Good Moms Bad Choices

Happy hump day, Tribe! This week, the Good Moms are asking a different kind of question: Are we over-inspired, under-nourished, and done settling for dusty men and outdated rules? The moms also open up about parents, politics, and generational disconnect... from Fox News grandmas and Spencer Pratt on the ballot to dads who “don’t see color” but listen to Kevin Samuels. They talk about realizing your parents might be emotionally stuck in another era, and how to break those patterns with your own kids.   In this episode, you’ll hear: Why so many women are choosing celibacy or simply refusing to settle How patriarchy, whiteness, and slavery shaped the emotional lives of Black men The impact of porn, social media, and constant scrolling on real intimacy Voting chaos, political confusion, and realizing most people never question the rules Parenting preteens, talking about crushes, and not repeating our parents’ mistakes Feeling “over-inspired and under-nourished” by the internet and seeking solitude How to create a self-pleasure ritual that supports orgasm, not just fast release The connection between orgasm, God, trauma release, and real spiritual healing   This episode is for women in their “I’m overwhelmed but still evolving” era who are questioning dusty dating norms, unpacking generational bullshit, craving real connection (with themselves, their kids, and their pleasure), and feel over-stimulated by the internet but deeply ready to choose softness, safety, and self-devotion instead. --------------------------------------------- Watch this episode and more on YouTube.   Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.   Join our private Facebook group and drop your anonymous advice questions, secrets, or mom vents. --------------------------------------------- JOIN US ON OUR NEXT GOOD VIBE RETREAT!!   🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 14–19: Mommy and Me Retreat Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.   🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 24–29: Reset and Vibe Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women. Apply for "The Play" Matrix Juneteenth Play Party , June 19th, 2026 in LA hosted by Milah celebrate a night of freedom with pleasure and play 😈 https://theplay.la/apply/   Connect with us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @MILAH_MAPPSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy Hump Day, Tribe. This week, Good Moms talk about what dating actually looks like when you’re a parent (the boundaries, the red flags, the late-night texts). The balance between protecting your peace and still wanting to feel something. Erica and Milah share five dating tips for single parents, not from a rule book, but from lived experience. If you’re outside, cautiously outside, or just thinking about stepping back in… this one’s for you. In this episode the ladies talk about: Why dating to be “saved” always backfires Learning how to be alone (and why it becomes fun when you make it a vibe) Being honest from the start and dating from a friendship-first foundation How to spot double standards, and red flags before you’re attached Why you should never blend families too fast or “play house” too soon -------------------------- Watch This episode & more on YouTube!  Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp ------------------------------------------ PATREON Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Erica and Milah sit down with Lizzy Jeff. The ladies talk about what it’s like to build something over a long period of time, how priorities change as you get older, and the quiet shifts that happen when you stop forcing yourself into certain timelines. The conversation moves through aging, work, creativity, femininity, and cannabis culture, with Lizzy sharing stories from her 10 years building Zen & Kush and what she’s noticing now about rest, embodiment, and how her body plays a role in decision-making. They also touch on relationships, partnership, and how being clear about what you want can look different in each phase of life.   In this episode, you can expect to hear: What it actually takes to sustain a creative project over a decade Conversations about getting older and rethinking timelines around success and life How femininity, leadership, and sensuality can exist at the same time Cannabis as part of ritual, culture, and community Thoughts on rest, embodiment, and listening to your body Reflections on love, dating, and clarity around relationships -------------------- Watch This episode & more on YouTube!  Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp ------------------------------------------ PATREON Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, Good Moms return from a surprise elopement weekend in Las Vegas that included mob wives fits, drunk zip-lining, stripper heels at the altar, joint bachelor/bachelorette shenanigans, and decisions that absolutely lived up to the podcast name!  This is your reminder that being authentic does pay off! Cheers to Milah & Orlando! The Tribe loves you both very much!  ---------- This is your reminder to honor who you are now, not who you think you’re supposed to be.  Watch This episode & more on YouTube!  Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @Milah_Mapp ------------------------------------------ 🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (Sold Out) April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat  Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat. 🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (4 LEFT- added spots)  July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica  Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.