd demographics, theme parties, nightlife, the Jamaica and Cozumel beach events, and whether a swingers cruise lives up to the hype. Plus: a wife offering her husband to us before breakfast, a self-proclaimed meteorologist, a man with superhuman stamina in the next cabin, and the best compliment we've ever received: "You're attractive, but you're weird." Planning a Bliss Cruise? Join us on our hosted Wanderlust Swingers & Libertine Events group sailing aboard the November 2027 Bliss Cruise. https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise/ Useful Links From This Episode Join us at a Swingers Eventhttps://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore eventshttps://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Support Our Amazing Sponsors Comprehensive STI Testing (USA Only) with STD HeroGet 10% off use code Libertinehttps://mybls.com/Libertine Bliss Cruise review, swingers cruise review, first time Bliss Cruise, hotwife travel podcast, swingers cruise experience, lifestyle cruise review, Celebrity Silhouette, swinger vacation stories, ethical non monogamy travel, Wanderlust Swingers podcast | 1h 07m 26s | ||||||
| 4/15/26 | ![]() Hotwife Session Live From Hedonism Resort✨ | hotwifingswinger lifestyle+3 | — | LibertineShivers THC Intimacy Gummies+7 | USA | Hedonism ResortCasual Swinger Week+3 | STD HeroLibertine | 39m 35s | |
| 3/27/26 | ![]() Inside Hedonism: Real Swingers Resort Stories, First-Timer Tips & Casual Swinger Week Takeover Interviews✨ | swinginglifestyle+3 | Various Guests | Hedonism II ResortCate+9 | USA | Hedonism IIswingers resort+7 | — | 57m 01s | |
| 3/4/26 | ![]() Apple Banned Us, Lifestyle Dating Ghosting, 55 Wild Kinks & Nevada Brothel Union Drama✨ | sexualitydating+3 | — | SDCCosmopolitan+5 | USNevada | Apple Podcasts banlifestyle dating+3 | STD HeroLibertine | 32m 50s | |
| 2/18/26 | ![]() Playroom Etiquette, Grey Areas & A Hotwife Onboard the Bliss Cruise✨ | playroom etiquettesocial awareness+3 | — | Bliss CruiseReddit+7 | NetherlandsJamaica+2 | playroom etiquettegrey areas+7 | — | 37m 28s | |
| 2/2/26 | ![]() Swinger Cruises - Inside Bliss Cruise with CEO Russell Stephens✨ | swinger lifestylecruise experiences+3 | Russell Stephens | Bliss CruiseSwinger Cruises+14 | JamaicaCozumel+1 | Bliss Cruiseswinger cruises+5 | — | 52m 25s | |
| 1/26/26 | ![]() Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO)✨ | sexual wellnessperformance anxiety+3 | Jeff Abraham | Premature Ejaculation SprayDelay Wipes+8 | USA | sex toysdelay sprays+6 | Promescentwanderlust26 | 56m 28s | |
| 1/19/26 | ![]() HOTTAKES - The Hotwife Boom, Trend, Evoluation or Opportunism✨ | hotwifingswinging+3 | — | HotwifeGoogle Trends+6 | USA | hotwifecuckolding+7 | — | 38m 49s | |
| 1/12/26 | ![]() Club Rejection, MFM Lessons & Lifestyle Drama at a Swingers Club✨ | swinginglifestyle+3 | — | LibertinePromescent+12 | BelgiumUSA | club rejectionMFM lessons+4 | — | 49m 08s | |
| 12/3/25 | ![]() Inside a Swingers Hotel Takeover: Real Couple Stories, Playroom Nerves & First Timer Tips✨ | swingingrelationships+3 | Multiple Attendees | LibertinePromescent+7 | USA | swingers hotel takeoverplayroom experiences+3 | — | 1h 11m 53s | |
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| 11/19/25 | ![]() Londons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club London✨ | swinger lifestyleHalloween parties+3 | — | LibertinePromescent+10 | LondonsLondon+1 | Halloween weekendLe Boudoir Swingers Club+6 | — | 39m 03s | |
| 11/14/25 | ![]() Are Dirty Vanillas A Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic? | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP208 – Are Dirty Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic? (Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties)Bonus Episode: HotTakes with Wanderlust Swingers Are “dirty vanillas” ruining swinger parties… or are we just old and grumpy?In this HotTakes bonus episode, we unpack the rise of sexy parties vs swinger parties — couples who love the lingerie, lights, drugs and dance floor, but have zero intention of swapping or playing. From empty playrooms at Dutch “takeovers” to US events that feel more MDMA than moaning, we ask: is this evolution, dilution, or just a different lane of fun? Dirty Vanilla 101: what the term actually means (monogamous couples who love the vibe, flirting, lingerie, but don’t play) and why it’s often used as a slur in the lifestyle. Marketing or Epidemic? Swinger events advertised as “dance parties” on TikTok/IG and “swinger parties” on dating sites – who’s actually to blame: the crowd, or the promoters? Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties: Dutch club takeovers, 1200-person Amsterdam “swinger” events with no licensed playrooms, and the fetish / dirty vanilla / swinger mash-up that pleases no one. Are we the problem? Cate & Darrell realise their expectations were stuck in “old school swinger” mode while the culture has shifted under their feet. Listener Q – Tim: “We’re exclusive. Can we go to a swingers club just for the vibe?” Cate’s nuanced yes, Darrell’s “please do!” and why intention + contribution matters more than labels. We wrap by asking the big question: are dirty vanillas a lifestyle epidemic… or is this just what evolution looks like in a more fluid, less-stigmatized, sex-positive world? Check out the matching blog post for this episode, answering all your questions about Dirty Vanillas https://wanderlustswingers.com/swinger-education/dirty-vanilla-swingers/ Coming Up NextEP209 - Halloween weekend in London, MFMs, costumes, and chaos: stories from the playroom and beyond. Useful Links from this EpisodeLibertine Events – 2026 takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale, France): https://libertineevents.com/Patreon – BTS outfits, bonus audio & polls: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunderWanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Swinger Podcast, Dirty Vanilla, Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties, Lifestyle Event Politics, Swinger Clubs Europe, Non-Monogamy Tips, Hotwife Podcast, Sex-Positive Events, Consent & Drugs in the Lifestyle, Fetish vs Swinger Culture, Hotel Takeovers, Lifestyle Travel, Libertine Events | 39m 23s | ||||||
| 11/5/25 | ![]() How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP207 – How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events (aka: are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?) Ever left a lifestyle party with a sore throat from talking…and nothing else? In this episode we unpack why being a charismatic, chatty social butterfly can accidentally cock-block your own fun. Social sexual vs. DTF energy, how mixed signals stall momentum, and the exact moves to shift from talk to touch, without being creepy. Yes, there are wombat and platypus facts. No, we’re not sorry. Social V's Sexy: why holding court makes you look “unavailable,” the “talk block,” and how intent signals attraction better than endless banter. 6 Social Archetypes that Miss the Moment: the MC, the Talker, the Broad Flirt, the RBF, the “One More Drink,” and the Ghost Poll Results: 47% chat and forget to switch to play; 47% sometimes drift that way From Flirt to Close: specific lines that move things forward (“Are you free later?” vs. “Wanna go now?”) Listener Q: Tiffany’s husband holds court; Cate’s tactics to isolate, redirect, and actually get to a playroom Animal Fact Interlude: UV-glowing platypuses and cube-pooping wombats (you’re welcome, Charlotte). Coming Up Next EP208 – Sex Parties vs. Sexy Parties & the Dirty Vanilla Epidemic: how to read formats, avoid “no playroom” traps, and set expectations. Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – 2026 takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale, France) https://libertineevents.com/ Patreon – BTS outfits, bonus audio & polls https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Wanderlust Swingers Website https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Join SDC – Meet other swingers in your area https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Swinger Podcast, Social Sexual, How to Flirt at Swingers Parties, Consent in the Lifestyle, Playroom Etiquette, Dress-Down Rules, Swinger Clubs Europe, Non-Monogamy Tips, Hotwife Podcast, Wingwoman Strategies, Talk Blocking, Lifestyle Event Planning | 42m 41s | ||||||
| 10/20/25 | ![]() Cap D Agde V2 + Recent Swingers Parties | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP206 – Cap d’Agde & Recent Swingers Parties Is Cap d’Agde still the planet’s wildest swingers playground… or did we just hit it on extra-chaotic mode? In this on-the-road episode (recorded from a very “upgraded” Las Vegas suite), we recap our second 2025 run at Cap d’Agde — from Babylone poolside antics to a Le Glamour Beach foam party so packed you could crowd-surf — plus two very different European events: Flamigo Events in Belgium and the SDC 25th Anniversary World Party in the Netherlands. We talk wins, fails, costs, dress codes, and why playrooms (or the lack of them) can make or break your night. Cate also shares a real-life health check-in on managing recurring UTIs in the lifestyle and the impact on travel, play, and partnership. What You’ll Hear in This Episode Cap d’Agde, Round Two: language barriers, daytime soloing while your partner works, poolside flirtation, and making the most of peak-season crowds Babylone Pool Party: why it still tops our list for “sex-charged pool vibes” (and how to navigate it as a couple) Foam Party at Le Glamour Beach: shoulder-to-shoulder mayhem, VIP bed sticker shock, and strategies when you can’t secure a cabana Flamigo Events (Belgium): great DJs, pricey drinks, token