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Mandii B and Weezy are joined by doula, author, and women’s health educator Erica Chidi for a conversation about knowing your body, asking for what you want, and refusing to audition for love. Erica opens up about her marriage to a man, exploring non-monogamy, and the breakup conversation that helped her embrace being gay. The three debate whether the right partner can change your relationship style, why foreplay deserves a rethink, and how outercourse can become the main event. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Connie of First Date Diaries is back, and even Mandii and Weezy have questions about where the freak flag stops flying. The trio gets into sleeping with friends, working as a sex-party guardian, and the wild encounters that put everyone’s boundaries to the test. Plus, degradation that feels a little too personal, London versus New York nightlife, and why Hollywood keeps getting kink wrong. Beneath the outrageous stories is a real conversation about consent, accountability, and knowing your limits. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B opens with an important Breast Cancer Awareness Month screening information [ 00:47 ] before previewing the week’s topics [ 01:12 ] and joining A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee for some back-in-New-York banter [ 02:49 ]. The crew recaps CultureCon with the Spill app [ 05:07 ], praising its sexual-health advocacy while critiquing event logistics [ 07:45 ], panel value and press-run fatigue [ 11:30 ], and ticket prices—with a vodka debate mixed in [ 15:14 ]. From there, they question growing concerns around food safety and lab-grown foods [ 20:14 ], including federally approved lab-grown egg alternatives, labeling practices, and how consumers know what they’re actually eating [ 23:49 ], before connecting the confusion to corporate profit motives [27:40 ]. The main conversation centers on the Cornell Seven civil case [ 28:13 ], sparking a deeper discussion about consent when alcohol or drugs are involved [ 29:14 ], rape culture and who society chooses to believe [ 31:37 ], and the role of alleged group-chat evidence [ 35:11 ]. They examine proposed changes to New York consent law involving voluntary versus involuntary intoxication [ 39:09 ], discuss safety and consent when someone is blackout intoxicated [40:33 ], and debate empathy, dating red flags [ 48:35 ], justice, and the dangers of relying on hypotheticals when evaluating harm [ 53:06 ]. The conversation continues with a Georgia former jail employee required to register as a sex offender following a sexual relationship with an inmate [ 57:39 ], as the crew emphasizes how authority and incarceration create power dynamics that complicate meaningful consent [ 01:00:57 ], examines the relevant Georgia statute [ 01:06:52 ], and adds some humor with a Jailhouse Temptations detour [ 01:08:13 ]. The episode then shifts to the NFL after Houston Texans linebacker Azeez Al-Shaair was reportedly told by an official to remove the name of a Palestinian child from his eye black [ 01:09:59 ], prompting a discussion about political expression, censorship, and reflexive defensiveness [ 01:11:51 ]. Later, the hosts react to viral claims that Black men are “hard to love” [ 01:18:22 ] and question the rise of dating gurus, relationship experts, and online grifters [ 01:23:57 ] before unpacking actor Da’Vinchi’s comments about work ethic, Black Americans, and the African diaspora [ 01:26:33 ]. They push for more nuance around culture, opportunity, immigration, and work ethic [ 01:30:14 ], then close with resources surrounding campus sexual assault, voting reminders, and support for Selective Ignorance in the Signal Awards [ 01:38:57 ]. Be sure to vote for Selective Ignorance in the Signal Awards:  Selective Ignorance With Mandii B in the Craft - Best Host (Culture) Category  Selective Ignorance With Mandii B in the Genre - Conversation Starter Category  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Would you take your ex back to split the bills? Mandii B and Weezy help a listener choosing between her child’s father and a new man who wants a vegan, off-the-grid lifestyle. From confusing good co-parenting with romantic compatibility to sacrificing your happiness for financial stability, the ladies unpack when choosing yourself means choosing neither. Send us your questions [email protected]  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and guest artist Akeem Ali, who previews his upcoming fall tour [ 00:44 ][ 02:53 ]. After debating the workweek and distractions [ 06:32 ] and reacting to major cocaine seizures at U.S. ports [ 09:38 ], the crew questions why “partner” has become a popular label for significant others [ 12:26 ]. They defend personal boundaries while discussing Cardi B swiping away a fan who touched her [ 22:11 ], meet-and-greet horror stories [ 26:28 ], fan entitlement and parasocial behavior [ 27:20 ], and even photo etiquette at clothing-optional resorts [ 30:39 ]. In “This Is America,” they react to Converse apologizing for a Chuck 70 X campaign image featuring K-pop star Karina that critics said evoked racist imagery [ 31:43 ], as Akeem questions whether outrage can become a marketing strategy [ 33:04 ]. The conversation expands to the effectiveness of boycotts [ 39:00 ] and why culturally aware creatives and diverse decision-makers need to be “in the room” before campaigns go public [ 42:02 ]. Technology takes over as the crew reacts to warnings about increasingly autonomous AI agents [ 45:03 ], imagining their impact on dating and everyday life [ 47:23 ], deepfakes and robotics [ 52:44 ], futuristic nanotechnology [ 55:59 ], and fears surrounding Neuralink and brain-computer interfaces [ 56:30 ]. A run of classic Selective Ignorance tangents covers drugs and productivity [ 57:43 ], psychedelics and the brain [ 59:36 ], pineal-gland and wisdom-teeth theories [01:02:50 ], Chick-fil-A conspiracies [ 01:04:52 ], human-meat rumors [ 01:08:46 ], and America compared with other countries [ 01:13:44 ]. The final stretch examines Chris Brown criticizing Texas Rep. Venton Jones after Jones apologized for participating in an official recognition of Brown [ 01:18:24 ], moving through responsibility [ 01:21:35], repeated second chances [ 01:22:20 ], accountability versus advocacy [ 01:23:56 ], public grace for Black men [01:25:26 ], and Brown’s past controversies [ 01:26:40 ]. They close by unpacking Macklemore’s removal from Ed Sheeran’s U.S. tour following his pro-Palestinian remarks [ 01:30:54 ], debating politics on concert stages [ 01:33:55], intent versus impact [ 01:35:38 ], Robert Kraft’s involvement and humanitarian donations [ 01:37:28 ], and fears surrounding political speech and accusations [ 01:42:11 ], before wrapping with Akeem Ali’s tour plug [ 01:48:27 ]. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of You Got Decisions, a 24-year-old listener loves his girlfriend but is bored, tempted to cheat, and still living with her parents. Mandii B and Weezy unpack whether his seven-year relationship needs a reset or an exit, debating open relationships, mismatched goals, and whether marriage and baby plans should come before financial stability.  Send us your questions [email protected]  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Send us your questions [email protected]  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Killah Bee joins Mandii B and Weezy WTF for a hilarious and unfiltered conversation about whether sex-positive women can still find lasting love, when women should stop dating men for their potential, and why lifestyle compatibility can matter more than a paycheck. The trio debates body counts, dating 9-to-5 workers, male best friends with house keys, the lack of attractive men in Atlanta, and how porn can affect pleasure. Killah Bee also reveals why she once tried dating women, Weezy shares a wild story from a gay club, and the episode ends with a brutally funny hookup story involving a man begging his sister for $20. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.