systems, and why “sexy party” ≠ “swingers party” if there’s nowhere to play SDC World Party (Netherlands): last-minute municipal restrictions, and how to salvage a night out Costs & Value: what we actually spent vs. what we got (tickets, hotels, water, and those sneaky cup fees) Safety & Autonomy: why Cate feels safer at lifestyle events than at normal clubs — and how to set boundaries when attending with friends or a single guy Travel Planning for Lifestyle Events: don’t over-commit for unproven parties, read past reviews, and always have a Plan B (after-parties, club backups, pre-arranged connections) Quick Tips & Takeaways Verify the format (swingers club vs. sexy dance party) before you book suites and tailor outfits. Have a backup plan: pre-message on dating sites, line up an after-party, or keep a reputable club in your pocket Mind the logistics: token drink systems, locker processes, heat/AC, and dress-down rules can heavily affect your night. Health in the lifestyle: proactive UTI management, pacing your play, and honest partner communication. Trip length matters: 4 days vs. 6 days at Cap d’Agde — what actually feels good for different personalities. Coming Up Next EP207 – How Not to Get Laid at Lifestyle Events (aka: are you “social swinging” your way out of play?). Useful Links from this Episode Libertine Events – U.S. & EU Takeovers (Miami, Scottsdale and France in 2026) Patreon – BTS photos, outfits & bonus audio Wanderlust Swingers Website Join SDC the worlds largest Lifestyle Swingers Dating Site Swinger Podcast, Cap d’Agde Swingers, Cap d’Agde Naturist Village, Babylone Pool Party, Glamour Beach Foam Party, European Swingers Parties, SDC World Party, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotwife Podcast, Swingers Travel, Lifestyle Events Europe, Non-Monogamy Tips, Swinger Clubs Netherlands, Belgium Swingers Party Review, Libertine Events, Wanderlust Swingers | 32m 41s | ||||||
| 9/24/25 | ![]() STI Testing for Swingers (and why “safer sex” beats “safe sex”) | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP205 – Sexual Health Awareness Month: STI Testing for Swingers with STD Hero (and why “safer sex” beats “safe sex”) Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts—and two experts. Today we’re joined by Alan Brock, founder of STD Hero, and Dr. William Budd, CEO of Alliant Lab Consulting, to talk real-world STI testing for swingers, myths that need to die (no, you can’t blame a truck-stop toilet seat), incubation windows, oral vs. penetrative risk, site-specific swabs, and why regular screening plus straight-up conversations make play hotter and safer. Sponsor (and a Perk for You) STD Hero — discreet, at-home STI testing built for the lifestyle.Use code Libertine for 10% off: https://mybls.com/Libertine Segments: Myth Busting 101 – Toilet seats, “clinic tests are the only real tests,” and the HSV antibody red-X problem Incubation Windows – Why most results are meaningful at ~2 weeks, and Mgen needs ~3–4 Oral vs Penetrative Risk – Where gonorrhea shows up most, when dental dams matter, and “safer” vs “safe” HPV Deep Dive – Vaccines, oral HPV, head & neck cancer screening, and when to add annual checks Lifestyle Scenarios – Two couples, two play patterns: what to test, and how often Hot Seat – Why STD Hero includes site-specific swabs and keeps prices lower (hint: they’re the lab) Fact or Fiction Lightning Round – Condoms, syphilis from oral, monthly testing, and cruise-week “clearance” fantasies What You’ll Hear in This Episode Why quarterly testing works for low-frequency, barrier-using couples—and why monthly makes sense for frequent players The 2-week rule (and 3–4 weeks for Mycoplasma genitalium) after events before you rely on a negative Why site-specific swabs (throat/anal) catch infections urine-only panels miss HSV & HPV realities: antibodies ≠ contagious today; why HPV screening still matters even if vaccinated How to talk about risk appetite and recent play with new partners without killing the vibe The truth about at-home vs clinic testing (licensed lab methods are the same; cheaters can cheat anywhere) Practical cue: if an oral sore sticks around beyond a few days, get it checked Useful Links from this Episode STD Hero – 10% Off with code Libertine - https://mybls.com/Libertine Join our community & events – https://libertineevents.com/ Check out our podcast website https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Quick Tips & Takeaways Language matters: say safer sex, not safe sex—there’s always some risk. After big events: wait ~2 weeks (Mgen: 3–4 weeks) for the most reliable results; test sooner only if you’ll retest. Oral counts: expect more oral gonorrhea than other oral STIs; don’t skip throat swabs. HPV plan: screen annually; if positive, recheck in 6 months + ask your dentist about fluorescent oral screenings. Don’t alternate testing between partners to “save money”—immune responses vary by person. Transparency turns people on: share dates of last test, where you played, and what you’re comfortable with now. Not Medical Advice This episode shares expert perspectives and practical lifestyle strategies. For personal healthcare decisions, consult your clinician. Tags:Swinger Podcast, STI Testing for Swingers, Sexual Health Awareness Month, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Non-Monogamy Podcast, HSV Myths, HPV Oral Cancer, Mycoplasma Genitalium, Site-Specific Swabs, Oral Gonorrhea, Lifestyle Safety, At-Home STI Testing, Wanderlust Swingers, Hotwife Podcast, Safer Sex Communication, Swinger Health Tips, STD Hero Discount, Swingers Cruise Prep, Lifestyle Event Safety | 52m 47s | ||||||
| 8/20/25 | ![]() Cap D'Agde Swingers Vacation 2025 : Champagne Pussies, Foam Parties & Beach Orgies | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP204 – Cap d’Agde Swingers Vacation 2025: Champagne Pussies, Foam Parties & Beach Orgies Is Cap d’Agde still the world’s most infamous swingers paradise — or is it just overpriced rosé, half-empty nightclubs, and sunburnt nudists with GoPros? We’re back from France with 69 sexy humans in tow, ready to spill the champagne (literally) on what really went down at Europe’s biggest lifestyle playground. From Paris club nights to poolside anal, missed connections, VIP beach beds, and a finale party involving German neighbors, cheese, and pop rocks blowjobs — this trip had it all. Stick around for the segments: Paris Stopover Shenanigans – Les Chandelles on a Sunday, Darrell’s multi-orgasmic play, and why our group rocked the dress code fitBabylone Nights – The champagne pussy, Cate’s open-crotch challenge, and poolside daisy chainsPool Parties & Orgies – Floating blowjobs, public anal, and our DIY beachside orgyFoam Party Madness – cancelled, then back on, then VIP bed debauchery with a Canadian twistFinale Night – cheese, wine, pop rocks, and bouncy ball dick riding What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Why Cap isn’t luxury… but it is unforgettable Public sex etiquette at pool parties The difference between French and Canadian play styles Cate’s inevitable UTI (yes, again) Tips for booking VIP beds, blending in, and keeping the vibe fun Success tips for those thinking of going to Cap D'Agde as a Swinger Useful Links from this Episode: Cap d’Agde: The Ultimate Swingers GuideLe Glamour Swingers Club Cap d’Agde ReviewPatreon – Behind the Scenes Costumes & PhotosJoin Us at Cap d’Agde 2026 – Libertine Events Newsletter Tags: Swinger Podcast, Cap d’Agde Swingers, Cap d’Agde Naturist Village, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Cap d’Agde Nudist Travel, Lifestyle Travel Podcast, Non-Monogamy Podcast, European Swingers Resorts, Swingers France, Wanderlust Swingers, Swinger Vacations, Hotwife Podcast, Lifestyle Group Play, Foam Party Stories, Sex Club Adventures | 56m 44s | ||||||
| 8/13/25 | ![]() Cap d’Agde A UK Swingers Experience | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP203 – Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor? We’re diving into France’s infamous "Naked City" with first-timers Ben & Kate from the UK—sharing what it’s really like to strip down, party hard, and play freely in one of the world’s most iconic non-monogamous travel destinations. From body confidence wobbles to naked grocery runs, group foam party flings, and boundary-testing solo play, this episode is equal parts hilarious, sexy, and honest AF. Stick around for the segments: Hot Seat Quickies – foam or finesse? Nudity or nightlife? Sexy surprises and flirty regrets. Guess Who: Cap d’Agde Edition – is that a mesh thong and too much cologne, or are we imagining things? Prison Wallets & Pool Parties – yes, that’s a thing. Yes, we explain it. No, you won’t forget it. The Moose Party & Babylon Vibes – what to expect, what to pack, and why you might never want to leave. Tips for Cap First-Timers – boundaries, blunders, solo moments, sneaky threesomes, and finding your tribe (while naked). Whether you're Cap-curious, dreaming of your first naked beach walk, or just here for the stories of awkward sex club tunnels and golden body jewelry envy—this episode delivers everything you didn’t read on the Cap d’Agde travel forums. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: The surprising psychology of public nudity Body image vs. body liberation Sexy moments, awkward encounters, and one creepy Dutch guy Connection vs. compersion in foursomes and solo play Why Cap is not just for swingers—and who it’s definitely not for Top Cap tips: what to pack, what to book, and what to avoid Useful Links from this Episode:Cap d’Agde The Ultimate Swingers Guide – https://wanderlustswingers.com/cap-dagde-the-ultimate-swingers-guide/ Libertine Events 2025 / 2026 Takeovers – https://libertineevents.com/Join the Conversation on Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/swingingdownunder Support the show + get exclusive bonus content:👉 Patreon – Wanderlust Swingers https://www.patreon.com/c/SwingingDownunder Tags:Swinger Podcast, Cap d’Agde Swingers, Cap d’Agde Naturist Village, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Cap d’Agde Nudist Travel, Lifestyle Travel Podcast, Non-Monogamy Podcast, European Swingers Resorts, Swingers France, Wanderlust Swingers, Swinger Vacations, Lifestyle Boundaries, Hotwife Travel, Group Play Stories, Lifestyle Tips | 50m 45s | ||||||
| 7/30/25 | ![]() Solo Hotwife Play Date | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP202 – Solo Hotwife Play Date: From Lingerie Nerves to a CU-soaked Finish Welcome to a juicy bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! In this unscheduled, unfiltered conversation, Cate takes us behind the scenes of her most recent solo hotwife play date—a sexy, nerve-wracking, pounding-filled night that left everyone hot, wet, and just a little bit awkward. From lingerie mishaps to ben wa balls, awkward flirting to explosive orgasms, this episode is a raw (sometimes hilariously chaotic) look at what it’s really like to go on a solo hotel date with a single guy. Darrell weighs in with his thoughts on compersion, the thrill of being included before and after, and what it's like when your partner comes home smelling like someone else’s cologne. Plus, a listener question dives into whether solo play still counts if it's only with people you've previously played with—and how to handle that tricky dynamic when it feels like freedom with limitations. In This Episode: 🔹 The real logistics of setting up a hotwife solo date🔹 How it feels to include your partner without them being there🔹 Play anxiety, body compliments, and sensual 69s🔹 The five-hour play session, the pounding, and the cum-soaked ending🔹 Why this listener’s question about “controlled solo play” hits close to home🔹 Red vs Black lingerie: how to ruin a sexy setup in two sentences🔹 Reclaiming sex or just raw excitement? Quick Links & Goodies: Get the behind-the-scenes pics + pre/post-play video on our Patreon https://www.patreon.com/c/SwingingDownunder Join our upcoming Swingers Events Libertine Events https://libertineevents.com/ Find out more about global events on our podcast website https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Coming Soon: August 6th: Our Paris & Cap d’Agde travel episode, recorded just before our return to the naked city! Whether you're hotwife curious, deep into the lifestyle, or just here for the chaos and chemistry—this episode is pure swinger gold. Tags:Hotwife Lifestyle, Hotwife Podcast, Solo Play in Swinging, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Compersion, Swinger Podcast, Wanderlust Swingers, Non-Monogamy Stories, Hotwife Playdate, Cuckquean, Open Relationship Podcast, Swinger Advice, Swinger Diary, Swinger Lifestyle Humor, Libertine Events | 55m 22s | ||||||
| 7/23/25 | ![]() Swinger Event Hosting Isn’t for the Weak | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP201 – Swinger Event Hosting Isn’t for the Weak Ever wondered what it really takes to host a swingers lifestyle event? From clogged toilets in lingerie to DJ sets soaked in sweat, this candid crossover with Mickey & Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast exposes the highs, lows, and hilariously gross realities of being a swingers event host. We’re pulling back the velvet curtain to share our wildest stories from hosting major lifestyle takeovers like Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Jamaica and Libertine Events Miami. You'll hear about guests gone rogue, glow-stick overkill, questionable hotel staff, and the unexpected emotional weight of managing relationship drama at sex-positive parties. Stick around for the segments: Top 5 Unsexiest Things We’ve Done at a Sexy Event What’s in Our Swinger Event Survival Kits? True or Trope? — a rapid-fire myth-busting game about lifestyle stereotypes If One More Person Asks Me To… (You know who you are) Toast, No Roast — our heartfelt shoutouts to guests who made it all worth it Tipsy Takeaways — advice for nervous newbies, returning guests & aspiring event hosts Whether you're a seasoned swinger, an aspiring event planner, or just here for the behind-the-scenes chaos, this episode is a laugh-out-loud, learn-a-lot look at what it takes to run the sexiest events on earth—without losing your mind (or your vibrator). What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Condom carnage and playroom clean-ups Conflict resolution and crying girls in the hallway Lifestyle myths: fact or fiction? Our ultimate swinger event survival kits (snacks, lube, Narcan, and more) How to be a better guest at lifestyle takeovers Gold-star hosting advice from three lifestyle veterans Useful Links from this Episode:Casual Swinger Podcast – https://casualswinger.com/Libertine Events Miami Swingers Takeover – https://libertineevents.com/miami/Libertine Events San Antonio Takeover – https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio/ Support the show + get exclusive bonus content:👉 Patreon – Wanderlust Swingers Tags:Swinger Podcast, Swingers Lifestyle Events, Hotwife Lifestyle, Casual Swinger Podcast, Libertine Events, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Non-Monogamy Podcast, Swingers Hotel Takeover, Lifestyle Hosting, Behind the Scenes, Hedonism Events, Swinger Myths, Playroom Stories, Open Relationships, Swinger Advice, Conflict Resolution in Swinging, Hotwife Fantasy, Lifestyle Survival Tips | 54m 38s | ||||||
| 7/9/25 | ![]() Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP200 – Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks In our 200th episode, Cate and Darrell reflect on a decade in the lifestyle — and ask: can old swingers learn new tricks? From awkward dress-downs and single-guy overloads to sexy vibes, secret blowjobs, and diverse party crowds, this one is packed. We hit up three different swingers clubs in three weeks, including CitySwingers in Copenhagen (a real let down), Party Players in the Netherlands (a sexy swingers club but not a swingers event), and finally the X Club in Toronto — where a hotwife glory hole scene played out in real-time. You’ll also hear about: What makes a club feel sexy (or not) Swingers vs. sex clubs: what’s the difference? Party diversity, drug culture at events, and the illusion of no-phone policies Cate’s secret hotwife escapade: from business-bitch lingerie to anonymous cock sucking Plus, we tease what’s ahead for Cap d’Agde, share a major Libertine Events milestone, and celebrate hitting 200 episodes without a single piña colada spilled on the mic. Cheers, you filthy animals. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Swingers Clubs Reviewed – CitySwingers (Copenhagen), Party Players (NL), and The X Club (Toronto) Dress Down Disasters – From mismatched underwear to sensory shutdowns Hotwife Glory Hole Fantasy – Cate and a stranger's cock, one hole, zero hesitation Diversity Wins – Why inclusive swinger parties feel better Behind the Curtain – Real talk on party rules, event polish, and the drug-vibe spectrum Useful Links from this Episode: Support Us + Access Exclusive Content - https://patreon.com/swingingdownunder X Club Tour on YouTube - https://youtu.be/YFmlAlm42E0?si=-h1iBPwUTnIVoI63 X Club Toronto Website - https://www.thexclub.net/ Party Players Lelystad (Netherlands) - https://partyplayers.nl/ CitySwingers Copenhagen (Denmark) - https://www.swingeren.dk/ Libertine Events – Swingers Takeovers & Parties - https://libertineevents.com Contact Us - email@wanderlustswingers.com Tags: Swinger Podcast, Hotwife Lifestyle, Glory Hole Story, Swingers Club Reviews, Wanderlust Swingers, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Non-Monogamy Podcast, Lifestyle Events, Open Relationships, Party Players, X Club Toronto, CitySwingers, Sex Club vs Swingers Club, Hotwife Fantasy, Diversity in Swinging, Libertine Events | 35m 48s | ||||||
| 6/25/25 | ![]() Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP199 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle In this episode, Cate and Darrell dive into the psychology and practicality of spontaneous vs. responsive desire — and how this can make or break your experiences in the lifestyle. Whether you're the one who’s ready to go at the first flash of lingerie or someone who needs the right mood, connection, or even lunch before feeling sexy, we explore what it all means for swingers navigating clubs, hotel takeovers, and multi-day events. We also update you on the notorious dildo from the last episode — yes, Cate used it. Was it sexy? Science-y? Did it cause a UTI? (Spoiler: yes to all of the above). Plus, you’ll hear about Cate’s surprise visit to a Canadian club, her puffed-up chipmunk face courtesy of the Dutch healthcare system, and a viral Facebook video that got her slapped with a ‘bullying’ violation. You can’t make this stuff up. Finally, we tackle a fantastic listener question: Why are we pickier on dating sites than in real life? Is it about spontaneity, judgment, or just too many filters? What you’ll hear in this episode: The Dildo Debrief – Cate puts the giant toy to the test (with help) and shares the honest, messy aftermath Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire – What it means, how to spot it in yourself or your partner, and how it plays out at lifestyle events Desire Mismatches – What to do when one partner is ready to pounce and the other needs time to warm up Listener Q&A – Why are we all trolls online? Cate reflects on being pickier in apps than IRL, and what that says about connection Be A Better Swinger Tips – Learn your desire style and how to meet each other in the middle (without pressure) Links: Website: www.wanderlustswingers.comYouTube: Wanderlust Swingers on YouTubeLibertine Events – Texas Takeover: https://libertineevents.com/sanantonioEmail: email@wanderlustswingers.comSupport us & see the uncensored dildo pics: patreon.com/swingingdownunder Are you spontaneous or responsive? Tell us what turns you on, how you navigate mismatched desire with your partner, or what you’ve learned in your own lifestyle journey — we love hearing your stories and insights. Tags: Spontaneous Desire, Responsive Desire, Swinger Podcast, Hotwife Lifestyle, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Events, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotel Takeovers, Sex Toy Reviews, Open Relationships, Lifestyle Club Tips, Group Play, Swingers Communication, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Desire Mismatch, Cap d’Agde, Sexual Compatibility | 32m 45s | ||||||
| 5/28/25 | ![]() Cap D Agde Desires, What’s in the Box and How to Small Talk | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP198 – Cap D Agde Desires, What’s in the Box and How to Small Talk Cate’s fresh back from Miami (just her this time!) and while we only touch on that wild weekend, we’re diving deep into what’s really heating things up: our return to Cap d’Agde in 2025, a brand new sex toy, and Darrell’s spicy fantasy. In this episode, Darrell receives a mystery box that leaves Cate both suspicious and very curious. Spoiler alert: it’s a new toy — but it’s not one we’ve ever used before. Unboxing it live kicks off a conversation about impulse sexy buys, techy pleasure, and how this toy might play into fantasy fufillment. We’re also answering a great listener question from a hotwife couple in New Zealand: How do you make small talk in the lifestyle when talking about work and kids feels out of place? From flirting in loud clubs to deep connection at weekend events, we’ve got practical tips, sexy one-liners, and a few hilarious fails to share. And finally — we’re going back to the Naked City! Cap d’Agde 2025 is on the horizon and we’re already fantasizing about beachside play, group massages, and balcony sex in the hot Mediterranean sun. This isn’t just a trip — it’s a sexual state of mind. What you’ll hear in this episode: Mystery Box Reveal: Darrell’s new toy arrives and Cate’s imagination runs wild Lifestyle Small Talk: Flirty questions, fun energy, and how to connect without asking about someone’s 9–5 Cap d’Agde Desires: Why we’re going back and what (or who) we want to do when we get there Darrell’s Fantasy: How we're fulfilling it without putting anyone at risk Be A Better Swinger Tips: Mindset matters — whether it’s packing for Cap or chatting up couples at a club Links: Website: www.wanderlustswingers.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingersLibertine Events – Texas Takeover: https://libertineevents.com/sanantonioEmail: email@wanderlustswingers.com Are you coming to Cap d’Agde in 2025? Do you have a fantasy you’re dying to try? Or want to see what was in the box? Drop us a line — we love hearing from you! Tags:Cap d’Agde, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Hotwife Lifestyle, Sex Toy Reviews, Fantasy Play, Open Relationships, Swingers Club Tips, Lifestyle Small Talk, Hotel Takeovers, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Libertine Events, Voyeurism, Group Play, New Sex Toys | 53m 42s | ||||||
| 5/14/25 | ![]() Sexual Trauma and the Swinger Lifestyle: What You Need to Know | How does sexual trauma affect your lifestyle journey? Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual trauma, abuse, and emotional triggers. Please take care while listening. In this vulnerable and powerful episode, Cate is joined by trauma-informed coach Meshai from Expansive Connection to explore what happens when past trauma meets lifestyle play. Cate also shares her personal experience with sexual trauma — opening up publicly for the first time. Whether you’re navigating your own healing, supporting a partner, or just want to be a more compassionate and informed member of the lifestyle, this conversation is essential. What we cover:✔ What sexual trauma looks like in lifestyle spaces✔ Common triggers during play or events✔ What partners and playmates need to understand✔ Cate’s story✔ How to create trauma-aware swinger environments✔ Supporting survivors without needing every detail✔ Why trauma must be part of the conversation✔ Real tools for safer play and stronger connections Resources & Support:1800Respect – www.1800respect.org.au | 1800 737 732RAINN – www.rainn.org | 800-656-HOPERape Crisis UK – www.rapecrisis.org.ukSurvivorsUK (for men) – www.survivorsuk.org Let’s talk about it.Share this episode with your partner, club community, or friends in the lifestyle.The more we talk, the safer we all become. Join us in Texas https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio/ Website: www.wanderlustswingers.comInstagram https://www.instagram.com/swingingdownunder Twitter https://twitter.com/swingdownunder TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wanderlustswingers YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShamelessNonMonogamywithSDU Tags:Sexual Trauma, Swinger Lifestyle, Trauma-Informed Play, Non-Monogamy, Consent Culture, PTSD and Sex, Ethical Swinging, Open Relationships, Trauma Support, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast | 42m 24s | ||||||
| 5/8/25 | ![]() Rediscovering Soft Swap at a Swingers Club Fun4Two Netherlands | Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Cate and Darrell revisit soft swap play for the first time in seven years — and it happened at none other than Fun4Two, the iconic swingers club in the Netherlands. What started as a night out turned into a wildly sensual experience filled with connection, chemistry, a six-handed massage… and yes, some cum on the floor. We explore the dynamics of soft swap play, the assumptions people make about it, and whether full swap couples are missing out by skipping over these intimate encounters. Cate also makes a hilarious faux pas, and offers a boss-level club tour move, and together they reflect on how chemistry can totally eclipse categories. Here’s what you’ll hear: 🔹 The Night at Fun4Two: From flirting at the bar to hands-on tantra and one unforgettable group experience🔹 Soft Swap Revisited: Why it felt complete, hot, and unexpectedly fulfilling — even without PIV🔹 Redefining the Rules: Thoughts on how vague soft swap definitions can create confusion and missed connections🔹 Club Tips: How to stand out in a room full of lingerie and boots 🔹 Red Flags, Green Flags & Play Pitfalls: Advice for newbies and seasoned swingers alike🔹 Listener Reflections: Juicy comments from the community about the pros and cons of soft swap dynamics Plus, life updates! Cate’s heading to Miami, Darrell’s off to South Korea, and someone just turned 40… but we’re not talking about that, okay? Links: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WanderlustSwingersWebsite: www.wanderlustswingers.comJoin us in Texas this October - Libertine Events : https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio Is soft swap the underrated gem of the swinger world? Rediscover it with us in this sexy, playful, and thought-provoking episode. Tags: Soft Swap, Swinger Club Play, Full Swap vs. Soft Swap, Fun4Two, Swinger Podcast, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Hotwife Stories, Open Relationships, Lifestyle Tips, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Non-Monogamous Adventures | 57m 45s | ||||||
| 4/23/25 | ![]() Fighting for Freedom: Wicked Fun Club vs. the Town of Plymouth | In this important episode, Cate speaks with Steve Gagne, owner of Wicked Fun Club, a private members-only lifestyle venue in Connecticut that has recently been issued a cease and desist order by the Town of Plymouth. Only five months into a three-year lease, the club is now in the midst of a legal and political battle that raises serious questions about privacy, zoning laws, and stigma against non-monogamous communities. Steve shares what really happened, how it’s affecting the club and its members, and what the community can do to support. This episode goes beyond local politics—it's a wake-up call for everyone in the lifestyle. “This story isn’t just about one club in one town—it’s about how adult freedom, privacy, and community values clash in the real world. Whether you're in Connecticut or California, we all have a stake in the lifestyle's right to exist safely and respectfully.” ~ Cate, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast In this episode, we cover: What Wicked Fun Club is and who it serves The zoning issue and cease and desist order Tensions between the club, the landlord, and the neighboring church The broader impact on lifestyle members and safe spaces The current appeal process What support is needed from the non-monogamous community How this story affects the lifestyle space nationwide Links and Resources:Wicked Fun Club Website: https://wickedfunclub.comNews article on the shutdown: NBC ConnecticutReddit review thread: r/Swingers discussionLearn about club rights: https://ncsfreedom.org Stay Connected:Instagram: @swingingdownunderTwitter: @swingdownunderWebsite: https://wanderlustswingers.com Enjoying the show?Please subscribe, share, and leave us a review wherever you listen. Your support helps amplify important conversations like this one. | 30m 42s | ||||||
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